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My young adult niece lost her entire family within 8 years. First her only brother, then her father (my brother), then her mother and then her only sister all to different circumstances. Shortly after Heather married, she was expecting their first child, both of her husband's sons from a previous marriage came to live with them. They then had their son and then her sister passed away, leaving two sons. Heather and Jeff took those boys in also. They then had their second son 3 years ago.
At one time this meant they were raising 6 boys between the ages of newborn and 16! And only 2 of them were "her" children. All of this before she was in her mid-twenties.
They rented a house for a few years. Her husband got hired on a job that he still has today and believe it or not, she now works full-time, all with 6 boys at home! They do not make a lot of money but were able to manage to buy an older home in an older neighborhood in Lafayette, Indiana. The oldest boy, her nephew, is now on his own so they are down to "only" 5 boys to finish raising. The youngest is 3 and the oldest is 17.
Heather is a wise and careful shopper but there just isn't enough money to fix up this older home that they live in and if anyone deserves help, it is Heather (and Jeff). To take all of this on in her early twenties without even really knowing how to cook well yet has been quite remarkable. She is such a sweet young lady. Oh, also, the 11 year old nephew is a "special needs" child. Heather also cares for her "special needs" uncle. While he has had help getting an apartment on the other side of town, Heather also takes him anyplace that he needs to go and oversees his health and meals and medicine, etc. and her husband picks him up from his "work". Their cars seem to always be in the process of needing to have things done to them and they have this older home on a quiet street and so deserve a home makeover. This could be a lovely home with some well deserved help.
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