my husband wants another man in the b...

my husband wants another man in the bedroom?

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Since: Aug 10

San Diego California

#1 Aug 3, 2010
I have been married 12 years and last week out of the blue in the heat of the moment my husband asked me if he could go get his friend to excite things some. I was like whoooa no! i only want you and he said you can just mess around with him, you will still only be having me but it will make things more exciting. I was blown away by the idea but i have pondered on it now and it REALLY excites me. I have asked him since then what all he meant by it and he says nothing nevermind each time. I am a no rules kinda girl what he wants he gets whenever, wherever and i get the same. even after 12 years of marriage we still have a good sex life. I was researching the subject and stumbled acrossed a bunch of men saying that it was a turn on and it was hot. I can't fatham seeing him with another woman (hell to the NO!) i would beat them both senceless, and yes i know that is a double standard and hypocritical but thats just how it is at this time. I am cautious because when the clothes go back on does it change things? Since he brought it up i have been more aroused and hornier than i have in a long time (i am a nymph so i stay pretty horny so this is all new to me.)
Thank you for any help you can give me!!!!

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#2 Aug 3, 2010
I guess you'll find that out...when it "goes down".

“NM Desert Rat”

Since: Mar 08

Elephant Butte, N.M.

#3 Aug 3, 2010
Unless you are both absolutely sure this is what you want to try this is a can best left unopened. Once opened there is no turning back.

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#4 Aug 3, 2010
Whichwayisup wrote:
I have been married 12 years and last week out of the blue in the heat of the moment my husband asked me if he could go get his friend to excite things some. I was like whoooa no! i only want you and he said you can just mess around with him, you will still only be having me but it will make things more exciting. I was blown away by the idea but i have pondered on it now and it REALLY excites me. I have asked him since then what all he meant by it and he says nothing nevermind each time. I am a no rules kinda girl what he wants he gets whenever, wherever and i get the same. even after 12 years of marriage we still have a good sex life. I was researching the subject and stumbled acrossed a bunch of men saying that it was a turn on and it was hot. I can't fatham seeing him with another woman (hell to the NO!) i would beat them both senceless, and yes i know that is a double standard and hypocritical but thats just how it is at this time. I am cautious because when the clothes go back on does it change things? Since he brought it up i have been more aroused and hornier than i have in a long time (i am a nymph so i stay pretty horny so this is all new to me.)
Thank you for any help you can give me!!!!
Your such a slut. Your husband wants another Man in the bed with you both b/c he's a faggot. No doubt in my mind your husband is bisexual. I am surprise that you haven't asked him was he gay? How do you know you husband and his "friend" aren't DL lovers? You gotta think, why would he choose this guy. I dare you to ask your husband if hes bisexual. Go AHead!!!

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#5 Aug 3, 2010
Most heterosexual Men want another Women in bed. I'm just sayin...

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#6 Aug 3, 2010
Whichwayisup wrote:
I have been married 12 years and last week out of the blue in the heat of the moment my husband asked me if he could go get his friend to excite things some. I was like whoooa no! i only want you and he said you can just mess around with him, you will still only be having me but it will make things more exciting. I was blown away by the idea but i have pondered on it now and it REALLY excites me. I have asked him since then what all he meant by it and he says nothing nevermind each time. I am a no rules kinda girl what he wants he gets whenever, wherever and i get the same. even after 12 years of marriage we still have a good sex life. I was researching the subject and stumbled acrossed a bunch of men saying that it was a turn on and it was hot. I can't fatham seeing him with another woman (hell to the NO!) i would beat them both senceless, and yes i know that is a double standard and hypocritical but thats just how it is at this time. I am cautious because when the clothes go back on does it change things? Since he brought it up i have been more aroused and hornier than i have in a long time (i am a nymph so i stay pretty horny so this is all new to me.)
Thank you for any help you can give me!!!!
So your husband just wanted to interrupt things and call up this other dude and have him come over and climb on you? Your husband says you would just "mess around" with the other dude but your husband would still be the one getting intercourse? So how do you know that in the heat of the moment they won't make you take turns with them? Are you ready to have sex with this other man while your husband directs the show? What if your husband wants to share with more of his friends? Or decides to have 3 men in at the same time? You might find yourself getting used as a sex toy for the whole community.

