We are telling the courts to repeal it, since it is unconstitutional. That's usually the way it works with unconstitutional laws.<quoted text>The point is, there's a long history of interracial marriage, the argument goes back past the Old Testament. Also, no such history exists for same sex marriage, there are no pre20th century arguments for same sex marriage.
<quoted text>If you don't like DOMA, tell your representatives to repeal it. If you rely on the courts, that's antidemocratic.
Same sex marriage is bad because it's antidemocratic.
And the last line of your post is silly. Can you explain how having the SAME protections for my family that you have for yours could possibly be "anti-democratic?
I don't think that word means what you think it means.