Since you don't share my beliefs the only chance you may have is a lobotomy".<quoted text>You are imprisoned by your own [dogma]. Chained to a belief that an abused child can emerge unscathed, when in fact, that is a lie. On some level, even if they're unaware of the abuse, that person will somehow be affected. Whether emotionally or physically. They may never know of the abuse, but it will and does leave a scar in the furthest recesses of the brain. Of course I will always reference the theological side of it since I am a born again believer. I know I just opened another door, but I don't care. And no, I don't believe I am better than non believers, I just know what I believe. And since you do not share my beliefs, I think the only chance you may have is a .....lobotomy.
See, that has been the whole attitude through this whole discussion.
If I don't beleive what the rest of you believe, I am insane or evil.
That is an attempt to restrict the thinking and free speech of another person.
You cannot possibly know what another person thinks or feels. You cannot speak for EVERY person who was molested. That is ridiculous. None of you are psychic.
And as far as the Bible is concerned, they had girls being maried off at practically pre-teen, so you cannot use that.
No, not every child who is molested will be traumatized.
Are you telling me that the posters on the link I put up do not know their own minds or feelings? YOU know their feelings better than they do?????
No, you don't.