Wyandotte Teen Killed In 3-Car Collis...

Wyandotte Teen Killed In 3-Car Collision Blamed On DUI Driver

There are 94 comments on the News on 6 Tulsa story from Aug 21, 2010, titled Wyandotte Teen Killed In 3-Car Collision Blamed On DUI Driver. In it, News on 6 Tulsa reports that:

A 15-year-old Wyandotte girl was killed Friday evening in a three-car collision troopers say was caused by a man driving under the influence of alcohol.

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Tonapa Saras aunt

East Moline, IL

#63 Oct 16, 2010
lol really? its free remember.. go look it up for yourself...although mine wasnt free but meh ... you get what you pay for and if you think im going to send you anything with my personal information on it your sadley mistakin.. especially when one of you was arrested for fraud just a lil over a year ago not a chance im willing to take sorry get your own copy
Sara s Mother Marsha

Panama City, FL

#64 Oct 16, 2010
you are so crazy!!! i have never been arrested for fraud! that is to damn funny!!!lmao!! you are a very stupid person! you have the wrong person!
barbara adams

Panama City, FL

#65 Oct 16, 2010
tonapa, marsha has never been arrested for fraud!! so you have your info wrong!
Tonapa Saras aunt

East Moline, IL

#66 Oct 16, 2010
no i didnt say marsha in particular... if you reread what i said .... one of them... i didnt want to specifically name anyone
marsha husband

Panama City, FL

#68 Oct 16, 2010
thank you bitch for the clarifacation. because marsha has not been arrested and has never stole anything. yes you did say it was marshe that was arrested! get your info right, before you open your big fat mouth...all you people are a big joke! with time on your hands. you know a person that lives in a glass house should not throw stones! you guys must really be bored and the infatuation with me, i love it. if you want to know about me please ask me i will tell you and you will not have to pay for anymore background checks on me! all charges was dropped on me, just to let you know. i think this is so cool i have fans!! lmao!!! and i'm so interesting and hated by all you guys, but yet i'm all you guys want to talk about. i love my life!!! do you???? the end!! get a life AND LOOSE SOME WEIGHT!! LMAO!!!!
Tonapa Saras aunt

East Moline, IL

#69 Oct 16, 2010
lol 2nd grade intellect with the fat jokes and your right people in glass houses should not throw stones so stop slingin fat jokes porky and me infatuated with you???? lol really? and not once did i EVER say she was arrested..... lol dang man slow down and take your time reading:) lol and really i hate to burst your bubble that mugshot was on a public site didnt pay a dime for it... again ty:) and you are callin me a bitch??? lol is that a bad thing?... really now ive not compared any of you to me but lets do ok... ive never been arrested nor have a traffic ticket.... ever! dont kid yourself fans tend to like you.. i dont .. you dont scare me, intimidate me or take the glory of bullying me cuz ya...ya just dont.. sorry AGAIN :) furthermore you damn straight i talk... its what i was taught to do as in infant your just not used to people standing up to you so get used to it i back down from no one ive faced and conquered alot bigger baddies than you in my life and you neither of you can break me or tear me down im sorry if the truth hurts ... if so change it:)... im really getting bored with yall now your not bringin your a game all of this could have been avoided if you hadnt attacked my kids nor my family you coulda just said your regards to that mans family but no you didnt so here i am... i sat back and said nothing until my dad and nana were mentioned which is wrong! they have done nothing but take care of those kids jeeze give credit where credit is due....and btw yes the police were looking for yall in cali i was there when they came to the house looking for yall and questioned my family!
Marsha

Panama City, FL

#70 Oct 16, 2010
I am not in a fat calling contest either LoL! EVERYONE knew where I went and were I was. I was the one to call the police out to there place in cali on many occasions wanting to know about the kids, because all phones were disconnected or changed, and yes I did have a DUI in cali over 10yrs ago and that would be one reason they would have been asking about me, if they did. I talked to the police on the phone many times after i left there. and HELL no i wasnt coming back to that, so what! but thats all irrelavant and over anyhow and I did thank joyce btw at the hospital credit was given and acknowledged! I was not rude to anyone while I was there and neither was Mark! and we are still not being rude, just stating the truth. It don't matter to me what you know, or say I'll tell you whats up if you want to know every detail of my life or Mark's. Hun i could write you a novel about it. But a felon I am NOT. All the bull you are saying will come back to you one day remember karma is a beeootch. your words you will eat. The End!
Tonapa Saras aunt

