is my wife cheating
Bryan

Raleigh, NC

#1 Aug 17, 2010
I have been with my wife for 8 years we have been married 4 at the end of the month. Just 2 months ago my wife said she wanted to talk. When she got home from work she decided to tell me that she is not sure if she is in love with me anymore she knows she loves me but not sure she is in love with me. As you can expect this was hard to hear. She said I see you more as my best friend. We have not had sex in quite a while. I began to notice something was strange before she said all this to me because she would cover up close doors and not want me to see her naked. Well I decided to one day check the cell phone after she upgraded the text plan. She did not do this secretivly she told me about it but had to remove me as the account manager to do it. I took back over the account and noticed there were over 500 messages to one number. They are minutes apart. There have been messages when she is not at work some as early in the morning as 445am. she has also sent messages late at night when work is closed. Perhaps the one that most affected me was the one to this number the day after she told me she is not in love with me anymore it was at 445am. My wife does not know that I searched the number and found that it is a guy she works with. This last month she has sent recieved 738 messages. I do not know if they are from the same number because I turned the ACCT back over to her becasue it was driving me crazy. I have asked her about them and she says that I told you that i text alot at work. When asked who it is that she texts alot she says just a friend at work. She always deletes her messages before she gets home when I have the chance to get her phone the history is cleared. I did happen to get her phone one time and it was off when I turned it on a message was delivered and all it said was Hello, it was from that same number. I am worried because i am trying to work things out she says she needs some time to think what she wants and just wants to be by herself right now while she decides so we are is seperat rooms can anyone give me some advice please.
k

Park Hills, MO

#2 Apr 21, 2011
Bryan wrote:
I have been with my wife for 8 years we have been married 4 at the end of the month. Just 2 months ago my wife said she wanted to talk. When she got home from work she decided to tell me that she is not sure if she is in love with me anymore she knows she loves me but not sure she is in love with me. As you can expect this was hard to hear. She said I see you more as my best friend. We have not had sex in quite a while. I began to notice something was strange before she said all this to me because she would cover up close doors and not want me to see her naked. Well I decided to one day check the cell phone after she upgraded the text plan. She did not do this secretivly she told me about it but had to remove me as the account manager to do it. I took back over the account and noticed there were over 500 messages to one number. They are minutes apart. There have been messages when she is not at work some as early in the morning as 445am. she has also sent messages late at night when work is closed. Perhaps the one that most affected me was the one to this number the day after she told me she is not in love with me anymore it was at 445am. My wife does not know that I searched the number and found that it is a guy she works with. This last month she has sent recieved 738 messages. I do not know if they are from the same number because I turned the ACCT back over to her becasue it was driving me crazy. I have asked her about them and she says that I told you that i text alot at work. When asked who it is that she texts alot she says just a friend at work. She always deletes her messages before she gets home when I have the chance to get her phone the history is cleared. I did happen to get her phone one time and it was off when I turned it on a message was delivered and all it said was Hello, it was from that same number. I am worried because i am trying to work things out she says she needs some time to think what she wants and just wants to be by herself right now while she decides so we are is seperat rooms can anyone give me some advice please.
It sounds like to me that she is cheating on you usually when someone needs to be alone and think it's because they have found some kind of comfort with someone else and they are confused could just be a friend that she has feelings for but in my experience they are cheating

Since: May 11

Bowling Green, KY

#3 Jul 20, 2011
Bryan wrote:
I have been with my wife for 8 years we have been married 4 at the end of the month. Just 2 months ago my wife said she wanted to talk. When she got home from work she decided to tell me that she is not sure if she is in love with me anymore she knows she loves me but not sure she is in love with me. As you can expect this was hard to hear. She said I see you more as my best friend. We have not had sex in quite a while. I began to notice something was strange before she said all this to me because she would cover up close doors and not want me to see her naked. Well I decided to one day check the cell phone after she upgraded the text plan. She did not do this secretivly she told me about it but had to remove me as the account manager to do it. I took back over the account and noticed there were over 500 messages to one number. They are minutes apart. There have been messages when she is not at work some as early in the morning as 445am. she has also sent messages late at night when work is closed. Perhaps the one that most affected me was the one to this number the day after she told me she is not in love with me anymore it was at 445am. My wife does not know that I searched the number and found that it is a guy she works with. This last month she has sent recieved 738 messages. I do not know if they are from the same number because I turned the ACCT back over to her becasue it was driving me crazy. I have asked her about them and she says that I told you that i text alot at work. When asked who it is that she texts alot she says just a friend at work. She always deletes her messages before she gets home when I have the chance to get her phone the history is cleared. I did happen to get her phone one time and it was off when I turned it on a message was delivered and all it said was Hello, it was from that same number. I am worried because i am trying to work things out she says she needs some time to think what she wants and just wants to be by herself right now while she decides so we are is seperat rooms can anyone give me some advice please.
You should expose it to the other mans wife and their place of employment, there may be e-mail during working hours also. Then kick her to the curb and know you are better off without someone that would betray you.
Sid

Queensbury, NY

#4 Feb 9, 2016
Mine is. She didn't think that I knew. She sends secret texts secret phone calls. She gets emails from several dating sites. I come home from work and our bed is messed up. We quit having sex 6 years ago. We sleep in separate bedrooms. She encourages me to masturbate. I find c in her panties. I may have been to trusting, but some thing is going on.

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