Dr. Phil Family -- The Trouble with A...

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#182 Nov 14, 2011
AHHHHHHH Lost my post again !!!

Ok, 1st, i have not read any posts between my last and this one. Want this post 2 go thru and then i'll catch up. Ok, about Nathan. He does stay with Erin and Marty during the wk. I assume this might be because the Father works, and has always paid child support. Don't know if he sleeps over or if the Father picks him up at the end of each weekday? The grandparents don't say, jet make it out to look like they have custody of all 3 and i find this so wrong. Finally a decent guy, doing the right thing, and he gets none, if barely a few cudos. Jeeze !!!!!

On to Anthony. Erin refuses to call him this. She calls him by his middle name, which is Michael. Anthony is his legal first name. Sorry, but i find this to be wrong. Tonys family calls him Anthony, yet Erins hatred for Tony or whatever else her reason may be, will not let herself call him Anthony!!!! Don't get me wrong, i know what she has gone through w/ these children. Especially having to have little anthony withdrawl from drugs. But that is because the mother (Alex) was using up to delivery and lieing about it.

I'm sure i will probably have another post, after reading the ones between mine that i have not read yet.

But i do want to Thank You all for welcoming me into your forum. I have been super busy lately, more than usual. But i will check out "Topix" for all it's got when i have more free time.

Oh, almost forgot.... the big RED X'S !!!! LOL I know what it means. that someone disagrees with your post. It was just odd, logging on then seeing all those red X's in a row. Was wondering if the person disagreed with the whole post/s or just certain parts of each one???? Luckily we live in a free counrty so you can say what you like, i was just curious. You can explain if you want, if not, that's your right also.

I do want to thank you guys again for being so welcoming to me . Chat with you guys soon, i'm sure...lol
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#183 Nov 14, 2011
bobbleheadhere wrote:
Oh, almost forgot.... the big RED X'S !!!! LOL I know what it means. that someone disagrees with your post. It was just odd, logging on then seeing all those red X's in a row. Was wondering if the person disagreed with the whole post/s or just certain parts of each one???? Luckily we live in a free counrty so you can say what you like, i was just curious. You can explain if you want, if not, that's your right also.
I do want to thank you guys again for being so welcoming to me . Chat with you guys soon, i'm sure...lol
BBH: don't worry about the mean judgement icons -- there are always a few people who will log on simply to tag comments with nasty icons b/c they're fans of the person who we're discussing -- nothing new. Once Alexandra Stehl Harrelson and her family became a 'public domain' topic, we can discuss their situation all we want -- they agreed to make their business public by being on Dr. Phil's show.

Now, have to agree with you all who have posted that Katherine's guy is already married to a female by the name of Brittany S. Mitchell (maiden name). Found his record on a free public records site, has him listed as 29 years, old, having addresses in Jacksonville, Jacksonville Beach, and Ponte Vedra Beach -- all areas near Katherine.

Hey Greenwitch -- doesn't look like Katherine will be an honest woman any time soon -- what a shame! Lousy pattern for young women to fall into...
greenwitch

Brooklyn, NY

#184 Nov 14, 2011
Slayer wrote:
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BBH: don't worry about the mean judgement icons -- there are always a few people who will log on simply to tag comments with nasty icons b/c they're fans of the person who we're discussing -- nothing new. Once Alexandra Stehl Harrelson and her family became a 'public domain' topic, we can discuss their situation all we want -- they agreed to make their business public by being on Dr. Phil's show.
Now, have to agree with you all who have posted that Katherine's guy is already married to a female by the name of Brittany S. Mitchell (maiden name). Found his record on a free public records site, has him listed as 29 years, old, having addresses in Jacksonville, Jacksonville Beach, and Ponte Vedra Beach -- all areas near Katherine.
Hey Greenwitch -- doesn't look like Katherine will be an honest woman any time soon -- what a shame! Lousy pattern for young women to fall into...
As I said, it is dumb to get involved with a married person, although when young you think you are different. What is ridiculous is to have a child by that person while they are still married and it doesn't look like that will change. What is totally wacko is Dr Phil behaving like they're all in a romance novel and ignoring reality. He is in this for the ratings for sure.
greenwitch

