There really is no way to reconcile this incident. They most certainly took it the wrong way. regardless, it dug up some pain.
And yeah you're right, the woman may have believed their child was in limbo... this was the thought of many people back then. Why on Earth she would tell a grieving mother that is beyond me. But I'm not going to be able to be patch this up I see, with those two. So its best to drop it and next time i won't say anything due to the sensitive subject.
Lisa's birthday was yesterday. She was so loving and always smiling. For her and for our Savior Who loves all 3 of us, I forgive you. It never happened,I believe your account. t is done and need not be mentioned again. Give Rose a little time.