A Woman's Perspective on Premature Ej...

A Woman's Perspective on Premature Ejaculation

There are 46 comments on the The Asylum story from Jan 21, 2011, titled A Woman's Perspective on Premature Ejaculation. In it, The Asylum reports that:

For this, the final Woman's Perspective, our girl was under a lot of pressure. After over a year of bringing you her weekly take on such disparate subjects as anal sex , swingers , porn , Dr.

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Crestwood, KY

#1 Jan 27, 2011
This is very important topic. Most women don't understand why men have PE, but I am lucky enough to have a girl that not only understands, but has worked together with me to find solutions to my PE.

We have used the training tips at the site below, and its really helped us last alot longer and we are both thankful. So Ladies please try to understand PE and work with us to solve it.

charley Lewis

Eugene, OR

#2 Feb 10, 2011
Ya know, men don't suffer from PE, their partner(s) do!

Check out this article I wrote about the problem I had and how I learned to delay ejaculations:


#8 Feb 26, 2013
Before I tried priligy, I experimented with various 'herbal' miracle ointment, it really was a waste of time and if you really have a problem, it's not worth wasting your money. Since I've been using Priligy from http://pej-treatment.info , I've felt so much more in control of my sex life and would recommend it to anybody with a long term problem. I am not saying that it's a miracle cure, but I have noticed a definite improvement in how long I have been able to have sex for since using it.


#9 Apr 7, 2013
My first time I used Priligy from http://pej-treatment.info was very impressive, Priligy was working for me. I was able to keep it for about 8-9 minutes !!
Before I would usually last only for 3-4 minutes. Those 4-5 minutes were exactly what i needed to make my wife reach an orgasm. Few minutes can change your life.
i wrote:
I struggled with PE for years and years. Since my first encounters at the age of 16. I suffer from horrible pelvic muscles that reflex alot from my sensative penis. Even when I dont want them to causing PE. Most of all this was causing major depression and anxiety. I was scared to sleep with women. No man should have to deal with this. I know alot of men do. I probably go in about 2-3 minutes max , mostly around 1-2 minutes.
Some encounters I would have so much anxiety id go before i even entered. Luckily ive had many partners understand. I always feared women cared SO much about sex. But all in all they really are understanding. SO i tried Celexa an SSRI. This worked great for about a week. It slowed my sex drive and also gave me impotence. I didnt mind lol , i had so much drive i would eventually get up and have intercourse.
But this side effect only lasted for a week. All a sudden i was back to normal. So the doc put my on zoloft. This did nothing. So after being completley frustrated and having the taste of great sex for a week i search for Dapoxetine from http://pej-treatment.info .
I found it online overseas. i popped one at about 9 oclock and had intercourse about 11. I had sex for about 30 mins. I felt the urge to ejaculate for about a min then all of a sudden it was gone. Did not ejaculate at all! Lets just say i got her off 3 times. So next nite i did the same and had sex for an hour and half and still did not go! My new GF thinks im like a porn star.
SO next nite the same thing happens. She cant get me to cum what so ever. Miracle pill! Im on two weeks now of having multiple partners and making them orgasm. Still have not ejaculated. I can rub one off the next morning thats it! This better get approved by the USA!
Gregory Kaminski

Carnegie, PA

#11 Apr 10, 2013
Priligy is a legitimate medical product for PE. It's not approved in the USA by the FDA. The only other legitimate medical product for PE is Promescent. www.promescent.com

Quito, Ecuador

#12 May 3, 2013
This is very interesting thx to share with us.

Rio De Janeiro, Brazil

#13 May 22, 2013
Do you think she can help me solve my PE?

Daejeon, Korea

#14 Jun 5, 2013
I will send my gf to this thread and maybe she can better understand this problem.
#15 Jun 11, 2013
Wow the PE forum covers alot, how come I have never found this place before. I will look forward to skimming through the threads and seeing if i can find a treatment for me


#17 Jun 26, 2013
The video report in this article is not available anylonger. I really want to see it.