Brooklyn, NY

#185 Nov 14, 2011
Slayer wrote:
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Hey, don't ask me -- I don't know squat about drugs for getting high, legal or illegal -- stay away from all of them. Every time I heard her drug slang or how Alex was 'snorting' hydrocodone, I had to look it up on the web to see what it meant.
What use is the Marchman Act in FL if drug addicts are only asked how many (or much) of the drugs they use, and not verified by urine or blood tests. If I'm an addict do you think I'm going to tell a person who can have me locked up that I'm an addict? NO!
State of FL is supposed to be cracking down on pill mills -- so they must have their hands full. Limiting access to these drugs may only drive the price up and addicts to turn to unregulated street drugs, which I'm certain Mexican and Chinese drug gangs would happily supply.
Hydrocodone is Vicodin. Bad stuff. I think by now Alex has nothing to lose.
greenwitch

Brooklyn, NY

#186 Nov 14, 2011
bobbleheadhere wrote:
AHHHHHHH Lost my post again !!!
Ok, 1st, i have not read any posts between my last and this one. Want this post 2 go thru and then i'll catch up. Ok, about Nathan. He does stay with Erin and Marty during the wk. I assume this might be because the Father works, and has always paid child support. Don't know if he sleeps over or if the Father picks him up at the end of each weekday? The grandparents don't say, jet make it out to look like they have custody of all 3 and i find this so wrong. Finally a decent guy, doing the right thing, and he gets none, if barely a few cudos. Jeeze !!!!!
On to Anthony. Erin refuses to call him this. She calls him by his middle name, which is Michael. Anthony is his legal first name. Sorry, but i find this to be wrong. Tonys family calls him Anthony, yet Erins hatred for Tony or whatever else her reason may be, will not let herself call him Anthony!!!! Don't get me wrong, i know what she has gone through w/ these children. Especially having to have little anthony withdrawl from drugs. But that is because the mother (Alex) was using up to delivery and lieing about it.
I'm sure i will probably have another post, after reading the ones between mine that i have not read yet.
But i do want to Thank You all for welcoming me into your forum. I have been super busy lately, more than usual. But i will check out "Topix" for all it's got when i have more free time.
Oh, almost forgot.... the big RED X'S !!!! LOL I know what it means. that someone disagrees with your post. It was just odd, logging on then seeing all those red X's in a row. Was wondering if the person disagreed with the whole post/s or just certain parts of each one???? Luckily we live in a free counrty so you can say what you like, i was just curious. You can explain if you want, if not, that's your right also.
I do want to thank you guys again for being so welcoming to me . Chat with you guys soon, i'm sure...lol
This is dumb. When Anthony Michael gets older, he will decide what he wants to be called. Lots of people go by their middle names, but it really will be up to him, not Erin.
greenwitch

Brooklyn, NY

#187 Nov 14, 2011
Slayer wrote:
Did check on the name in Florida of 'Paul Jason Troilo' and he does have an arrest record -- is 29 years, 6 feet tall, thin - 165 lbs., with brown hair and eyes -- which would fit the guy in the photos posted on Erin's twitter account.
Paul does have a lot of large tattoos -- while I don't want to be judgmental, does usually indicate he was in one of the armed services, in prison, or belonged to a gang. Not always a good thing!
Now seems to be less of a surprise that Katherine would pick a 'bad boy.' Both Stehl girls seemed to attracted to dangerous guys. Not the kind of man I'd want to be a father to my child.
those girls haven't got sh&t for brains. Too bad they are allowed to have children.
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#188 Nov 15, 2011
greenwitch wrote:
<quoted text>those girls haven't got sh&t for brains. Too bad they are allowed to have children.
FYI: wanted to let you know that the way BBH and the others found Paul's last name, I think, was through seeing his name listed on web sites like Target and Walmart registries for baby gifts. That's how I found his name.

Katherine may be on a slightly more solid path than Alex, but she still prefers dangerous men to quality guys. One claim posted that concerns me, probably seen by the other posters, is that the current wife, Brittany, accuses her husband of earning his money by selling drugs.
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#189 Nov 15, 2011
Just found another record for Katherine Stehl on St. Augustine online web site. In spring 2009, Katherine Stehl was awarded a GED from First Coast Technical College. Looks like Katherine didn't finish a regular high school curriculum but got a GED instead. Not a bad thing to do, just that the best colleges don't look as favorably on a GED compared to a college prep high school diploma.

Wish Katherine all the best, she has a few obstacles to overcome but if she wants to do well in life she can.

