can white women really trust indian guys?

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Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#1 Jan 10, 2012
I met this 35 year old indian guy, he was born here in england (his family are punjabi sihks) although he's the only one of them who dresses normally and doesn't practise his religion. He said at first he just wanted fun and I myself never thought I could be more than friends with him but after weeks of spending time with him I found myself getting feelings for him... He also told me he loved me. He was the first to say it. But I keep reading online how we should be wary of indian guys because of their culture etc and what is expected of them (arranged marraige) he's 35 and divorced , I'm 21. I can't tell my family because they wouldn't understand (I always used to say I could never see myself going out with an indian guy) but I really want a future with him. Can I trust him :/ are they all the same? When we meet he always wants sex, but says its me that makes him act that way, he can't resist me -_- and he's not exactly gentle or loving, but he does smell good (although I've been around ones that stink) dresses nice, has a nice car and he's very generous. Where can this go though? I don't want to get too attached just for it to end cos mummy n daddy have found him a wife? He assures me he doesn't plan on getting married again. Bottom line is I don't know wether to continue this relationship just for it to end because his family wouldn't approve (and mine too)

Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#2 Jan 10, 2012
And seeing as he only wants to touch me up everytime I see him lol :/ does he actually care for me or is he just using me.
ure

London, UK

#3 Jan 10, 2012
Some Indian guys only want sex with white women, not proper relationship. Most do not fancy white women. They prefer Indian girls. Most Indians, even the ones that are born and bred in the UK, are very 'Indian' at heart. That is good in a way because it tells you they have very strong connections with their origins and way of life, but its not good when it comes to having a relationship with a white woman as far as the white woman is concerned. The white woman will start feeling alienated after a while. Most Indians have strong connections with their family and extended families so it will be difficult for the white girl to feel at 'home'.

Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#4 Jan 10, 2012
Mmm but if that's the case then why, since leaving his ex wife, has he only dated white women?
Yert

Glasgow, UK

#5 Jan 10, 2012
Because he is only looking for fun (code for no strings attached sex).

He's telling you he loves you so you will develop feelings for him so he can have his way with you.

He can't do that with Indian girls because the communities are so close knit and old fashioned, that he will have the girls family round at his door with weapons.

He has no feelings for you, you are just a piece of stupid white meat that will sleep with him in his eyes.

You are being used. Treat it as a learning experience, wisen up and move on.

Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#6 Jan 10, 2012
:/ ok thanks lol to be fair when I express this opinion n go to break up with him he gets really sad. My nan married an indian guy, surely they arnt all bad -_- ill take your advice into consideration anyway.
Blaak Mambo

Calne, UK

#7 Jan 10, 2012
shygirl21 wrote:
:/ ok thanks lol to be fair when I express this opinion n go to break up with him he gets really sad. My nan married an indian guy, surely they arnt all bad -_- ill take your advice into consideration anyway.
has he smashed your back doors down, yet ?

Since: May 11

Manama, Bahrain

#8 Jan 10, 2012
Yert wrote:
Because he is only looking for fun (code for no strings attached sex).
He's telling you he loves you so you will develop feelings for him so he can have his way with you.
He can't do that with Indian girls because the communities are so close knit and old fashioned, that he will have the girls family round at his door with weapons.
He has no feelings for you, you are just a piece of stupid white meat that will sleep with him in his eyes.
You are being used. Treat it as a learning experience, wisen up and move on.
I would say, you are being used. You wont fit in "the scheme of things" and will be alienated. You can never be one of them. If you are so desperate and cant find men, go for him. Otherwise, chose wisely.
harold

London, UK

#9 Jan 11, 2012
At 21 should you already be thinking of settling down? I have an English mate married to an Indian woman that are happy as far as he discusses his relationship with me but if I see a white woman with an Indian man I assume he must have money.

Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#10 Jan 11, 2012
I dunno he seems genuine, and actually most of my bfs have been white but they were crap in bed, lol , selfish and tight with money -_- I can have a laugh with this guy and he makes me happy, what's the problem, I think the indian men posting here are probably just jealous they can't get a white gf lol. ...
Malik

London, UK

#11 Jan 11, 2012
harold wrote:
At 21 should you already be thinking of settling down? I have an English mate married to an Indian woman that are happy as far as he discusses his relationship with me but if I see a white woman with an Indian man I assume he must have money.
Funny you say that. The other day I saw an Indian guy with a really attractive blond white woman. And guess what? They got into a car that looked very expensive. At least 60K I would think. However, it should be said most Indian guys date/marry Indian women irrespective of how well off they are. Nearly all the richest Indians in the UK all have Indian wives.

