37 years old american woman fooled by 22 egyptian guy

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american woman

Cairo, Egypt

#1 Apr 27, 2008
so i am looking 2 share experience with all of you in my shoes 37 years old american woman was decieved by an internet relationship with a 22 egyptian guy looking to hear from women in my shoees
lisa

Whittier, CA

#2 Apr 28, 2008
Tell me what happened that you were fooled?
A RAB

Georgetown, KY

#3 Apr 28, 2008
lisa wrote:
Tell me what happened that you were fooled?
Hi Lisa
Ello

Manchester, UK

#4 May 1, 2008
^^lol^^post on ES they are sure to greet you ,you may evern get accused of being a madhatter .My son is 24 years old and im never dream of looking anywhere near there even if i had feelings .Forgodsake my son loves a hug from his mother from time to time .Ewww

Since: Apr 08

Edegem, Belgium

#5 May 2, 2008
americai women, please tell us more about your story?
Realme

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

#6 May 28, 2008
its seems like Dr.Phil show abdullah and krsitina

American complete you're story
Amon

Egypt

#7 May 28, 2008
This is a lame board
curious

Brampton, Canada

#8 May 28, 2008
american woman wrote:
so i am looking 2 share experience with all of you in my shoes 37 years old american woman was decieved by an internet relationship with a 22 egyptian guy looking to hear from women in my shoees
American woman tell us how you were deceived by this man?
vic_Denmark

Denmark

#9 May 29, 2008
Hard to be a women !!!!
But tell pls.
Anne1

Woodbridge, Canada

#10 May 30, 2008
American woman....do tell your story...if you start a thread...and make this type of accusation...then do share, as there are many of us who love Egyptian men and have positive stories. All you have to do is read the threads and you will see tons of negative stories. My advice...just investigate and be sure of someone prior to getting involved as I did. Good Luck to you next time.
eglishrose

Kilwinning, UK

#12 Jun 10, 2008
american woman wrote:
so i am looking 2 share experience with all of you in my shoes 37 years old american woman was decieved by an internet relationship with a 22 egyptian guy looking to hear from women in my shoees
Please shed some light on this statment, I have a young egyptian boyfriend of 2 years, really loving attentive wanting now to get married. I am in my 40's, can it be possible that this gorgeous young man wants me for me? I am not some stupid english woman desperate for a man. My boyfriend and Ihave met many times, my heart tells me he is honest, but my head tells me to be cautious. PLEASE ELAVBORATE ON YOUR STATEMENT.

“Nothing More Than Truth Seeker”

Since: Mar 08

Alexandria

#13 Jun 11, 2008
eglishrose wrote:
<quoted text> Please shed some light on this statment, I have a young egyptian boyfriend of 2 years, really loving attentive wanting now to get married. I am in my 40's, can it be possible that this gorgeous young man wants me for me? I am not some stupid english woman desperate for a man. My boyfriend and Ihave met many times, my heart tells me he is honest, but my head tells me to be cautious. PLEASE ELAVBORATE ON YOUR STATEMENT.
American or English women in intimate relationships with younger EGyptian guys;

ask yourself:

Is this young man financially secure? coming from a welloff family? Has his own car, his own apartment if not mansion? has well-paiyng job? has good education?

simply can live "independently"?

If the answers with No

So, He whoever that He, is considering yu as a Savior to lift him from a desparate unknown destiny to easy access for financial success in either America or Europe.

If the answers the otherwise Yes
He can be considered as financially independent
He has financial resources, job/family heritage
so, he could be "honest" in getting attached to you.

I will never forget an American lady, was a little older than me, upper middle class, she used to come over from a town 40 miles north from where I was studying in America, and knowing me as a graduate student with limited financial resources, still before she was served she enjoyed my paiying for our dinning out in a classy restaurant. She used to ask me to come in my vacations to stay at her mansion as her hubby knew about me but I was too coward to accept such invitation/situation.

Yu can test him by letting him pay for yr dinning out/buying a dress/or whatever, then tentatively observe his reactions.

Since: Mar 08

Egypt

#14 Jun 17, 2008
Probably he is using you.
If he is much younger. I know some some marry women a little older and things work out and they have family and things end up ok.

