Why Do Men Solicit Prostitutes?

Why Do Men Solicit Prostitutes?

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Oklahoma Sweetheart

United States

#1 May 12, 2008
This thread isn't about whether prostitution is right or wrong. It isn't about whether or not it should be legalized. What I want to know is why men solicit prostitutes in the first place.
If there was no demand, there would be no need for supply. With all the "free" sex floating around, I just don't understand why men solicit hookers.
With Friends Like These

AOL

#2 May 12, 2008
Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:
This thread isn't about whether prostitution is right or wrong. It isn't about whether or not it should be legalized. What I want to know is why men solicit prostitutes in the first place.
If there was no demand, there would be no need for supply. With all the "free" sex floating around, I just don't understand why men solicit hookers.
It's the "forbidden fruit" syndrome, coupled with wanting variety, plus, there doesn't have to be any emotional involvement. Most women,(not all), need to "be in love" and have an emotional involvement with their sex partners. Not all men share that need. Then, it comes right down to lust, and self gratification. If men have no moral qualms about what they're doing, it won't bother them conscience wise.
However, it speaks well of men when they take a higher moral ground, and want to become deeply and romantically involved making and sharing a life with the one they are romantically AND sexually in love with. That's when the gettin gets good :)

Why are we discussing this on Tulsa forum anyway I wonder? About men seeking prostitutes, that is, as if it were the only thing going on. Nowadays, we could just as easily discuss women having sexually based affairs, paying for sex with male prostitutes, gigolos, or Urban Cougars on the prowl. There are a multitude of variations on the theme of sex.
Oklahoma Sweetheart

United States

#3 May 12, 2008
With Friends Like These wrote:
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It's the "forbidden fruit" syndrome, coupled with wanting variety, plus, there doesn't have to be any emotional involvement. Most women,(not all), need to "be in love" and have an emotional involvement with their sex partners. Not all men share that need. Then, it comes right down to lust, and self gratification. If men have no moral qualms about what they're doing, it won't bother them conscience wise.
However, it speaks well of men when they take a higher moral ground, and want to become deeply and romantically involved making and sharing a life with the one they are romantically AND sexually in love with. That's when the gettin gets good :)
Why are we discussing this on Tulsa forum anyway I wonder? About men seeking prostitutes, that is, as if it were the only thing going on. Nowadays, we could just as easily discuss women having sexually based affairs, paying for sex with male prostitutes, gigolos, or Urban Cougars on the prowl. There are a multitude of variations on the theme of sex.
Why is it on the Tulsa Forum? Because the thread about the prostitution sting created such a furor that I was just curious about why men would visit one. It just seems so risky...riskier than picking up a "one-night stand" in a bar. But then again, maybe it isn't.
With Friends Like These

AOL

#4 May 12, 2008
Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:
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Why is it on the Tulsa Forum? Because the thread about the prostitution sting created such a furor that I was just curious about why men would visit one. It just seems so risky...riskier than picking up a "one-night stand" in a bar. But then again, maybe it isn't.
Right-o,OS....what about the Internet dating services? A Norman woman was recently murdered by a guy she'd just met on one of these, the FIRST night she met him. Made the mistake of taking him into her home right off the bat, and that's a no no for anyone. In a bar, dating service or pick up.
Cheap sex is just that....whether you pay for it or not, in my estimation.
Okiegal57

Vera, OK

#5 May 12, 2008
Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.
Just Bill

United States

#6 May 13, 2008
Okiegal57 wrote:
Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.
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So someone wanting sex is a "perv"? I think that would make you one as well then.

Maybe the person is not plesant to look at. Maybe they have no luck finding someone.

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Oklahoma Sweetheart

United States

#7 May 13, 2008
Okiegal57 wrote:
Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.
ROTFL. I think it has to be more than that. Do they think they are going to get better sex from a "pro"????
With Friends Like These

AOL

#8 May 13, 2008
Okiegal57 wrote:
Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.
You may be right Okiegal. And then too, this is the drive thru generation. No waiting, no standing in line.........well, maybe, lol!
Oklahoma Sweetheart

United States

#9 May 13, 2008
With Friends Like These wrote:
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You may be right Okiegal. And then too, this is the drive thru generation. No waiting, no standing in line.........well, maybe, lol!
Drive thru generation can't be the reason. LOL. After all, this "profession" is an OLD one.
Okiegal57

Inola, OK

#10 May 13, 2008
Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:
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ROTFL. I think it has to be more than that. Do they think they are going to get better sex from a "pro"????
Not necessarily "better" just hoping for a little more "variety" added to the buffet.
Okiegal57

