Why do Turkish men cheat
Heartbroken girl

Romford, UK

#433 Aug 22, 2013
Badass wrote:
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Hi, sorry, just saw your post. So, are you sure he's actually divorced? It's unbelievable the lies they come up with! I would advise you to find out as much information about this guy as you possibly can. Take everything he say with a grain of salt and protect your heart. I had a woman give me similar advice years ago, but I thought, "No my guy is different, he's so sweet & kind, HE's not like the rest!" At the same time, you can't say EVERY Turkish guy is this way, but just be careful! Good luck- maybe if you;re not in love with him, just let him go? Feel free to contact me any time- if I can prevent one woman from going through what I did, it will be worth it.
Hi Badass - I was pursued by a Turkish guy last year (even tho I was married) I considered myself level headed but he completely bowled me over, perhaps coz I wanted to believe it as my marriage was shite ! But after nearly a year I went to see him and he was wonderful but since then he has become distant and not contacted me as much - he played mind games constantly - and something he said in the beginning "sex is sex and love is love" which was mentioned in this forum and made my blood run cold - I am not in the habit of sleeping around and now feel very humiliated and angry with myself - but bizarrely I still cant get him out of my head or delete his number etc - what the hell is wrong with me - where has my morals and self esteem gone - he got very jealous if I spoke to another man but seemed to try and get me to admit how jealous I was about other girls and him - im not going to contact him anymore but it hurts sooooo bloody much - I would have given everything up for him - someone help me see the light :(
what i heard

Reynoldsburg, OH

#434 Aug 22, 2013
The are looking for a woman whose mustache is not nicer than their own?
Sweet_jasmine

Philippines

#435 Aug 26, 2013
I met a Turkish Guy.His 37 years old.I know his married, I meet him in the omegle....he ask my fb account...and were friends for almost 3 months.The first time i saw him in the cam,I feel inlove with him.Love at first sight...I know he just playing,butIm so curious about him.I want to know about him.but he hides his real identity.His being so unfair to me and to his wife.He likes woman...he loves sex...Why am i inlove with that guy.I need some advise...please help me
Confused

Oldham, UK

#438 Sep 15, 2013
Been chatting to turkish guy for 1 year online speak on Skype everyday went on vacation and seen him for a week july this year everything was great, still see him and speak early evening when he has the time even though he is at work still but not too busy on Skype seen family members on skype too like his brother and wife, babies, his boss, he only has internet access at work he says, text each other everynight now before bed, tells me he loves me wants to be with me etc etc, I'm due to go back over and stay with him for a week again in November he is paying for the place to stay this time round which is great, I'm just a little confused he seems to be coming up with excuses or im looking for fault ?? that he has to leave skype after an hour or so because he is not well or his mother needs the doctors or she needs things from the shop, etc etc just wondering if this is a sign of the start of a problem, or am i just making a problem,?? I've asked all the obvious questions like , married got children ect etc he has never been married he says he did have a fiancé but he cheated on her and was dishonest he does not have any children, he has facebook with all the pictures of us on it and open to public so anyone can see them if he had anything to hide from people how could he possibly stay away from wife or children for a week and show things like pictures and his brother knows of me now also, I've asked to see his mum and rest of the relations but not going on vacation to his hometown could this be another cover up or is he just waiting till he is sure and ready ?? Any advise or comments would be greatly appreciated this is my first LDR also so bit unsure has to what's what and read lots of comments on here and does not sound very good with alot of the experiences I've read..
frida

Turkey

#440 Sep 21, 2013
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tracy williamson

Edinburgh, UK

#441 Oct 11, 2013
I went to marmaris last month and seen this turk for the 2 weeks I was there, we met on facebook through his brother who liked my daughter but didn't use his real name,he came under 3 names but I only got him on one of them, I know he has a string of women so I wasn't pulled in the way he wanted me to be,yes I bought him drinks and a few other things when I was there, anyway, when I got home he asked me to go over in the winter time but to send him 500£ so he could rent a place for us, of course I said no, and he soon changed his tune to ok don't come and don't bother me again kind of think,so I never, and he thought he was good in bed but I beg to differ,,2 minute wonder if u get my drift, and he said british men r bad in bed, eh no really,,he has this woman on the go for over 3 years but told me shes no good in bed and shes a good woman BUT too jelous which tells me he is using her and she is probs sending him money and things,so want to tell her but he wont listen, she is going to get her heart broken so bad,i feel sorry for Turkish men if this is all they know, they've been doing it for years.
Utku

Europe

#443 Oct 28, 2013
As a Turkish guy with a foreign girlfriend, I can give you two tips.

Don't sleep with a Turkish guy for a month or at least for a while in the beginning of your relationship. If he still doesn't break up,%90 he is in love and serious,%10 he is anyway determined. Especially don't immediately sleep with the guys you meet in touristic places of Turkey.

Secondly, if you want a long relationship and perhaps a marriage, check his life style and beliefs. If he comes from very traditional roots, if he wants to marry with a Muslim virgin girl etc. find it out before attaching more.

