My Boyfriend Is Racist

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Dotti

Australia

#1 Jan 15, 2013
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.

Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
Good Aussies

United States

#2 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
If you are too bigoted, intolerant and self hating I think he should dump you pronto.
Magura

Absecon, NJ

#3 Jan 15, 2013
Leave your boyfriend he is not a good person.
Good Aussies

Anonymous Proxy

#5 Jan 15, 2013
Noting that different races are, well, different, is not a sign of a bad person.

Neither is noting threats from other groups against your race.

In fact it makes you a man.
FESTERED GANGHI TURD

Australia

#6 Jan 15, 2013
I bet he's got some more than valid points not too many people like theese dirty Africans LET ME TELL YOU
Tasty

Rooty Hill, Australia

#7 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
You should dump him. He'll always hate your friends and he'll talk jibberish about them
Tasty

Rooty Hill, Australia

#8 Jan 15, 2013
Alternatively, you could have sex with one from an "inferior race" in front of him. The footage would make million$.

“Potts Point”

Since: Dec 12

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#10 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
See my thread on how low IQ causes racism. If you can make him see how illogical and unintelligent it is to have a belief in concepts of racial superiority based on outdated 19th century social constructs, he may see the error in his thinking.

If not dump him, because he will pass on his bigoted brain and anti-social attitude on to his kids, and you don't want to be investing your life rearing a family of low intellects terrified of their own shadows, with a bleak outlook on life. Racists also tend to adopt all the other prejudices like homophobia and misogyny. So good chance he might end becoming a wife beater, who violently terrorizes his family with accusations of being gay or mixing brown people. Spare yourself the suffering and embarrassment, and choose better genes for your future offspring.

“Potts Point”

Since: Dec 12

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#12 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
See my thread on how low IQ causes racism. If you can make him see how illogical and unintelligent it is to have a belief in concepts of racial superiority based on outdated 19th century social constructs, he may see the error in his thinking.

If not dump him, because he will pass on his bigoted brain and anti-social attitude on to his kids, and you don't want to be investing your life rearing a family of low intellects terrified of their own shadows, with a bleak outlook on life. Racists also tend to adopt all the other prejudices like homophobia and misogyny. So good chance he might end becoming a wife beater, who violently terrorizes his family with accusations of being gay or mixing with brown people. Spare yourself the suffering and embarrassment, and choose better genes for your future offspring.
Elias

Glen Waverley, Australia

#14 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
My boyfriend? weren't you an Australian male posting from Chatswood yesterday?
ruby

Syracuse, UT

#15 Jan 15, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
Why would you want to keep "this relationship going"?
Rabies

Kellyville, Australia

#17 Jan 15, 2013
He is a good ozzie bloke and you don't deserve him. There are plenty of good chicks out there that don't support the polluting of our gene pool. He should piss you off ASAP.
Dotti

Australia

#18 Jan 16, 2013
ruby wrote:
<quoted text>Why would you want to keep "this relationship going"?
Not sure now.
sid

Brisbane, Australia

#19 Jan 16, 2013
PaulKeating wrote:
<quoted text>
See my thread on how low IQ causes racism. If you can make him see how illogical and unintelligent it is to have a belief in concepts of racial superiority based on outdated 19th century social constructs, he may see the error in his thinking.
If not dump him, because he will pass on his bigoted brain and anti-social attitude on to his kids, and you don't want to be investing your life rearing a family of low intellects terrified of their own shadows, with a bleak outlook on life. Racists also tend to adopt all the other prejudices like homophobia and misogyny. So good chance he might end becoming a wife beater, who violently terrorizes his family with accusations of being gay or mixing with brown people. Spare yourself the suffering and embarrassment, and choose better genes for your future offspring.
For someone that claims to be one of the intellectually elite you make some of the most unbelievably stupid generalisation,
Pitball

Perth, Australia

#21 Jan 16, 2013
Good Aussies wrote:
Noting that different races are, well, different, is not a sign of a bad person.
Neither is noting threats from other groups against your race.
In fact it makes you a man.
It makes you a coward and a loser who hides behind the group instead of being yourself!

It's funny I worked the door with a dude who had the nazi symbol tattooed to him. The gutless shit never said any thing to my face. Apparently he used to think it was funny to talk shit about us behind our back,

Needless to say he got his ass kicked at the willigee during pay day. One of the islanders knocked him out cold.

Funny how weak and pathetic the aryan race is.
Pitball

Perth, Australia

#22 Jan 16, 2013
Rabies wrote:
He is a good ozzie bloke and you don't deserve him. There are plenty of good chicks out there that don't support the polluting of our gene pool. He should piss you off ASAP.
Girls line up. This really all comes down to penis envy.

And basic dominance.

You leprechauns are pritty small people so....

Your gene pool is the weakest genes I have ever seen.

Have you seen the documentary knuckle. It's pathetic piss heads who can't fight. Just a bunch of budgies who sqwak sqwak sqwak...

The truth is there scared shitless because they know there helpless children in this world.

It's just Darwinism accept you lot had it upside down.

Whites are the weakest
curious

Melbourne, Australia

#24 Jan 16, 2013
PaulKeating wrote:
<quoted text>
See my thread on how low IQ causes racism. If you can make him see how illogical and unintelligent it is to have a belief in concepts of racial superiority based on outdated 19th century social constructs, he may see the error in his thinking.
If not dump him, because he will pass on his bigoted brain and anti-social attitude on to his kids, and you don't want to be investing your life rearing a family of low intellects terrified of their own shadows, with a bleak outlook on life. Racists also tend to adopt all the other prejudices like homophobia and misogyny. So good chance he might end becoming a wife beater, who violently terrorizes his family with accusations of being gay or mixing with brown people. Spare yourself the suffering and embarrassment, and choose better genes for your future offspring.
What race are you assuming the boyfriend is?

Since: Jan 12

Where The Wild Things Grow

#25 Jan 16, 2013
Dotti wrote:
Argh, my new boyfriend turns out to have these crazy racist views which I am having problems dealing with. Would this be a deal-breaker for anyone - it nearly is for me? I know he wouldn't abuse anyone, verbally or physically, but he told me he believes that some races are superior to others, even though he 'hates to be right' on this, it is just a fact. I told him that I completely disagreed, that many of my friends are of diffrent various ethnicities, my bestfriend is Jewish (in his opinion the worst race). He said he would still be nice to them when he met them, because there are exceptions, but as a rule he doesn't like Jewish people.
Despite arguing over this, I would still like to keep the relationship going. Am I being blind/stupid/cowardly, or is this issue too important to ignore?
If you need to seek advice from Topix on your relationship, you have more problems than your boyfriend's racism.

Since: Nov 12

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#28 Jan 16, 2013
There was a study about this done some years back. It was very controversial. It concluded that ethnicity does dictate how intelligent you are. And there are lists on the Internet that shows what IQs are according to country. Is that racist too? Although, I think it has more to do with your environment than anything.

Although I'm a very big supporter of Jews, there are a lot of people who hate them. So what? I'm sure the Jews aren't losing any sleep over it.

The fact that he won't make it an issue by causing a scene shows that its not a big deal. It's just what he believes. Over time those things can be changed too...

Since: Nov 12

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#29 Jan 16, 2013
sairla wrote:
<quoted text>If you need to seek advice from Topix on your relationship, you have more problems than your boyfriend's racism.
Hahaha top post..

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