“Killer Chihuahua”

Since: Jul 10

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#7 Aug 3, 2010
mayonnaise wrote:
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Your such a slut. Your husband wants another Man in the bed with you both b/c he's a faggot. No doubt in my mind your husband is bisexual. I am surprise that you haven't asked him was he gay? How do you know you husband and his "friend" aren't DL lovers? You gotta think, why would he choose this guy. I dare you to ask your husband if hes bisexual. Go AHead!!!
More commonly a man would want another woman to come over.
cicero

Nampa, ID

#8 Aug 3, 2010
get your hands on the money. retain a good attorney. let the guy go. it is clear that he'd rather have a man in bed. maybe you aren't as good as you think!
Whichwayisup wrote:
I have been married 12 years and last week out of the blue in the heat of the moment my husband asked me if he could go get his friend to excite things some. I was like whoooa no! i only want you and he said you can just mess around with him, you will still only be having me but it will make things more exciting. I was blown away by the idea but i have pondered on it now and it REALLY excites me. I have asked him since then what all he meant by it and he says nothing nevermind each time. I am a no rules kinda girl what he wants he gets whenever, wherever and i get the same. even after 12 years of marriage we still have a good sex life. I was researching the subject and stumbled acrossed a bunch of men saying that it was a turn on and it was hot. I can't fatham seeing him with another woman (hell to the NO!) i would beat them both senceless, and yes i know that is a double standard and hypocritical but thats just how it is at this time. I am cautious because when the clothes go back on does it change things? Since he brought it up i have been more aroused and hornier than i have in a long time (i am a nymph so i stay pretty horny so this is all new to me.)
Thank you for any help you can give me!!!!

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#10 Aug 3, 2010
cicero wrote:
get your hands on the money. retain a good attorney. let the guy go. it is clear that he'd rather have a man in bed. maybe you aren't as good as you think!<quoted text>
You're all the man I'd need=D
cicero

Nampa, ID

#11 Aug 3, 2010
Gracious wrote:
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You're all the man I'd need=D
you made my day! i am crazy about you!

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#12 Aug 3, 2010
cicero wrote:
<quoted text>you made my day! i am crazy about you!
You're up late!
cicero

Nampa, ID

#13 Aug 3, 2010
Gracious wrote:
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You're up late!
it's not even midnight!
lifes a beach

Bernville, PA

#14 Aug 3, 2010
Perhaps you are all looking at this the wrong way. Perhaps its not the man but the idea of the competition that turns her hubby on. Maybe he is turned on by the fact that others find his wife sexually attracted and in a sense a spark of "competition" is what he is looking for. My advice to you, is definitely talk it all out and lay out the guidelines; even ask him why he wants to do it, and then if you are both entirely comfortable with it, have at it. Best of luck in whatever you decide.
lifes a beach

Bernville, PA

#15 Aug 3, 2010
*sexually attractive*

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#16 Aug 3, 2010
cicero wrote:
<quoted text>it's not even midnight!
It's 1:38 AM here, now. Usually you're not here at this hour.

Since: Aug 10

Summersville, WV

#17 Aug 3, 2010
men always dream of having 2 women in the bed..when a man mentions another man in the bed he is gay!!!!

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#18 Aug 3, 2010
cicero wrote:
<quoted text>it's not even midnight!
Did you really just disappear on me again without saying goodnight?:(
lifes a beach

Bernville, PA

#19 Aug 3, 2010
bambi10 wrote:
men always dream of having 2 women in the bed..when a man mentions another man in the bed he is gay!!!!
Not necessarily. Depends if he wants to engage with the other male or not; if not, its possible it is about the "competition aspect"
Curtis Lowe

Montgomery, AL

#20 Aug 3, 2010
I'd like another woman in the kitchin.

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#21 Aug 3, 2010
hmmm

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