One Night Stand 101

One Night Stand 101

There are 13 comments on the www.lucreziamagazine.com story from Apr 28, 2008, titled One Night Stand 101. In it, www.lucreziamagazine.com reports that:

One night stands, friends with benefits and fuck buddies: The casual sex debate always simmers.

The pros and cons of a one night stand.

Join the discussion below, or Read more at www.lucreziamagazine.com.

James

Germany

#1 Apr 29, 2008
What's wrong with ONE night stands? Having many encounters is not about bedpost notching or bragging about your conquest. Itís about learning what you donít like and wanting to meet the love of your life.

According to Dr. Ryan Holybox at jivelo.com , dating has a self-education component. Having various relationships doesnít make you promiscuous, it makes you someone who doesnít want to spend his or her life with the wrong person and who has hopes of finding the right one.
Jonathan

Doncaster, UK

#2 Apr 29, 2008
I thought the article was a bit dry and medical; infact most of the article seemed to be just a pros/cons list.

Not exactly the sort of interesting or quality article I've come to expect from Topix... The author could have added Psychology, instead of concentrating on Pathology; and the concluding remarks could have summed things up much better.

“I came, I saw...I clicked!”

Since: Feb 08

Sydney, Australia

#3 Apr 29, 2008
Every psychologist has a different opinion on one night stands. There are abstainers that don't like them. There are post hippy sexual liberationists who say that everything is normal, and there are mid-liners who also include the reality of the one night stand, and how dangerous it can be from a health perspective.

Since: Apr 08

Inwood, WV

#4 Apr 29, 2008
AnaM wrote:
Every psychologist has a different opinion on one night stands. There are abstainers that don't like them. There are post hippy sexual liberationists who say that everything is normal, and there are mid-liners who also include the reality of the one night stand, and how dangerous it can be from a health perspective.
The reason behind the one night stands that I have had is because I never saw my father naked as a child or it could be that I wasn't cuddled enough growing up or it could be that I am a middle child who is still subconsciously craving the attention I didn't receive in childhood or it could just be that I like sex and do not want commitment. As for the health risks, I recommend, and I know this is profound, but wear a condom.

“I came, I saw...I clicked!”

Since: Feb 08

Sydney, Australia

#5 Apr 29, 2008
It's one of those things isn't it? Including a psychological angle can take forever, but verges on making grandiose statements or generalizations that are best avoided, and yeah, definitely, condoms are a must.
rue

Hartford, CT

#7 Apr 29, 2008
AnaM wrote:
It's one of those things isn't it? Including a psychological angle can take forever, but verges on making grandiose statements or generalizations that are best avoided, and yeah, definitely, condoms are a must.
So how many 1niters u have

“I came, I saw...I clicked!”

Since: Feb 08

Sydney, Australia

#8 Apr 29, 2008
I've been known to have them in the past. I don't want to divulge a number, but I will say that that was then, and this is now, so I don't put myself out there for them these days, but the thing about life is that it can throw a person many curve balls. If the attraction is blinding or paralyzing, I'm still human and I'll probably respond in the uber biological way lol. I don't have a moral objection to it.
rue

Hartford, CT

#9 Apr 30, 2008
There's nothing wrong with it I've had sum one nighters but hey im human and ur an attractive lady so i guys are flocking towards u
AKJ

Augusta, GA

#10 Apr 30, 2008
I had one with a cute Mexican. It was pretty gooooood!!!

“French Canadians wifey”

Since: Feb 08

Danville, IL

#11 Apr 30, 2008
NEVER would I have a one night stand. No way. I respect my body too much for that..JUST MY OPINION.
Glen

Maroubra, Australia

#12 Nov 23, 2008
your a good looking gal love to meet up for some casual sex, im a good looking fella. 24 year old builder to busy for girlfriend
Guest 2

United States

#13 Nov 23, 2008
i v never had just a one night stand.i think its bad to go out and have sex on the first night.
Love it

Asia/Pacific Region

#14 Feb 14, 2009
I have had many one night stands. I do think it's great and exciting. Just be sure to wear a condom.

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