Why do Turkish men cheat

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#339 Oct 28, 2012
LatinQueen wrote:
<quoted text> Turkov, i defenitly agree with you. As i travel to Turkey last year the people was so pleasent. His mom was a bit quiet but his sister and father showed me heir love. However by that time he was alreay seeing someone and then he moved her in with me in the same city. It could been a spanish guy too... must to me his betrayed was so big, i had to walk away fromhim and the worst part is that i love his kids, but he uses them to call me and ask if i can go and see them. I cry everytime but iknow is him controling them too. I really apreiated your kind words. Ty
Hi LatinQueen,

In reply to post #232 page 11,

Sorry I haven't been on Topix fpr some time, there seems to be alot of people intellectualy bankrupt here.

Anyway thank you for your reply, this part however took my attention
LatinQueen wrote:
<quoted text> ..........must to me his betrayed was so big, i had to walk away from him and the worst part is that i love his kids, but he uses them to call me and ask if i can go and see them. I cry everytime but iknow is him controling them too. I really apreiated your kind words. Ty
It good you walked away from him, that's it you've just walked away from the problem, a new page in your life now you only have to deal with the left over emotions, and those kids pitty for them they have such a father that he can not provide them a matriarchal figure because he does not know how to honour cherish and respect a woman. The situation is all HIS fault and I think you should see it that way too.

As for your crying, just keep yourself together strong infront of your loved ones, you'll cry in your own privacy, cry it all out every single bit of it out until you dry up all your sorrow. It's time for you to move on.

And my advice is:
For your next encounter make sure and see if you future man has all the types of love for you namley:

-Agape
-Eros
-Philia/Philos and
-Storge

see the detail at:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_words_for_...

See relax!!!! not all Turks are bad ;)
turkish wife

Wigton, UK

#340 Nov 6, 2012
ive been with my turkish man for 7 years and im still happy, he treats me like a princess we have a daughter who is 5 years old , my partner is a loving kind good dad so not all turkish men are the same.He has never cheated on me and is a hard worker although he can be a bit controlling i have never looked back since meeting him.
hannah

Wigton, UK

#341 Nov 6, 2012
my Turkish man cheated on me all the time.controlled me i wasn't aloud to do anything but he was going to clubs meeting people but not me.i couldn't get rid of him cause i was scared he treat me horrible thought he could say anything to me. he was so in love with his self made me do everything he said i hated it if i have any advise don't get involved with a Turkish man t will never be a fairy tale ending just a messing one which you will wish you never stated.
remember there Muslim through and through
Lisa

Istanbul, Turkey

#342 Nov 6, 2012
turkish wife wrote:
ive been with my turkish man for 7 years and im still happy, he treats me like a princess we have a daughter who is 5 years old , my partner is a loving kind good dad so not all turkish men are the same.He has never cheated on me and is a hard worker although he can be a bit controlling i have never looked back since meeting him.
LOL probably don't even know the tricks Turkish men will play in order to seem decent. I know many good Turkish fathers (caring, loving husbands/fathers) who still cheat on their wives. So sorry you are blinded by his goodness that you cannot see he's cheating on you.
Necmi

Istanbul, Turkey

#343 Nov 6, 2012
Amber wrote:
I just recently had a baby with my Turkish husband and finally had enough (no he's not rich and I'm only taking our baby. He can keep everything else. Clothes, house, etc.).
Last straw was when he put our baby down close to the edge of the bed and our baby fell over. What my husband was doing? I found out that he was in our bathroom chatting with women when he was supposed to be looking after our baby! If fucking other women is so important to him he can do so alone. I am through with this marriage. No reason to neglect our baby for a moment of pleasure. Now he doesn't have to worry about a wife and baby. I'm going back to my own country as well so our baby will have NO contact with that asshole (at least until my child reaches adulthood).
If you are in good standing with his parents and they are still alive, you should have spoken to them about this incident. Turkish grandparents will not stand for their grandchild/children to be hurt in any way.

