You really "get off" on that "forgiveness" spiel ... don't you?<quoted text>
God bless you .I forgive your meanness to me ..
You come on a forum and invite debate and then when your feelings get hurt, you give a lesson to others on the meaning of forgiveness, teaching that after all, it IS the Christian way to behave.
Besides ... if someone is mean to you, how do you know that a god would WANT to bless the other person???
From what I've heard about Jehovah, with all his might, he just might want to strike that person dead with a bolt of lightning ... and if your prayer gets in the way, Jehovah might take you down along with the culprit that said mean things to you.