#21 Jan 29, 2014
I was in depression, I avoided sexual contacts. And I didn`t expect that Priligy could do something with my problem. But after the first intake of this medication from http://goo.gl/kn41dA I noticed the positive results… Now I can say that I completely forgot about PE problem. My girlfriend is satisfied)))

Secaucus, NJ

#25 Mar 4, 2014
Every blog and almost every post here are hyping an ineffective product. Ever wonder why no one medically credible or a major network does a story on them? It’s because they are not effective.

Read this article.


Watch this video.


This is the product they are raving about.


Since: Apr 13

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#26 Mar 7, 2014
Suffering From Premature Ejaculation? This is What Your Woman Thinks of You (You'll Be Surprised)

Have you ever wondered what your woman is thinking of when you climax too soon during sex? For guys suffering from premature ejaculation, they often think about the guilt, frustration and embarrassment that accompany their regular bouts of early orgasms.

But what exactly goes on in the mind of your woman when that happens? I bet you would be keen to find out, don't you? The answer is going to surprise you...

What Women Think About Premature Ejaculation...

There is no doubt that suffering from PE can be one of the most painful and frustrating things that could happen to any man. Most men wouldn't want to talk about it, at least not openly. Men who suffer from PE may try anything from desensitizing creams to pills and condoms in an attempt to dull his sensation during sex. In other words, he is looking for a physical solution to his problem.

Yet the average woman will worry about how her partner is feeling. What's worse, she may even think that her man is hurrying through sex because he does not enjoy her company and want to "get it over and done with" as quickly as possible! Unlike men, women view premature ejaculation as an emotional problem.

See the difference?

This difference in gender perceptions is what is causing many relationships to hit the rocks. The guy sees something physically wrong with himself while his partner thought he's no longer interested in her!

So What Should You Do?

Talking about it openly with each other is a good start. And a necessary one. And this is where men should tread very carefully. It is easy for a guy to get angry or become defensive about his lack of staying power.

But if you are committed to overcoming your lack of sexual stamina, then you will certainly want to work things out and openly discuss this with her, without feeling guilty or embarrassed.

#1 This Is Going To Change Your Mindset...

Tell her you get turned on so easily because you find her so hot and attractive. She will feel flattered. This will allay her possible fears that you are no longer interested in her and thus hurry through sex. Once you cleared this up, make it a commitment to work on your early ejaculation TOGETHER.

#2 Experiment with positions and angles.

Find out what combinations keep your arousal and ejaculation under control, and those that drive her completely wild.

Changing sex positions allows you to stop the form of stimulation that is making you peak too soon. It is all about how much your nervous system can handle. If you feel that a position is arousing you too fast, switch things up before you are ready to climax. Make the change as subtle as you can, without affecting her momentum.

When you feel you are getting too excited and close to a climax, tell her you are ready to change positions. Just make sure you are taking at least 8 seconds to do this. This is all the time you need to cool down and let the excitement pass.

#3 - Emotional connection

Above all, focus on making an emotional connection with her during sex. For example, go SLOW during intercourse, and spend MORE time holding her, caressing her, and making her feel special. Revel in the present moment and not dwell on the fact that you will blow early. This is the important first step to fixing premature ejaculation for good!

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Saint George, UT

#27 Jul 16, 2014
It seems my lady hates me because of premature ejaculation, but she does not seem to understand that I can't control it. Have any of you had this problem from your woman?

Maarssen, Netherlands

#28 Aug 17, 2014
I don't think women understand PE just but then again I never understand my womans menstal cycle. and that I don't want to understand lol

Mountain View, CA

#30 Nov 14, 2014
Well I can tell you what my ex thought of my PE. She cheated on me .. what a bit***

Changsha, China

#32 Dec 19, 2014
This is BS nothing can help.Give it up!

Louisville, KY

#33 Mar 25, 2015
Chad wrote:
Well I can tell you what my ex thought of my PE. She cheated on me .. what a bit***
Well then you are probably better off without her.

Sun City West, AZ

#35 Apr 22, 2015
I cant find the article.. I'd really love to learn more about a womans perspective of PE. Can someone repost the article here? Thank you

Louisville, KY

#38 May 15, 2015
Why just ask your woman about how she feels.Or another woman. Don't be afraid to talk about this problem with your lady. Let her know its not just you being selfish, and maybe you can work together to find a solution.

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