East Moline, IL

#71 Oct 17, 2010
lol.... you betcha that karmic hammer falls mighty hard:).. and no your life details dont impress me nor do they consume my life just not impressed with the way you have talked to my children about my family plain n simple leave it alone i will go away i promise funny thing about that phone number changed it only changed one time my dad had the same number for over 10 years! yeah they finally had to change it not because of yall ... other reasons but funny thing how that works since the address never changed! did u forget the zip code or summin? i never had to cal the police to get in touch with wayne i went through the child support division they were more than willing to help me get in touch with him i promise you marsha the police did question everyone about you now you may hate me and i dont really care.. but you know i dont break promises so its up to you what you want to believe means nothing to me honestly but your out of excuses now and i NEVER said you WERE arrested..... please show me one place in my posts where i said you had BEEN arrested please??? post it and ill eat my words and apologize! but thats not gonna happen because i think you misread anyway soo not the point.... never said you were rude when you were in ok... dun know where that came from but meh ill bite in fact is why i was so surprised where all the bs was commin from quite surprising actually indeed considering the devastation that saras death brought all around everyone should have been together on this one thing for misty and scott your feelings and my brothers feelings are null compared to theirs and mine included this all childish and immature but in spite of that here we are doin it anyway! shame on us... us all for this but i will not let you say anything about my family you and my brother can bash each other all you want thats the right with exes but leave it at that! thats between you and him not you mark and him or me or anyone else that wants to jump in you lived with him you married him so deal with it, you had 3 bueatiful children together that should trump any other bullshit that arose again im rambling and really dont care just remember leave my family alone you wont have to deal with me as amusing as its been its gotten really boring at the same time and quite frankly i am not thrilled at the not so challenging remarks and i hate who it makes me become but i love my family and will goto any lentghs to protect them you should know family means everything to me even the dysfunctional ones! regardless how i feel about you or your husband i am content with my relationship with the kids and they know i love them with no doubts so say what ya wanna say lol doesnt hurt my feelings none but i didnt lie not one thing i said was a lie maybe you misinturpited what i said or misread whatever not my problem
POISON

Tulsa, OK

#72 Oct 17, 2010
Please know I say this with respect and out of concern for each of you. I am not trying to start a fight, I really am trying to offer advice out of sincere concern.
Wow, what a horrible family battle you are all engaged in. You all must be hurting, in a way I can only imagine, from the loss of Sara. However, bashing each other is only hurting each of you. I feel you are all trying to find a way to vent out your grief, pain, and sadness but this is so unhealthy. I don't know any of you, and I know it's not my business, but I am concerned for all you. Please find a counselor. No matter who you are, what you have or haven't done, etc I hope you each find counselors to guide you through your pain and help you heal. No matter who you are, the loss of a young family member is so painful and tragic that any of us would need professional assistance. My prayers are with all you. I can feel each of your pain just by reading your posts. It's heartbreaking.
Again, please know I'm trying to help, I don't want to anger any of you, and I will be praying for all you. Blessings to each and every one of you.
Thoughts

Jenks, OK

#73 Oct 17, 2010
POISON wrote:
Please know I say this with respect and out of concern for each of you. I am not trying to start a fight, I really am trying to offer advice out of sincere concern.
Wow, what a horrible family battle you are all engaged in. You all must be hurting, in a way I can only imagine, from the loss of Sara. However, bashing each other is only hurting each of you. I feel you are all trying to find a way to vent out your grief, pain, and sadness but this is so unhealthy. I don't know any of you, and I know it's not my business, but I am concerned for all you. Please find a counselor. No matter who you are, what you have or haven't done, etc I hope you each find counselors to guide you through your pain and help you heal. No matter who you are, the loss of a young family member is so painful and tragic that any of us would need professional assistance. My prayers are with all you. I can feel each of your pain just by reading your posts. It's heartbreaking.
Again, please know I'm trying to help, I don't want to anger any of you, and I will be praying for all you. Blessings to each and every one of you.
I have to agree! This whole forum went from greiving the loss of this child to has the better of the families. I feel as if they are trying to pick who's "trashier" When I first started reading the comments my heart broke because this young lady was killed by a gentleman that made a horrific decision and then went further by taking his own life. My heart still breaks but now for more than just the accident but what she endured also during life. Bless each one of you but you guys really need some counseling.
Tonapa Saras aunt

