R.I.P. Derf Scratch, Founding Member of Fear

Aug 1, 2010 Full story: OC Weekly

Frederick Milner, better known as Derf Scratch, bass player for FEAR from 1977-1982, passed away on July 28 after a long battle with an unspecified illness.

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wendy milner calloway

Rancho Palos Verdes, CA

#1 Aug 1, 2010
My brother, Frederick Charles Milner, III, aka Derf Scratch died from cirrhosis, kidney failure and pneumonia after decades of alcohol and drug abuse. He was 59. Regardless of how he chose to live his life, he was a lovely little boy, a sweet young man, and we will miss him more than can be put into words.
One person

Pleasanton, CA

#2 Aug 2, 2010
I saw your brother play a few times, and am so sorry for your loss. 59 is too young.
Claude60

Carson, CA

#3 Aug 4, 2010
Hi Wendy, i am saddened to hear about Derf. We had many good times together jammin and hanging. I lost track of Derf after his accident. Dispite his misgivens he was a good person and I know he is in heaven. Please let me know about any arrangements or where he is so I can pay my respects.........claude60@soca l.rr.com. I am so sorry for your loss.
Glorya Talcroft

Santa Rosa, CA

#4 Aug 8, 2010
wendy milner calloway wrote:
My brother, Frederick Charles Milner, III, aka Derf Scratch died from cirrhosis, kidney failure and pneumonia after decades of alcohol and drug abuse. He was 59. Regardless of how he chose to live his life, he was a lovely little boy, a sweet young man, and we will miss him more than can be put into words.
Derf was one of my best friends-He was an artist,and one of the best bass players of all time-We had a great friendship-He played on many recordings with my husband Ian. He chose to live his life as an artist. Wendy, I am sure you just do not understand an artists life. It is not very nice to say this about Derf on a public forum.
Can you allow him some privacy in his passing?
Let's hear it for my good friend and Derf's loving wife Tami Milner who will forever hold a torch for him.
We love you Derf!
Tami Milner

Carthage, MO

#5 Jun 20, 2012
Wow! I am finally reading all of these posts about my late husband. First of all - everyone got the date wrong. Derf passed away on Thursday, July 29, 2010 at 5:30 in the afternoon. It was a beautiful day outside and I was with him around the clock for the last 10 days of his life. He was in a coma for his final 3 days and I sang to him and played his favorite music. There were no services by my choice. I will scatter his ashes in Tombstone, Arizona at the Boothill Cemetery. Just light a candle and think about what a great person he was every year on his birthday - October 30th. Derf, baby, I miss you and will love you for all my life! Hope to see you in the next one.....

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