So you don't like city data.<quoted text>
I think it is well known I do not like cd, or really any vbulletin sites. I don't condone these bullies, nor any other like them, mb-wide.
Your question is not an either/or question. In this case none of your examples are acceptable.
It is not 2005, and with the invention of facebook, why do you need a forum to do what it is you desire. Why would you want to "laugh with...and toe the line with..." virtual strangers and anonomously?
This is a serious question.
But I'm guessing part of the reason you don't like city data is because of the bullies and censorship.
If someone's going to use a forum, shouldn't they get to enjoy it without censorship and without bullies?
Maybe you would like city data if it weren't for the censorship/bullies.