Theodore, AL

#74 Oct 17, 2010
i completely agree with both of you it has gone way too far , although trying to defend my family for doing nothing but ever taking care of these children i did it in the wrong way i agree tho even tho she wasnt part of her life she is still grieving and no one knows where to put it i do know she loves sara but some of the choices she made didnt support that for any of the kids and i think thats where alot of my hostility comes from not my place to judge her as i have but yall dont know the whole story even tho your comments have made me stop and think to think about what i am doing it still runs deeper than this tragedy alone there is no fix to this so really it is all pointless your thoughts and concerns much appreciated but ill leave it that
POISON

Tulsa, OK

#75 Oct 17, 2010
Tonapa Saras aunt wrote:
i completely agree with both of you it has gone way too far , although trying to defend my family for doing nothing but ever taking care of these children i did it in the wrong way i agree tho even tho she wasnt part of her life she is still grieving and no one knows where to put it i do know she loves sara but some of the choices she made didnt support that for any of the kids and i think thats where alot of my hostility comes from not my place to judge her as i have but yall dont know the whole story even tho your comments have made me stop and think to think about what i am doing it still runs deeper than this tragedy alone there is no fix to this so really it is all pointless your thoughts and concerns much appreciated but ill leave it that
I commend you for your post. I think you've just shown you are being the "bigger person" and are ready to move on in a positive direction. There may be "no fix" for your family problems but there is a fix for you and each member of your family. Continue to focus on healing your broken heart and recovering from this horrible tragedy. You clearly love Sara and I can see you want to honor her and her everlasting memory. It may sound silly, but I am proud of you for realizing the fighting must end now. You just took the first BIG step toward your recovery! You just ejected the negativity from your life and you will now begin to heal. I wish you and your family the best, and will continue to pray for each of you. I can honestly feel your pain through your words. Blessings to you, you will get through this. Once again, please know everything I say is with respect and concern.
marsha

Panama City, FL

#76 Oct 18, 2010
To "Poison" and "Thoughts" and yes i must say Tonapas last comment is right and fair, Sara's life here is sadly over, and so is the man that has caused all this pain and anger and frustration to everyone. The only point i was trying to get across, was that We should not judge people when some of us have done the same things as this man and some worse, but only have not killed someone doing it luckily. that was all, Mabey I was wrong in mentioning names while trying to get my point across, and I do apoligize for it!! Only God is Judge! sara did not live with me, and I did not know her life as much as the dietz family did? But I still Love her and ALWAYS will. as I do misty and scott and their little brother and sister autumn and jj. And yes tonapa the past is the past so lets leave it there, that was over 11 years ago! I hold NO hate to any of you, why would I? I refuse to live my life in anger and fighting and bitterness and its time to move on and be happy with life while we still can and I wish the dietz family all the best, in health, happiness and healing! As well as to the Hughes family. Good luck to you all! and Good bye.. Sara your life was cut short and I know you were a sweet girl and had a beautiful heart and mind and you will remain in my thoughts and heart for eternity....God must have needed a great hairdresser and make-up artist.
Jeania

Jackson, TN

#77 Oct 22, 2010
How sad this all must be to the child that survived the wreck. Watching her family bash each other apart, telling family secrets to the whole world on the internet and blaming someone who was never convicted. The sad part on Patrick's side of this story is he was not the one driving and the driver admits to the neighborhood where he lives several times but nothing is being done. If you want justice for your family better dig deeper. I was on the phone the night of the wreck talking to each one in the car until the phone went dead. I know who was driving and this is not over yet. Since my husband died I have seen no proof that this was not murder I was talking to him everday and his plans were to turn himself in. He would not even come for the visit he had planned to see his kids because he did not want to look guilty. I was told that they didn't see how he done this too himself. Stop being so quick to judge him and each other. It rains on the just and the unjust. I will post again when the proof comes out. Would love a private chat with the family to reopen this case but guess that can't happen after seeing the way they atack each other. Everyone falls short of the Glory of God. Just as I have. Hope you find Jesus today.
mark knight