Since: Nov 11

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#190 Nov 15, 2011
Slayer wrote:
<quoted text>
FYI: wanted to let you know that the way BBH and the others found Paul's last name, I think, was through seeing his name listed on web sites like Target and Walmart registries for baby gifts. That's how I found his name.
SLAYER ---

I actually read about Paul on ~~~ "Dr. Phils Facebook Page".
It was under one of the 2 mentions of the show on Monday the 7th w/ Alex and her family. There was a post/message by a girl named Brittany that was pretty...ummmmm, shocking may be the right word.

I read it, tried 2 summerize it on here, and was asking you guys about what "Brittany" - his still current wife -(according to her) what you thought about this, and if anyone had verified that some if not all of her post is true.???..

After reading you guys posts, a few things came to light that i had not considered. The main one being that someone may have made this up. And the fact that it was and still may be posted on Dr. Phils Facebook page alone...... something like this true or not, usually gets shut down immediately by his page monitors.

I had told you that from what i had looked up, the part about Brittany being married to Paul ( "w/ no intentions of giving hinm a divorce") seems to be accurate. Some of the rest, especially the part about selling drugs to live.... sounds more like a woman/girl severly scorned.

Hey, she totally has a right to be pissed off (if her story is true). Think about it for a second. She NEVER asked to have her husband/personal business splashed all over the television. And how many countries does his show air in????? Damn......

That's why i try to stay outta site when necessary----LOL,LOL,LOL.

Any news about this information? Has DP or Erin said anything? I have no desire to sign onto his Facebook page, just to ask the questions that he seems to be dodging.
If anyone else wants to do it, feel free, just pls. let the people on here know that you said something !!!!!!
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#191 Nov 15, 2011
Slayer wrote:
<quoted text>
FYI: wanted to let you know that the way BBH and the others found Paul's last name, I think, was through seeing his name listed on web sites like Target and Walmart registries for baby gifts. That's how I found his name.
Katherine may be on a slightly more solid path than Alex, but she still prefers dangerous men to quality guys. One claim posted that concerns me, probably seen by the other posters, is that the current wife, Brittany, accuses her husband of earning his money by selling drugs.
Well, remember that guy Katherine was involved with---Sean? and she went to jail because she lied for him. She was using drugs in her parents' house with the kids there and she either kicked one of the kids or the dog. I'm not impressed with her even if she isn't in Alexandra's league yet. Baby gifts, please! When he's married to someone else?
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#192 Nov 15, 2011
Slayer wrote:
Just found another record for Katherine Stehl on St. Augustine online web site. In spring 2009, Katherine Stehl was awarded a GED from First Coast Technical College. Looks like Katherine didn't finish a regular high school curriculum but got a GED instead. Not a bad thing to do, just that the best colleges don't look as favorably on a GED compared to a college prep high school diploma.
Wish Katherine all the best, she has a few obstacles to overcome but if she wants to do well in life she can.
Well, at least she finished. These girls talk about being nurses, teachers, lawyers when all they've turned into is drug addicts and baby making machines. If they really want to make something of themselves they will have a big hole to climb out of and people with good credentials are having trouble getting jobs. They dont live in the real world.
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#193 Nov 15, 2011
bobbleheadhere wrote:
<quoted text>
SLAYER ---
I actually read about Paul on ~~~ "Dr. Phils Facebook Page".
It was under one of the 2 mentions of the show on Monday the 7th w/ Alex and her family. There was a post/message by a girl named Brittany that was pretty...ummmmm, shocking may be the right word.
I read it, tried 2 summerize it on here, and was asking you guys about what "Brittany" - his still current wife -(according to her) what you thought about this, and if anyone had verified that some if not all of her post is true.???..
After reading you guys posts, a few things came to light that i had not considered. The main one being that someone may have made this up. And the fact that it was and still may be posted on Dr. Phils Facebook page alone...... something like this true or not, usually gets shut down immediately by his page monitors.
I had told you that from what i had looked up, the part about Brittany being married to Paul ( "w/ no intentions of giving hinm a divorce") seems to be accurate. Some of the rest, especially the part about selling drugs to live.... sounds more like a woman/girl severly scorned.
Hey, she totally has a right to be pissed off (if her story is true). Think about it for a second. She NEVER asked to have her husband/personal business splashed all over the television. And how many countries does his show air in????? Damn......
That's why i try to stay outta site when necessary----LOL,LOL,LOL.
Any news about this information? Has DP or Erin said anything? I have no desire to sign onto his Facebook page, just to ask the questions that he seems to be dodging.
If anyone else wants to do it, feel free, just pls. let the people on here know that you said something !!!!!!
Wow. No idea if it's true but given the messes this family seems to generate it wouldn't surprise me. Even if she is his girlfriend and not his wife, I wouldn't blame her for being pissed to have her business splashed all over Dr Phil.
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#194 Nov 16, 2011
bobbleheadhere wrote:
<quoted text>
SLAYER ---
I actually read about Paul on ~~~ "Dr. Phils Facebook Page".
It was under one of the 2 mentions of the show on Monday the 7th w/ Alex and her family. There was a post/message by a girl named Brittany that was pretty...ummmmm, shocking may be the right word.
I read it, tried 2 summerize it on here, and was asking you guys about what "Brittany" - his still current wife -(according to her) what you thought about this, and if anyone had verified that some if not all of her post is true.???..