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#344 Nov 8, 2012
hannah wrote:
my Turkish man cheated on me all the time.controlled me i wasn't aloud to do anything but he was going to clubs meeting people but not me.i couldn't get rid of him cause i was scared he treat me horrible thought he could say anything to me. he was so in love with his self made me do everything he said i hated it if i have any advise don't get involved with a Turkish man t will never be a fairy tale ending just a messing one which you will wish you never stated.
remember there Muslim through and through
You haven't even been within ten of Turkish men. Just doing your routine propaganda you must be a Greek or Armernian animal.

Having said that I had no intention of offending animals.

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#345 Nov 8, 2012
* with in ten meters
Badass

Taunton, MA

#346 Nov 8, 2012
TURKOV wrote:
* with in ten meters
Well, I am American & I was with my Turkish fiancee for 10 years & gave him my virginity. He was a part of my family- he then confessed that he had a wife & 3 kids back home. We are not all Greeks, Armenians or spewing propaganda here. Most of us have had our lives destroyed by a lying, cheating Turk, so go away with your accusations!

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#347 Nov 8, 2012
Badass wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, I am American & I was with my Turkish fiancee for 10 years & gave him my virginity. He was a part of my family- he then confessed that he had a wife & 3 kids back home. We are not all Greeks, Armenians or spewing propaganda here. Most of us have had our lives destroyed by a lying, cheating Turk, so go away with your accusations!
I was aiming my words at those venting thier propaganda. I'm not here to join a stupid support group Turkish women are just too hard to get along with at times it takes a real Turk to put up with them let alone taming, The real Turks who are turk enough to put up with them and love even when they have to put up with their sh*t, as for the the lesser turks, these ones look for the naive non-Turks because Turkish women are highly feminists (in case you didn't know).

Turks don't have to be subjected to you're B.S. just because someone has burdened you with the pain. So stop giving me lousy replies that show you can't even pick a man!!!!!
Go Seek Help!!!!!

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#348 Nov 8, 2012
To spend TEN years with with someone like that either the Turk is super smart (a pathological liar) or you must be the most gullible in the herd.

Q: Can you show me where America is on a map?



HINT:
http://maps.google.com.au/maps...

PLease save your time and don't make me lol

Since: Sep 11

Location hidden

#349 Nov 8, 2012
I was with a turk who cheated. He was with every girl. What the one girl said makes sense he will marry you but date other women until he gets married. Even cheat while he married. I feel bad for the girl he loves. She going to have to live with him cheating. All of your exs sound like my ex. I was the other woman. The girl came first damn. He hacked all my accounts this is my friends account he hacked my others . I can't even think straight to talk I LOVE AMERICAN MEN
gun

Bowie, MD

#350 Nov 15, 2012
My husband is from Izmal. He is the best! We ha e been together for 2years nd been married for a month we do.t have any kids yet but he works all the time so that would explain why. But i feel loved at all times and never threatened! He comed home on time from work and will always be willing to talk or even have sex after a long day at work. On his days off he makes sure we spend the day together shopping and eating out doing things i like to do. He is an awesome man and im am so happy we met. With that being said all men are not the same and coming from turkey has nothing to do with cheating, you as a women yourself and what u do for him.
Badass

Taunton, MA

#351 Nov 15, 2012
TURKOV wrote:
To spend TEN years with with someone like that either the Turk is super smart (a pathological liar) or you must be the most gullible in the herd.
Q: Can you show me where America is on a map?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =qQdhMSEqhfgXX
HINT:
http://maps.google.com.au/maps...
PLease save your time and don't make me lol
Ha! Aren't you the clever one! No I'm not stupid, I happen to have my Master's degree, and the guy I was with IS a sociopath. Yes, I was naive, I was a virgin when we met which make what he did that much worse. The fact that we were together for ten years, and he made himself into a member of my family and NO ONE who knew us suspected anything, was what made it such a shock when I found out. But, don't worry, I found him and took care of that ass hole.

Why is it that you want to make it the woman's fault? Perhaps you are like him?

