I don't know what words were used in their personal conversation... though you have it down word for word in your quotes you posted.<quoted text>
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I do know Emma was against polygamy... many women are. The majority of the European Subcontinent refused it flat out; EVEN THOUGH polygamy is Biblical.
No matter how you argue it, you can not prove with your anti-Mormon books, or links, or repeated - refurbished - babble that drains out of your heads into your posts.
I wonder whom the Lord was referring to in:
13 Wherefore the Lord said, Forasmuch as this people draw near me with their mouth, and with their lips do honour me, but have removed their heart far from me, and their fear toward me is taught by the precept of men:
14 Therefore, behold, I will proceed to do a marvellous work among this people, even a marvellous work and a wonder: for the wisdom of their wise men shall perish, and the understanding of their prudent men shall be hid.