Four kids ?
They know you are a moron now. They still love you.
Two kids Homey, one has three degrees. Even has a graduate degree in Science. They're both adults and productive people in society. One is an educator and the other a surgical nurse.
So I paid dearly for education. Yes Im proud they are smarter than me. Thats the way it is supposed to work. When kids are dumber than the parent. Life is nothing but havoc.
So who is smarter in your family. You or the kids?