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Heather

Van Nuys, CA

#1 Sep 14, 2008
I am still not sure if it is dumb luck or I somehow am causing this to happen? I have slept with maybe 12 guys in my life. I am 23 years old and in the last year I have had 7 different sexual encounters. In all of these encounters the men with whom I was with last between 10 to 20 seconds. There was also one occasion where a guy came prior to even penetrating me. If I had to rate myself looks wise I would give myself an 8. Several women have called me hot. Do men tend to do this with beautiful women? Am I in a way causing this to happen? I know that men can sometimes be too quick but because it has happened so many times in a row I feel like I am a premature ejaculation inducer. Is this possible. Are there any other women out there that have had this happen to them? It does kind of make me feel hot, but I would like to get satisfied, instead of always having to rely on my toys.
Lisa Sutter

Van Nuys, CA

#2 Oct 1, 2008
Heather you are not alone. I to have had men "cum" too soon. I have had 9 partners in my life and I am 26 years of age. I tend to be a very sexual person, especially after I have a few drinks. When this happened to me, I noticed, I was in a hurry which made the man in a hurry. If I slow it down a little it seems to help, this does not work all the time, I still have had a couple of encounters that have been quick. I was consider myself a very attractive women and I think that plays into the dynamic as well as men and the situation you are in. I have had two occasions where a man orgasms before he even penetrated me. My advice would be, slow down, accept who you are, meaning if you are a beautiful women that may play a factor but accept it. Do not hold it against them. Communicate. Wait a half hour and try again. If it happens try and have him pleasure you in other ways. Acceptance is the key. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. Love yourself.
Sarah Frank

Van Nuys, CA

#3 Oct 1, 2008
Wow. I am so glad I cam across this blog. I have been going through the same thing with my new boyfriend. I have tried so many different things to try and make it last longer. I will try a few suggestion that you gave Lisa. Thank you. I feel lucky, most of my encounters last at least 30 seconds. I have considered letting everything grow back in downstairs thinking that may create a little less excitement. I will let you know how things turn out. By the way were do you live in LA. I too am from the LA area. Santa Monica actually.
Kelly T

United States

#4 Oct 5, 2008
Girls , Have the guys try this solution. It has worked well for my boy friend as he suffered from this as well.

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Hi Guys , This is a story hits close to home for me. I suffered from pre mature ejaculation syndrome & lack of performance during sex with women. I would come pre maturely just touching their vaginal area. All the excitement from the touching , caressing , kissing , feeling caused me to shot immediately. I could not control it. I was never able to be inside them & I was already done. I lost many women in my life due to this problem. The women were extremely disappointed & angry. I do not blame them.

As I fully went to orgasm , they were just started getting turned on or really horny. I felt like a worthless fool not able to satisfy the women who loved me. Some of them were understanding but for a limited time. Eventually all women left me because I could not full fill their sexual needs. This problem became so severe that it caused break ups , problems with relationships in my life. I was so afraid when it came to sexual activity that I would pretend to be to tired , have a book next to have an excuse to read , saying I have a lot of things on mind ,... excuses for me not to have sex.

This seems weird & awkward due to my age range. I was in my mid 20's. I was in my sexual prime & I was refusing sex ??? All men would say I am crazy to refuse this awesome feeling. The reason was I suffered from pre mature ejaculation & performance. It was not that I did not want sex , but I was embarrassed & scared due to this problem. I was so depressed by all these women leaving me for other men that can satisfy them. I turned to medical help : doctors , sex therapists , specialists , etc... Even with their help was limited. I bought over the counter drugs , lotions , creams , pills , etc... I spent a lot of time & money & none of these things worked. I also bought dvds , literature , etc... which did not help either.

I was getting DESPERATE due to feeling lonely & alone. I wanted to try anything. I stumbled upon the Ejaculation Master. Needless to say , I bought the program. I felt this was my last chance to cure my problem. I followed the program precisely. The program took about an half hour a day. 3-7 times a week for about a month. It was structured for training with or without partner. I did not have a partner which was good. This allowed me to practice by myself without anyone seeing me.

