If you had read my post, I allude to those factors by saying that she needs to give herself time to heal, be slower and more careful in the dating game, take self-defense classes, which would help raise her self-esteem, and learn to avoid certain types of guys.@lady atlas. If you stop ranting long enough, you may notice that in my original post I also recommended she speak with a councilor. Some people have self esteem issues or have been molested or have had bad experiences that cause them to make bad decisions.
Sometimes abused women subconsciously seek out abusive men, thinking they don't deserve better or because they have low self esteem or because that's all they know.
Stop hijacking this poor woman's post.
Either help out or shut up.
I'm agreeing with you! You'd see that if you'd look beyond your own snarky attitude! Why should she take advice from a jerkoff like you?
Either actually read a post or shut up.