Usually no, it turns out badly and the man just using the woman to get his prize, a visa or money.
The chances that he is honest is so very small.

If you want to see if he is honest you can test him but if you are 10 years or more older don't even bother, just believe me, he's using you. It's not an age thing it's a culture and tradition thing. It's taboo to them so they use you because they know you are desperate for love and romance.
Sad.
aya

Egypt

#15 Jun 18, 2008
eglishrose wrote:
<quoted text> Please shed some light on this statment, I have a young egyptian boyfriend of 2 years, really loving attentive wanting now to get married. I am in my 40's, can it be possible that this gorgeous young man wants me for me? I am not some stupid english woman desperate for a man. My boyfriend and Ihave met many times, my heart tells me he is honest, but my head tells me to be cautious. PLEASE ELAVBORATE ON YOUR STATEMENT.
go to http://buitenlandsepartnerbe.yourbb.nl/index....
Its a Dutch site against "bezness"with an English topic, here you can write your story and ask questions on the forum or pb
Cookie Monster

Etobicoke, Canada

#16 Jun 24, 2008
Ha! So predictable, let me guess...you met him online?:))))
Colette

Vancouver, Canada

#17 Jun 30, 2008
I met my Egyptian husband ONLINE 8 years ago. We have many many years difference. And everything is fine. Why do you generalize? Every story is different. I met men in Canada - and I was married 25 years with a born Canadian man. We try to be as much as possible in Egypt because he misses his country very much. But for family reasons (mine), we need to be here for a few more years. I know many people who met ONLINE. 8 years ago I was the exception, now corresponding online for a while is better in my opinion than any jerk found in a bar. Egyptian men are like Canadian men: they are men. Some are honest and some are not. Stop the bashing please!!!!!

Since: Mar 08

Egypt

#18 Jul 1, 2008
The MAJORITY Colette aren't going to be as snazzy as yours. It is responsible to warn women how much using goes on. There is a chance for a nice guy, but I would say it is less than 5%, so consider yourself lucky and smile.
You are wrong, Canadian men and Egyptian men are NOT the same, whatsoever.
aya

Egypt

#19 Jul 1, 2008
waterproof eyeliner wrote:
The MAJORITY Colette aren't going to be as snazzy as yours. It is responsible to warn women how much using goes on. There is a chance for a nice guy, but I would say it is less than 5%, so consider yourself lucky and smile.
You are wrong, Canadian men and Egyptian men are NOT the same, whatsoever.
I completely agree,
Sheena Malaysia

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#20 Jul 8, 2008
american woman wrote:
so i am looking 2 share experience with all of you in my shoes 37 years old american woman was decieved by an internet relationship with a 22 egyptian guy looking to hear from women in my shoees
Be very careful, be very wary of things he says and does...continous lying seems to be a survival character for them....personally i am just about to come out from the heart breaking situation with a 24 year old egyptian guy from Zigazig i met thru the internet brought me. In short, I paid for him to come to Malaysia as the chatting has lead to a relationship leading to marriage. I am a divorcee and boy did I fell for this guy or what...call me stupid but this was decreed to be. Once he got to Malaysia, he demands just about everything under the sky...paid for his apartmnet and all the new furnishings and goods to make his life comfortable before we got married. Then had to give him money so he can renew his visit visa...was I in for a surprise...he went with another Malaysian lady who was 3 years younger then me whom, now i know, he has been dating on the pretext of business. Apparently, they have been sleeping together without my knowledge. After the overseas trip, he was adamant about needing money to run the business with his friend in USA and need to make money so he could prove to my family that he is capable to take care of me and will let him marry me. On this reasons and that I really cared about him, I gave him the money he needed...and I was in for a big surprise when his landlord informed me he just got married 1 day before i gave him the money for our future life and 1 day after he moved out from the apartment i rented for him with all the things i bought for us and my brand new laptop and broadband...that almost killed a 42 years old woman from major heartbreak. Now i do not know where he is but I am sure he has spent my hard earn cash well on the other woman, whom he has called fat and ugly to me to divert my attention.
ahmed

Cairo, Egypt

#21 Aug 10, 2008
i hope u
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