Anyway , I put it to the test after practicing the techniques for 2 months. I took more time to train myself to master techniques outlined in course. I wanted to see if this program was a fluke so I went hire an escort. I was AMAZED by the results. I did not come for a least 45 minutes & felt the whole sexual power of real intercourse. But I wanted to prove it again to myself that this program works. Next , I wanted to try it on 1 of my ex girlfriends to see if she would notice the difference. She still cared about me so I had the chance to be intimate with her again. She noticed an IMMEDIATE change as I did not come. I was able to be inside her for a good 45 min. before anything happened. She climaxed 4-5 times she told me before I came. That was a nice change for once.

With this program I have no more fear of this problem again. Along with the self confidence to perform with the sexual stamina that I never had before. I am writing this from personal experience so I can help fellow guys not to be embarrassed & suffer what I did. There is a way to eliminate & prolong your sexual power & stamina. If you suffer from pre mature ejaculaltion then there is a solution : Ejaculation Master. This program changed my life & it will change yours too. Thanks for the read , Doug

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Julie M

Van Nuys, CA

#5 Oct 15, 2008
Heather you are not alone. I was researching the same thing when I came across this blog. I know there are several factors that may cause a man to be too quick and you are one of them. Others being the length of time it has been for him between sexual encounters, his age, health reasons, his sexual history and the list goes on. I would say how attractive you are does play a part in the amount of time it takes a man to climax. Also how you go about having sex (like the person said above) if you are in a hurry. I believe I impact the amount of time we have sex up to 75%.
I have had several men "cum" before they even penetrated me also. I would consider myself an average looking women. I have had people tell me I am attractive. I Love to be sexually satisfied but in a weird way it feels somewhat empowering to make a man so excited he loses control. I have actually tried a few times (by certain actions, grooming, tanning, sexual talk) with my current boyfriend to make it happen quickly as an experiment and it works. So my advice is always have fun, communicate, never hold something against someone and embrace your sexuality. I like to think with Love and understanding anything can be worked out.
Estelle

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#6 Dec 13, 2008
I find the whole premature ejaculation thing empowering and a real turn on. Though that said, I'd like to feel a few strokes before he explodes. But really, I love seeing the guys faces when they try and hold back....and beg me to stop moving...and they just lose it. Always made me cum seeing them that way. In a stange way, it made my sex life very satisfying no matter who I was with. I have to admit that I tend to go for very young guys for this reason (some of these guys can cum a few times in a row). I may the only one but I actually find sex lasting more than 5 mins kinda boring. Intense quickies have always been my thing.
tinatickles

Mount Washington, KY

#7 Dec 4, 2009
Estelle wrote:
I find the whole premature ejaculation thing empowering and a real turn on. Though that said, I'd like to feel a few strokes before he explodes. But really, I love seeing the guys faces when they try and hold back....and beg me to stop moving...and they just lose it. Always made me cum seeing them that way. In a stange way, it made my sex life very satisfying no matter who I was with. I have to admit that I tend to go for very young guys for this reason (some of these guys can cum a few times in a row). I may the only one but I actually find sex lasting more than 5 mins kinda boring. Intense quickies have always been my thing.
Wow, Estelle! you have perfectly summed up my feelings. I find that look on their faces when they are trying to hold back, but feeling themselves losing control so hot!
ttfn,
tina
Premature_ejacul ator_Dave

Australia

#9 May 29, 2010
you girls should take it as a compliment that you that hot or very good at wat you do when we ejaculate early hehe!
Nerd in Bed

Bothell, WA

#10 May 29, 2010
This story is interesting. Nice to hear the woman's perspective.

I've always been fast in bed. Interestingly, though, I've actually gotten faster (1 minute or less) when my wife's body matured after childbirth than when she was thinner. I'm not sure if "attractiveness" is a main reason for inducing premature ejaculation. During sex, I find any body type to be sexy, even if a woman's breasts start to sag a little and her stomach gets bigger.
Premature_ejacul ator_Dave

Australia

#11 May 30, 2010
i reackon that makes it hotter!