Now, for blacks, its a whole different ball game. They almost think a white woman is a trophy.
Malik

London, UK

#12 Jan 11, 2012
shygirl21 wrote:
I dunno he seems genuine, and actually most of my bfs have been white but they were crap in bed, lol , selfish and tight with money -_- I can have a laugh with this guy and he makes me happy, what's the problem, I think the indian men posting here are probably just jealous they can't get a white gf lol....
I wouldn't agree with that at all. Indians are not attracted to white women by an large. You might be the object of sexual fantasy of Afro-Caribbean men, but most Indian men do not care for white women. Trust me on this.

Since: Jan 12

Norwich, UK

#13 Jan 11, 2012
Guess I've met one exception to the rule then :p and I don't like blacks. Disgusting -_-
Malik

London, UK

#14 Jan 11, 2012
shygirl21 wrote:
Guess I've met one exception to the rule then :p and I don't like blacks. Disgusting -_-
Well, it seems you are a racist. Just because you don't like black men doesn't mean they are disgusting as people. If you knew a bit about evolution and science you will know that all humans are related to each other.
Malik

London, UK

#15 Jan 11, 2012
shygirl21 wrote:
Guess I've met one exception to the rule then :p and I don't like blacks. Disgusting -_-
One more thing. White women are the most attracted to black men other than black women. So many white women have relationships with black men.
Chimp Lovers United

Calne, UK

#16 Jan 11, 2012
Malik wrote:
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One more thing. White women are the most attracted to black men other than black women. So many white women have relationships with black men.
Most working class white english ( i say english, but i am referring to ones of Irish Origin masquerading as english - there are millions of this scum in this country - second or third generation Irish Bog trotters) these are all by and large women of low morals .
These women find blacks (another worthless degenerate Filth) attractive
harold

London, UK

#17 Jan 12, 2012
shygirl21 wrote:
Guess I've met one exception to the rule then :p and I don't like blacks. Disgusting -_-
Not really racist. I do not find black women attractive it's not to do with racism I just can't see the difference between what makes them look any worse or better looking than each other. Even Beyonce or Haile Berry isn't all that to me where others seem to think she is amazing looking. But I have to agree with Malik, based on my experience, Indians tend to search and admire there own women. With the exception of Polish and Lithuanian for reasons that are not clear. if anyone knows why, I'd be interested to hear.
Malik

London, UK

#18 Jan 12, 2012
harold wrote:
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Not really racist. I do not find black women attractive it's not to do with racism I just can't see the difference between what makes them look any worse or better looking than each other. Even Beyonce or Haile Berry isn't all that to me where others seem to think she is amazing looking. But I have to agree with Malik, based on my experience, Indians tend to search and admire there own women. With the exception of Polish and Lithuanian for reasons that are not clear. if anyone knows why, I'd be interested to hear.
I have no problem her not liking black men. None whatsoever. Everyone is free to have their own preferences. Its the word 'disgusting' she added which I found offensive. Its almost like she was disgusted by black people as a whole. When people are on their death bed and they look back on their life, being racist is not something they can look back and say that's something they were proud of. What is it going to achieve?

I am not attracted to black women, but I do not find them disgusting.
Malik

London, UK

#19 Jan 12, 2012
Chimp Lovers United wrote:
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Most working class white english ( i say english, but i am referring to ones of Irish Origin masquerading as english - there are millions of this scum in this country - second or third generation Irish Bog trotters) these are all by and large women of low morals .
These women find blacks (another worthless degenerate Filth) attractive
That's an easy excuse to use. Blame it on the Irish. Surely not all are of Irish origins.

In any case, Irish, English, Scottish is all the same to me and to most people. Without the accent most people wouldn't be able to tell which which.
Malik

London, UK

#20 Jan 12, 2012
By the way, I rarely see Indian guys with Polish or Eastern European women. If you are trying to suggest Polish women are an easy way for an Indian guy to get it on with white women because British women are much less likely to, I'd say you are wrong. Where do you see Indian guys with Polish women?

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