Looks like the guy -- Erin Stehl has photos of Katherine and Paul playing with Alex's children in their pool. Paul is tall, thin build, lots of large tattoos, brown hair/eyes, and looks to me to be about 29 years old. Erin never posted what Paul for a living, just that she and Marty liked him and believed he was committed to Katherine. Guess she just wants to keep believing that. Someone tweeted her asking if they planned to get married and she didn't answer it.

I don't use Facebook, because of data security reasons, sometimes if I click a link I can read the posts, but to log into a specific page you must have a Facebook ID and log-on.

[QUOTE who="bobbleheadhere" ]
Any news about this information? Has DP or Erin said anything? I have no desire to sign onto his Facebook page, just to ask the questions that he seems to be dodging.
If anyone else wants to do it, feel free, just pls. let the people on here know that you said something !!!!!!
I thought that even Dr. Phil's staff was not able to delete messages posted on the Dr. Phil Facebook page. His staff can monitor the messages on his show's board, but Facebook is a public board monitored by a third party -- Facebook. So knowing that, I would trust Facebook postings more than Dr. Phil's board. I'm sure Dr. Phil doesn't want to heap any more ridicule from viewers about their youngest daughter's poor choices in men onto the heads of Erin and Marty who already have enough problems raising three grandchildren.

I did try to post on Dr. Phil's message board again recently under my old ID/password -- one a message to Erin suggesting she not even see any more children of Alexandra's, or else she wsill be taking care of them too. And the other one had to do with Alex's personality disorders -- both messages were blocked! Oh well!
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#195 Nov 16, 2011
Hope you can my reply above I didn't post it correctly. I noticed that Erin has taken down some of her photos she took of Katherine with Paul -- but she still hasn't posted anything about knowing that Paul is still married.
Slayer

Leeds, AL

#196 Nov 16, 2011
bobbleheadhere wrote:
<quoted text>
I had told you that from what i had looked up, the part about Brittany being married to Paul ( "w/ no intentions of giving hinm a divorce") seems to be accurate. Some of the rest, especially the part about selling drugs to live.... sounds more like a woman/girl severly scorned.
You may be right about Brittany posting that Paul sells (sold) drugs just to make him look bad. But if all this is true, you're also right that she must feel humiliated at this point and has reason to lash out. I suppose if they do file for divorce, and they battle for custody of their son, she's already won it. Good luck getting child support from him -- I don't care if Erin and Marty say they think he's a good guy -- apparently neither one of them knows him very well.

So far no acknowledgements from Erin's twitter and blog, and Dr. Phil's controlled message board that Paul is married.
Slayer

Birmingham, AL

#197 Nov 17, 2011
When I responded to bobbleheadhere I didn't frame the answer so it was hard to read, so here it is again:

Looks like the guy -- Erin Stehl has photos of Katherine and Paul playing with Alex's children in their pool. Paul is tall, thin build, lots of large tattoos, brown hair/eyes, and looks to me to be about 29 years old. Erin never posted what Paul did for a living, just that she and Marty liked him and believed he was committed to Katherine. Guess she just wants to keep believing that. Someone tweeted her asking if they planned to get married and she didn't answer it.

I don't use Facebook, because of data security concerns, sometimes if I click a link I can read the posts, but to log into the Wall or a specific page you must have a Facebook ID and log-on.