Since: Jul 10

Philippines

#13 Jul 28, 2010
meds are good but if your try other methods besdides that, it would be better

Since: Apr 10

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#15 Aug 24, 2010
Premature ejaculation (PE) is the commonest sexual problem amongst men. And most men battle to overcome PE.

Experts say that two out of three adult males ejaculate very quickly during sex - much too quickly for their liking, and certainly much too quickly for their partners' liking.

The truth is, well over half of all men ejaculate after about three minutes of sexual intercourse.
Explained as ejaculating before either partner reaches satisfaction, PE is amongst the most common complaints affecting most males from time to time.

It often occurs early in relationships when sexual excitement, some fear and over stimulation are common features.

It's also very common in younger males who are learning about sexual interactions and men of all ages after an extended period without sex. PE isn't the result of any underlying disease, structural or physical problems.

Then again, if a woman is hot it does increase the possibility of premature ejaculation.

Here is a video that can help men out there overcome premature ejaculation naturally and permanently, without using drugs, creams, etc.:
jai

Bangalore, India

#16 Aug 24, 2010
i am only 29year old. I lost my semen with in 15seconds. Pls tell me the correct tablets.
jaisitnath

Bangalore, India

#17 Aug 24, 2010
i lost my semen with in 15seconds during sex. Even i hug strong i lost it. Pls help me. I had done too much masturbate! Thats the reason.
Jay West

Kyle, TX

#18 Aug 24, 2010
I used this and it helped a ton http://www.controlsexualenhancementpill.com/

Since: Jul 10

Philippines

#20 Aug 30, 2010
stay out from stimulants!
Jay

Ft Mitchell, KY

#21 Aug 30, 2010
Yes I agree with myketasin Stay away from anything thats not natural. The last thing anyone wants is those toxins and pills to mess with your equipment downstairs. I found an ejaculation training site that trained me to gain control over my ejaculatory reflex, allowing me to last alot longer than I did before (10 seconds to 10 minutes.

It may not seem like alot to you, but after lasting 10 seconds every time its a BIG improvement. Check out the training site below, Im sure it can help someone else too.

http://www.curepremature-ejaculation.net

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#22 Nov 10, 2010
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robie88

United States

#23 Nov 15, 2010
I would agree with u. My x wife was by far the hottest woman I have ever been with. I'm now 22 we were togather even as kids. I always ejaculated prematurely with her. One she turned me on so much couse of how attracted I was to her. 2 her down stairs area was extremly tight and 3 she loved to b on top , she was on top about 90% of the time so she was always in control of the speed and motion and she prefferd to do it hard and fast. It use to bug her when we were kids she would often give me attitude ot lough at me. I often came in my pants just from dry humping. Or soon after penitration mayb 4 or 5 thrust at the most 15 or 20 seconds. When we got older it got worse but it didn't bother her anymore she thought it was funny. It got to the point of when she would pull it out and just 1 squeez of her hand I would blow all over her face or hair or her cloths. Anyways I think those three factors had a big part to do with. I'm still a premature ejaculator 25 sec. Is my longest time so far.
Heather wrote:
I am still not sure if it is dumb luck or I somehow am causing this to happen? I have slept with maybe 12 guys in my life. I am 23 years old and in the last year I have had 7 different sexual encounters. In all of these encounters the men with whom I was with last between 10 to 20 seconds. There was also one occasion where a guy came prior to even penetrating me. If I had to rate myself looks wise I would give myself an 8. Several women have called me hot. Do men tend to do this with beautiful women? Am I in a way causing this to happen? I know that men can sometimes be too quick but because it has happened so many times in a row I feel like I am a premature ejaculation inducer. Is this possible. Are there any other women out there that have had this happen to them? It does kind of make me feel hot, but I would like to get satisfied, instead of always having to rely on my toys.
robie88

United States

#24 Nov 15, 2010
Does anyone know if there is anything out there that can induce premature ejaculation? Instead of stoping it?

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