Well, there are at least a few appropriate responses to your remark, June. One of them being that it is God who gives life, and God who takes it away. We are not God...although many try to be.<quoted text>
Within your HOLY theology ... your god aborts fetuses by miscarriages and that makes HIM a murderer by choice.
So I suggest you don't knock women who have abortions, as women are not expected to be as holy as a perfect god that in turn aborts his own fetuses.
Silly stuff indeed!
Having a child is not a right; it's a gift from God. The end does not justify the means, either in seeking that gift or in refusing it.