[email protected] ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#352 Nov 15, 2012
Badass wrote:
<quoted text>
Ha! Aren't you the clever one! No I'm not stupid, I happen to have my Master's degree, and the guy I was with IS a sociopath. Yes, I was naive, I was a virgin when we met which make what he did that much worse. The fact that we were together for ten years, and he made himself into a member of my family and NO ONE who knew us suspected anything, was what made it such a shock when I found out. But, don't worry, I found him and took care of that ass hole.
Why is it that you want to make it the woman's fault? Perhaps you are like him?
Nope, I am not like him, all my posts till #232 I have done so to help others, so NO.

The reason why i don't blame sleazy men is because that is what they are,"sleazy" one should not put their trust in sleazy men.

All I'm doing here is saying not all Turkish men are sleazy. If that's trolling for anyone here that's cool because I don't care.
Sisu

North Vancouver, Canada

#354 Nov 18, 2012
I am married to a Turkish man he cheats and hits me. He is honest when we address the problems and he told me it has been cemented in the brains since children cheating seems acceptable. Not acceptable excuse and if aman knew how to please a woman he wouldn't cheat and yes there is men like that... But can't tell a Turkish that
Badass

Taunton, MA

#355 Nov 18, 2012
TURKOV wrote:
<quoted text>
Nope, I am not like him, all my posts till #232 I have done so to help others, so NO.
The reason why i don't blame sleazy men is because that is what they are,"sleazy" one should not put their trust in sleazy men.
All I'm doing here is saying not all Turkish men are sleazy. If that's trolling for anyone here that's cool because I don't care.
Okay then, I apologize. But, please don't mock someone on this board, most are here because they have really been hurt. It's often difficult to know if a guy is sleazy though, if he is putting on an act and pretends to be someone he's not for years! Hard to understand why someone would do this to a women who they claim is the love of their lives. And, yes I agree, not all men are like this, but when you get burned very badly by one and have your heart ripped out it's difficult...
kate

Redhill, UK

#363 Dec 21, 2012
in reply to Mr Big......
well, that is a turkish man speaking. He actually thinks his behaviour is ok, and tries to justify it by saying all men cheat.
What scum you are Mr so called Big, you are actually probably small.
Small in every way, and worst of all, arrogant. You disgust me, and probably most women on here. I pity your wife so much. You have no respect for women. I pray she cheats on you, and I hope the guy she does it with beats the crap out of you one day. scum
Istambul Women

New Hyde Park, NY

#364 Jan 6, 2013
I am sorry to say this very true. It is our culture. Turkish men are less interested in making money than in being playboy

Since: Jan 13

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#365 Jan 9, 2013
Men from all over the world cheat, this isn't limited to only Turkish men. All cheaters, including the Turkish cheaters know what they are doing is wrong, but they do it because they believe they can get away with it and some just don't care,because they are narcissists. Many men don't cheat too, but if you have one that does, you are one of the unlucky ones. Before marrying my Turkish husband, I dated a few Iranian, and Arab men who expect woman to be tolerant and never question anything. Even in America in the 1950's woman weren't supposed to ask their husband " where have you been?" even if he has been out all night. I have seen many Middle Eastern tolerate a cheating husband, because they are financially dependent on their husband or there are kids involved. If some Turkish men cheat, it is because the somewhat tolerant society there tolerates too much, but then again who wants a nagging wife either?
melani

Beograd, Serbia

#366 Jan 12, 2013
I read all about turkish man cheating ... now I understood everything happened to me in the last 3 yrs with a turkish man.... First they nice when they try to seduce you .. they say lots of romantic things... after that when you see smth is wrong and ask about other woman ...he tries to blame me for not trusting him enough .... actually he had another turkish woman all the time while he had relationship with me and telling me he will marry me... now other woman is writing she is engaged with him ...... again he denies it.... I HAVE NEVER SEEN IN MY LIFE POPULATION WHO CAN LIE MORE THEN TURKS... HONESTLY I HAVENT. I SAVED MY LIFE FINALLY. THANkS GOD.
btw most of them marry non turkish woman cause of money ...

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