Inola, OK

#11 May 13, 2008
With Friends Like These wrote:
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You may be right Okiegal. And then too, this is the drive thru generation. No waiting, no standing in line.........well, maybe, lol!
I would hate to be the guy, last in line...
Yucky! Yuck!
Bill Gordon

Tulsa, OK

#12 May 14, 2008
It’s an altruistic thing with men. They don’t really want the product, but rather have a desire to help women out that are in difficult situations. The only reason men actually consummate the deal is so they won’t hurt the woman’s feelings.
Oklahoma Sweetheart

United States

#13 May 14, 2008
Bill Gordon wrote:
It’s an altruistic thing with men. They don’t really want the product, but rather have a desire to help women out that are in difficult situations. The only reason men actually consummate the deal is so they won’t hurt the woman’s feelings.
Thanks so much! I needed a good laugh this morning. ROTFL
Venkat

Chennai, India

#15 Jul 24, 2008
MEn require outlet for their testosterone to exist without stress.Libido in a bisexual man is nature.Also God has created the penis for the vulva and the pleasure.The by product is a child.But men get libidinous as they see any female figure. the trigger is not beauty but a sexy look in physical figure.When the woman stats talking her other part of personality is revealed to exasperation.Further when the man is in heat the woman he has married to may not be in heat nor submissive to give one side gratification ; but prostitutes do for money.?thus he gets his stress relieved in the sexual existence as man.
SHOTGUN WILLIE

United States

#16 Jul 24, 2008
Venkat wrote:
MEn require outlet for their testosterone to exist without stress.Libido in a bisexual man is nature.Also God has created the penis for the vulva and the pleasure.The by product is a child.But men get libidinous as they see any female figure. the trigger is not beauty but a sexy look in physical figure.When the woman stats talking her other part of personality is revealed to exasperation.Further when the man is in heat the woman he has married to may not be in heat nor submissive to give one side gratification ; but prostitutes do for money.?thus he gets his stress relieved in the sexual existence as man.
Horse Puckey! You don't even make sense, boy. Men visit hookers because they want to get laid. Hookers never say "No". Its always a "sure thing".

“My babies resting ”

Since: May 08

Omaha, NE

#17 Jul 24, 2008
Okiegal57 wrote:
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Not necessarily "better" just hoping for a little more "variety" added to the buffet.
More variety is correct because you don't know who or how many she or he had already been with that day/night.
love clean clams

United States

#18 Jul 24, 2008
Dont legalize it, why take all the fun out of it.
Make the biotch pay the guy.
Grandma

United States

#20 Jul 29, 2008
The Real Reason wrote:
For a Single Guy. Its because its ALOT easier and cheaper to just go to the massage parlor and get a BJ for $30 or $40. Rather than have to put in all the time, effort and money to have to date a girl, take her out, spend money on stupid stuff, have to talk to her and listen like you actually care, bla bla bla, ect, ect, ect. Then if you lucky get some poon tang on the 2nd or 3rd date. This can quickly add up to several hundred $'s and many hours of work involved. Even then it might not work out.
For a Married Guy, its the excitiment of getting off by another woman that you dont even have to know her name, and the whole idea that men want more then just one......kinda like potato chips! And alot of wives sould learn how hookers talk to thier customers. Not just the dirty talk, but they way they talk to them in general. i.e. Boost thier Ego's make them feel special. Guys will say they dont care about that, but they do.
Not once, in your post, did you express any desire to please a woman...in fact, you made it VERY clear that you find it a CHORE to "have to talk to her and listen like you actually care, bla bla bla, ect, ect, ect." What you are saying is that you don't CARE about your date. All you want is pussy. Everything you said only what YOU want and you "dis" what a woman might want or need. Most women pick up on that right away. Maybe this is WHY you don't "get lucky" very often.
bja

Moncton, Canada

#22 Aug 30, 2009
having no sex relations with wife by her choice,options are an affair ,which is dangerous or prostition activities which invilves no emotional commitment but somewhat costly, money wise ,embarrising,and plagues the christian conscience.open minded comments welcome.
go figure

Inola, OK

#23 Aug 30, 2009
Well, this from the urbandictionary.com

pussy 4317 up, 873 down love it hate it

The prime motivating factor in any (straight) males life. Like oxygen, it's only important if you're not getting any. Lack thereof causing depression, anxiety, willingness to do any stupid stunt to get some, and a train of thought that focuses on little but the question of why you're the only one on the planet not getting any.

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