You just want to argue. The poor old woman was eating the cat food because she couldn't afford human food. Republicans try to dehumanize other is why I said call me a bleeding heart. Of course you completely ignored that or to shallow to understand. Read it again....just forget it. You only see what you want to see. I can't help you on that.
Perhaps if you were more specific?
No, I don't just want to argue. In your first post you said she was buying cat food, you did not say for herself. You implied, and that implication led me to believe she was perhaps poor, but buying to feed one coming to her door.
If you know that she is doing this for a fact - you would better serve her if you contacted your local Department of Human Services or Health Dept., and ask if they have "Meals on Wheels" some local charities do this also. If she's elderly they will help. She doesn't have to know it was you who called. You also say she would never accept charity. Then how will you serve her needs?