BTW -- Erin's Twitter page very quiet! Wonder why?
Slayer

Birmingham, AL

#198 Nov 17, 2011
greenwitch wrote:
<quoted text>Well, remember that guy Katherine was involved with---Sean? and she went to jail because she lied for him. She was using drugs in her parents' house with the kids there and she either kicked one of the kids or the dog. I'm not impressed with her even if she isn't in Alexandra's league yet. Baby gifts, please! When he's married to someone else?
Yeah I do remember Sean -- when I read Bobblehead and the other posters info about Paul's last name, my first thought was OMG she's found a released felon just like Alex. Ponte Vedra Beach,(her parents' home), Jacksonville, and St. Augustine, FL are geographically close, plus close to Atlantic Ocean sea ports where naval ships dock. There's a good chance Paul is a former, or current, naval serviceman. An arrest record would mean he is 'involuntarily' discharged, or he was already out.

You're right, life's hard enough without inviting trouble, but these girls seem incapable of learning from their own and others' mistakes. And they both refuse to listen to their parents' advice. I recall that Katherine screaming at her mother to go die in a car accident and that she kicked the dog and made the children cry b/c they thought she'd hurt it.

Katherine's no prize, but she appeared to be 'acting' extra nice on that last show in case some of Dr. Phil's viewers wanted to send her baby gifts. Do you think those generous viewers would decide to do that if they knew Katherine's fiance was already married and a former felon?
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#199 Nov 17, 2011
Slayer wrote:
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I thought that even Dr. Phil's staff was not able to delete messages posted on the Dr. Phil Facebook page. His staff can monitor the messages on his show's board, but Facebook is a public board monitored by a third party -- Facebook. So knowing that, I would trust Facebook postings more than Dr. Phil's board. I'm sure Dr. Phil doesn't want to heap any more ridicule from viewers about their youngest daughter's poor choices in men onto the heads of Erin and Marty who already have enough problems raising three grandchildren.
I did try to post on Dr. Phil's message board again recently under my old ID/password -- one a message to Erin suggesting she not even see any more children of Alexandra's, or else she wsill be taking care of them too. And the other one had to do with Alex's personality disorders -- both messages were blocked! Oh well!
well, there's not much point to that board if it is sensored. See, he does care about only the ratings, wants only positive feedback. Even so, most comments about Alex are negative and people keep telling him not to have her on the show any more.
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#200 Nov 17, 2011
Slayer wrote:
When I responded to bobbleheadhere I didn't frame the answer so it was hard to read, so here it is again:
Looks like the guy -- Erin Stehl has photos of Katherine and Paul playing with Alex's children in their pool. Paul is tall, thin build, lots of large tattoos, brown hair/eyes, and looks to me to be about 29 years old. Erin never posted what Paul did for a living, just that she and Marty liked him and believed he was committed to Katherine. Guess she just wants to keep believing that. Someone tweeted her asking if they planned to get married and she didn't answer it.
I don't use Facebook, because of data security concerns, sometimes if I click a link I can read the posts, but to log into the Wall or a specific page you must have a Facebook ID and log-on.
BTW -- Erin's Twitter page very quiet! Wonder why?
Maybe Erin didnt know that Paul was married. Maybe he is separated? I doubt she would like him or think he was committed to Katherine if she did know and it was true. Part of the problem may be they were always so focused on Alexandra that they just weren't paying attention to what Katherine was up to.
greenwitch

Saint Paul, MN

#201 Nov 17, 2011
Slayer wrote:
When I responded to bobbleheadhere I didn't frame the answer so it was hard to read, so here it is again:
Looks like the guy -- Erin Stehl has photos of Katherine and Paul playing with Alex's children in their pool. Paul is tall, thin build, lots of large tattoos, brown hair/eyes, and looks to me to be about 29 years old. Erin never posted what Paul did for a living, just that she and Marty liked him and believed he was committed to Katherine. Guess she just wants to keep believing that. Someone tweeted her asking if they planned to get married and she didn't answer it.
I don't use Facebook, because of data security concerns, sometimes if I click a link I can read the posts, but to log into the Wall or a specific page you must have a Facebook ID and log-on.
BTW -- Erin's Twitter page very quiet! Wonder why?
I dont use Facebook either. What I do is not the whole worlds business.

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