Panama City, FL

#78 Oct 23, 2010
WOW!sounds to me that you would want to clear your husbands name of this??? if someone else was driving you should say something...
Marsha Knight

Panama City, FL

#79 Oct 24, 2010
Tonapa Saras aunt wrote:
ok so ive kept my mouth shut far too long now, now i say whats on my mind: 1st marsha you have never been a mother to those kids i remember misty being first born and you were yelling at her for crying because you were trying to sleep, i took her several times in the morning so she wouldnt "bother" you, furthermore you drank all through your pregnancies, this is a fact! you and my brother both made mistakes including driving drunk with the kids in the car with you... and not to mention the racing while intoxicated with them in the car with you i remember talking to you on the phone and u yelling at the kids calling them names maybe it was the combo of you and my brother i dunno you seem to be a better mom to your children you have with mark and thats a good thing but truthfully you were never a "mom" to my neices and nephew, for you to sit there and judge my brother for being the best parent he could ( btw he never bailed on the kids) is uncalled for if your mad at someone it should be at yourself for not trying harder the only mom the kids have ever had has been nana you should thank your lucky stars shes as good at heart as she is as far as my dad you said he was watching porn in front of the kids -not true he was always in his own bedroom the kids would go in there in his space you said sara didnt like any of us lol wich is not true i talked to sara many times yes she was angry for the life she was dealt( and you were the primary source of that anger) but hey what teenage girl actually claims to like her family? heck yes she went to florida to visit you or well the "florida beach" and you had a second chance with her but what about misty and scott you left them behind too! youve since the funeral, deleted and blocked misty on her facebook w/o reason she didnt do anything to you but ask how you got the police report with if is public knowledge shouldnt of been a big deal to answer her but you chose to be unneccarily rude to her and left her once again to think it was something she did .. tell the truth why you left california.. hmmm maybe because you were gonna be arrested for stealing old peoples social security checks.. heh public knowledge dont ya just love it! so if you want to get on here and paint a st theresa picture of yourself you better think of the kids you have left and what you can do to fix it and your so forgiving... lies thats why you filed a suit against mr hughes ??? at least my family is only trying to get help with mistys medical bills and saras funeral costs wich hmm u contributed to but common now where did that money really come from? not to mention how much was it again? wanna talk about canabalism you threw your young out to survive without you.. guess what they did and will continue to do so without you.. no one in MY family has tried to get money from saras death hmmm wonder where that came from.. do not make saras death your way to sock it to my family for only ever loving your children and taking care of them and providing them with the things you didnt! how are we vultures again? i think youve proven that to be lie again keep living in this fantasy world with your maniac husband and do what you do best.. disapear
Yes tonapa you did say I was "going" to be arrested in CA for stealing old folks SS checks? Which by the way did NOT EVER happen, another lie! And NO i'm not mad at Myself or anyone for that matter. And Whats wrong? you cannot seem dig anything up on me, hmmm I guess because I have done NOTHING wrong, except for marrying into your F**ked up family and dui! So guess you felt you had to dig up on mark to get to me, how sad! btw his charge is not what you think, so haha his charge was droppped dig deeper next time, Lmao!! You need to think about how you raised your own kids before you judge me, and we must remember i was there when you and my bro were married...shall I spill the beans...Not this time! Good riddance! and yes i will attack when attacked
Marsha Knight

