You are right. Your god and My God ARE different. My God is the God of the bible. Doesn't sound like you read yours since it's God's words that (not man's) that rebukes those who "lay with a man as a woman".
What YOU say is "hate" must mean you say God is hate. Bible-believing and God loving people are only "the messengers" of God's own words. Your fight is not with us, but God Himself. So,on the contrary to your statement; the God of the bible IS LOVE and that's why He does not want you to be a part of a destructive lifestyle as homosexuality. There is nothing good, especially physically, that comes out of the homosexual lifestyle. The average age of a man who dies from complications of a homosexual lifestyle is 42. That doesn't sound like a lifestyle that gives LIFE, but a lifestyle that is a path to DEATH...not only in your spirit, but in your body. Sexual diseases come out of going against what God in Heaven has planned, for the homosexual lifestyle and for the heterosexuals that live life outside of God's plan. God IS LOVE and loves you so much that He wants you to come to Him for help with this.
The 'HATE' that is coming out of this whole debate really comes from those who are trying to fight to get the rest of the world to "legitimize" your choice to sin. If we as Christ loving people did that, we would not be loving...but hating, because that lifestyle separates you from God's love.
You chose: death or Christ. It's really up to you...not up to the majority to make you feel "it's ok".
I value family. I love America. I respect God. But you know what... not a single one of those things have any importance in proposition 8. Right now, God frowns at your persistance in using his name to support inequality and to spread the seeds of hatred. The true sheep disrespecting his (or her) sheperd is you. I thought God was love but with how all you right-wing nut-jobs keep going on about God hating this and God hating that... well... I'm starting to think that your God and my God are not one in the same... as my God gets pretty angry when his subjects, his followers, his lambs... take his words, his love... and contort into something vile and hateful.