She offered to accept a settlement in lieu of child support, if she didn't have to have a relationship with him. It's the STATE that is insisting on the child support.<quoted text>
He was,older yes ..She was too young yes.
It says,she does not want support but a,settlement .which sounds,like a lawyer is involved.
The CHILD has the right to support ..it may be paid by either mom or dad,
If she had Bern my kid yes,I'd want him in jail.
They gave him probation because the sex was,consensual..no force involved .
My baby's,dad was 20 I was 16
I was stupid ..he was a jerk
But it's not the same as if some 30 year old teacher talked her into sex or thankfully not that he raped her ..
Thing is,..She is now an adult and a mom .
What I think is the court should tell him
MOM cannot waive child support
YOU HAVE TO PAY .blackmailing this,girl will not get the support waived
As SHE has nothing to do with it..it's,the right of the CHILD ..
I'm betting he,would stop bugging her ..as he probably isn't dad material .
He needs to be in prison. Of course, the state wanting him to pay child support is the REASON he's not. He couldn't possibly make enough there to do so.
It's not her, it's the state. I don't believe they can insist on child support from him while not allowing him visitation.