Panama City, FL

#80 Oct 24, 2010
Jeania wrote:
How sad this all must be to the child that survived the wreck. Watching her family bash each other apart, telling family secrets to the whole world on the internet and blaming someone who was never convicted. The sad part on Patrick's side of this story is he was not the one driving and the driver admits to the neighborhood where he lives several times but nothing is being done. If you want justice for your family better dig deeper. I was on the phone the night of the wreck talking to each one in the car until the phone went dead. I know who was driving and this is not over yet. Since my husband died I have seen no proof that this was not murder I was talking to him everday and his plans were to turn himself in. He would not even come for the visit he had planned to see his kids because he did not want to look guilty. I was told that they didn't see how he done this too himself. Stop being so quick to judge him and each other. It rains on the just and the unjust. I will post again when the proof comes out. Would love a private chat with the family to reopen this case but guess that can't happen after seeing the way they atack each other. Everyone falls short of the Glory of God. Just as I have. Hope you find Jesus today.
And I have Found Jesus along time ago...This whole thing Sounds supicious to me, things are not adding up here! And we have not said anything derogitory about patrick your husband, All have fell short of perfect. And I am deeply sorry for You and his children's loss, it is a shame, this whole entire thing has ever happenend. And yeah I will not just set back and let these people shredd me to pieces, I will respond to their lies to defend myself and not to bash anyone, what i say is the truth, I have nothing to hide about my life, everyone knows what I've done in the past anyways! and also if you know any info about this whole situation I suggest you tell the proper authorities if you want to clear your husband of any wrong doing! Somethings are not adding up here and mabey YOU should have the case Looked over again concerning your husband patrick's death, that is something you would have to have reopenend if the case is closed!!! and reopenend on who was driving the car, I would like to know these anwsers also?? I would like to have contact with you with no Ill feelings? My email is [email protected]. Thanks and have a good day!
The Other Victim

United States

#81 Oct 25, 2010
Jeania wrote:
How sad this all must be to the child that survived the wreck. Watching her family bash each other apart, telling family secrets to the whole world on the internet and blaming someone who was never convicted. The sad part on Patrick's side of this story is he was not the one driving and the driver admits to the neighborhood where he lives several times but nothing is being done. If you want justice for your family better dig deeper. I was on the phone the night of the wreck talking to each one in the car until the phone went dead. I know who was driving and this is not over yet. Since my husband died I have seen no proof that this was not murder I was talking to him everday and his plans were to turn himself in. He would not even come for the visit he had planned to see his kids because he did not want to look guilty. I was told that they didn't see how he done this too himself. Stop being so quick to judge him and each other. It rains on the just and the unjust. I will post again when the proof comes out. Would love a private chat with the family to reopen this case but guess that can't happen after seeing the way they atack each other. Everyone falls short of the Glory of God. Just as I have. Hope you find Jesus today.
Why have you not contacted the DA to report it if you know someone else was driving? I would think cell phone records could be traced. All 3 of the people in this car should have been held accountable for the accident. The other 2 in that deadly vehicle should not have let whomever was driving do so. They should have to pay the price as well. They appear to be fine upstanding citizens for sure. If you're interested - just look up their records on odcr.com Three of us were innocent bystanders and were at the wrong place at the wrong time. The 2 of us left have to live with their actions and wonder what we could have done differently. Did the blood alcohol & drug tests lie too? I feel bad for the family Patrick Hughes left behind especially his children. What a waste of a life. He evidently needed help or an "intervention". If he did take his own life - what a chicken way out. If he didn't drive the vehicle nor take his own life - you need to speak out and ensure the ones that did pay the price.
Pam roberts

Monterey Park, CA

#82 Oct 25, 2010
harry dietz wrote:
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yes it is.sara told me of alyssa avilla, and i thought how awful.
my family and i do absolutely love and are very greatful for our small surrounding communities.i do believe we have stumbled on a good people mine.
Harry We are Shocked our herts gose out to you and your family it was a foggy place we we lived in ca Ryan and jammie and my selfreally was shocked Jammie just cant beleve it we all think of you and your family
Pam roberts

Monterey Park, CA

#83 Oct 26, 2010
Sara s Mother Marsha wrote:
you are so crazy!!! i have never been arrested for fraud! that is to damn funny!!!lmao!! you are a very stupid person! you have the wrong person!
hi marsha sorry about your daughter may god help all of you trew this very hard time and I know you never was arrested for what they are saying and i know first hand tht talked bad about you and they always change there phone number . and the gos up in that hell hole was bad. and when a marrage gose bad in just not one who did it it takes 2 to make it and when you fall out love with your mate and u dont want them anymore i would run too and as far a i rember they would not let u take your kids. i still think you was the best mom love you marsha i live in ventura ca so does my son and daughter and her 5 kids and we never move back to that place. I know you love all your kids but people would not let u and mark rest always buging u more less they ran u off to make u look bad

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