It is true that in central and eastern Turkey, the society is extremely conservative and pressuring the young girls and boys. So that, there is a hungriness of sex. On the other hand, in the western Turkey, the situation is better. Especially, young generations with university degrees are more open minded.
melani

Sarajevo, Bosnia and Herzegovina

#444 Oct 28, 2013
"Especially, young generations with university degrees are more open minded."

these words especially hit me as I know from my experience how much from the outside educated man can be conservative and listening his parents (everything the order him to do - even getting marry his cousin).....
Utku wrote:
As a Turkish guy with a foreign girlfriend, I can give you two tips.
Don't sleep with a Turkish guy for a month or at least for a while in the beginning of your relationship. If he still doesn't break up,%90 he is in love and serious,%10 he is anyway determined. Especially don't immediately sleep with the guys you meet in touristic places of Turkey.
Secondly, if you want a long relationship and perhaps a marriage, check his life style and beliefs. If he comes from very traditional roots, if he wants to marry with a Muslim virgin girl etc. find it out before attaching more.
It is true that in central and eastern Turkey, the society is extremely conservative and pressuring the young girls and boys. So that, there is a hungriness of sex. On the other hand, in the western Turkey, the situation is better. Especially, young generations with university degrees are more open minded.
Hashim

Mount Waverley, Australia

#445 Oct 30, 2013
Being Turkish isn't the cause of your man's cheating. Look closer to his upbringing, his father's influence during his youth, education, circle of friends, self awareness and his misogynistic religion. Good luck!
Brier_rose

Davao City, Philippines

#447 Nov 6, 2013
well..turkish men are handsome and more attractive.But one thing for sure they cheat because theyre not satistified to thier wife..thats it..
Brier_rose

Davao City, Philippines

#448 Nov 6, 2013
Hi can you tell me how many turkish guys,that named Hikmet?
Ayhan ates

UK

#449 Nov 6, 2013
hi everyone, I'm Turkish , yes I agree for a lot things has been said about Turkish men but what seems to be not mentioned here is as I was working in touristic part of turkey for so many years that British woman even the ones comes there with their husband and kids would really wants to be with Turkish men !!! I promise I have witnessed she makes her husband too drunk and got him to sleep so she can go herself alone to fuck some Turk , maybe Turks are better in bed as everyone already know how much they love sex ,!!!! so ask urself this why than you are with one of them ,?? why did u not do ur homework before involve with one of them ?????? any answer
Irakli

Gldani, Georgia

#451 Nov 11, 2013
Rai wrote:
Wow can you say stereotyping?? The issue of cheating doesn't only pertain to Turkish men! How many white men cheat on their wives? Or for that matter, how many white women cheat on their husbands/boyfriends? MANY! Cheating is not limited to men, because I know plenty of woman who have ruined their relationships by cheating. Western countries have the highest divorce rate in the world, and mostly because of cheating! And they don't even have the population that other places in the world have. The truth is it doesn't matter where the person comes from but rather what kind of person they are. If someone is a cheater, than that's something within that person, not their background. If a man/woman is cheating on you, then they do not love you, because you don't hurt the person you love like that.
Cheating is not cultural, it's personal. if your being cheating on, then it's time to end that relationship - regardless of what country the man comes from!
You are stupid woman. He want's VISA and Citizenship. Did you understand bitch?
Heartbroken girl

Romford, UK

#452 Nov 14, 2013
Still cant forget my Turkish guy - he never wanted money, green card or visa and I did not sleep with him until 8 months into it and HE did all the running - I cant understand why he did this for a year, I met his family etc and then as soon as I started to fall head over heels he cooled off - I am not in the habit of sleeping around even though I am English !! I am just so confused - he knew he would not be just effecting my life but my children too - I wish I had never set eyes on him then my heart would ok and I would be just getting on with my life but I cant I have a big question mark hanging over my head and I just want to know WHY ???
Moving on with life

Surfers Paradise, Australia

#454 Nov 17, 2013
Heartbroken girl wrote:
Still cant forget my Turkish guy - he never wanted money, green card or visa and I did not sleep with him until 8 months into it and HE did all the running - I cant understand why he did this for a year, I met his family etc and then as soon as I started to fall head over heels he cooled off - I am not in the habit of sleeping around even though I am English !! I am just so confused - he knew he would not be just effecting my life but my children too - I wish I had never set eyes on him then my heart would ok and I would be just getting on with my life but I cant I have a big question mark hanging over my head and I just want to know WHY ???
Hello Heartbroken,

My heart goes out to you as similar thing happened to me and after almost two years I still don't have an answer but I think guys who do that kind of thing are just heartless and very sick in the mind. Just try to put it as a bad experience and try to concentrate on yourself and children and maybe god has saved you and have something better for you. This type of Men never learn they just keep hurting and lying and fooling around, however Karma is a bitch and in the end it catches up with them.

I wish you all the best and hope that you can forget him and move on. It will be hard as you don't have the answers however time will heal you and you will be ok.
Heartbroken girl

Romford, UK

#455 Nov 20, 2013
Hello Moving on with Life - Thanks for your kind words the more I read up on this the more it seems to be happening - I am totally ashamed at myself for falling for it all. I hope karma does pay a visit - I am just totally confused as to why a man would want to do this to someone and you are right I probably will never get any answers - his answers would all be lies like the whole relationship was anyway :( Take are and hope you find your happy ever after too xx
us sam

Passaic, NJ

#457 Nov 29, 2013
I am sure they cheat cuz find somthing outsite csnt find it home
Turk

London, UK

#459 Dec 5, 2013
Iam Turkish and all Turkish man love woman even though we are married we always look for more but we will never leave our wife's. I
Turk

London, UK

#460 Dec 5, 2013
I been married for a year and I already slept with 10 different woman
But I love my wife
melani

Sarajevo, Bosnia and Herzegovina

#461 Dec 5, 2013
Turk wrote:
I been married for a year and I already slept with 10 different woman
But I love my wife
Then let your wife to sleep with 10 different man and listen her how she still says that she loves you. You are married only cause your society asks you to be married. Not because you know what the real point or marriage is and having a family. After all those western people value family more then world of Islam.... Really shame ...

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