It's only a "significant difference" to the anti-gays.<quoted text>
BUT THAT'S NOT WHAT YOU'RE ASKING FOR!!!! Sorry...shouldn't have shouted. you're asking the state not to marry, but to have your same sex relationship designated "marriage" by the state. Significant difference.
The majority of Americans support same-sex couples being able to marry
Now feel free to quibble over terminology because you have no other argument...