Working for marriage equality for same-sex couples is hardly "shoving it into people's faces".<quoted text>
You constantly and continuously shove it into people's faces! You don't make friends by doing that!
Over the past 20 years we've worked to convince a majority of Americans that same-sex couples should be able to marry. Every poll indicates we've been successful at doing just that, as evidence by our victories in the last 4 statewide votes on the issue
Obviously we know what we're doing.