Why do Turkish men cheat
Crash Dummy

Vina, CA

#277 Jun 20, 2012
But it is very worrying that even married men (and some women, too) are cheating. This is a western phenomenon as is suicide bombs attached to people with the intent to kill people is an eastern phenomenon.
just wondering

Regina, Canada

#278 Jun 23, 2012
ok i need somebody to explain why my ex gf was and maybe still involve in adultery with married tukish man on and off for 10 years

i did busted them one morning and then it did stop till things fall apart between us well maily coz i never could forget the first time then i decided to dumb her and i could find the phone number for the turkish wife and i told her how great her husband k is sleeping with my ex m

my ex knew she lost me and there is no way it's gonna work with me so in same day i called the turkish wife my ex and her lover teamed up went the police complaning i am hurrassing them and i keep watch them and driving by thier houses

my understanding is they did this coz they dont want to contact the wife again but in same time the damage already done the wife got the info i forget to mention the wife knew my ex as friend !

ok turkish ppl can your guys tell me how is a tukish wife will react to this news ?
Badass

Springfield, NJ

#279 Jun 23, 2012
This is what sociopaths do- lie & cheat until they get caught, then they turn the entire situation around & make you look like the bad guy! I'm not Turkish, but the wife probably already knows & turns a blind eye to it. Good luck...
just wondering

Regina, Canada

#280 Jun 23, 2012
but why you assume she knows ? i mean aren't turkish women get jelouse like other women !!!!
i dont get it ?!!!
random turkish guy

Mclean, VA

#281 Jun 28, 2012
i guess, it's one of the most foolish arguements in the web history. why do turkish men cheat? you serious? i simply can't believe. everyone talks like, all of the world is full of loyal men and women, but we.

you should go to wikipedia and search a little. search about divorces for example. the percentages of divorces every year. mostly western european countries, us, uk, canada and australia comes ahead. why? for the first reason, in those countries people cheat. excuse me but, everybody fucks everybody when they get a chance. that's why.

look for the rape statistics in the wikipedia then. oh God. why does european countries lead that race? Again? who is more civilized? why do your men rape women more than us? please explain that too. then come and talk about turkish men. turkish men!

you people are fucked up. and the last group of people to blame us. i wonder, how many of you can claim that, his/her parents have been loyal to each other all their marriage? we know you guys well. more than well. so stop arguing about why we cheat!

it's true that, some of us are jerks. i admit that. hey, may be i am a jerk? but is it enough to blame all nation? be a little reasonable. or are you all children? teen? fools. get rid of stereotyping. consider every human being only with his/her attitudes.

by the way, IRA rules.
Cansu

Ankara, Turkey

#282 Jun 28, 2012
Turkish women DO get jealous,but it is more important for them to keep their beloved husband. They blame only you when she gets cheated,and the husband is the innocent one who is "seducted" by you.I am Turkish and spent my entire life in Turkey but i cannot understand the logic behind it. Those women has no pride,no dignity,no self-respect to themselves,unconciously seeing themselves as their husband's slaves.Not all of them are like this,though they are as many as to be generalized.
just wondering

Regina, Canada

#283 Jun 28, 2012
well i am not blaming a nation it just in my town i knew a few turkish guys they all married got many gfs on the side they know about eachothe

not only that they pass women to eachother and they fuck thier friends women if they having issues or fights with the other turkish guy

and if you seat with them and ask them why you cheating on your wife the answer will be alawys well we can't change the canadians ppl or the americans what about the others it's not only us

honestly if that what you think about the nations whom took your guys in i think all of you should be shipped in a garbage bags back to turkey

so as we relaize the turkish habbits almost the same we should warn ppl from thier scams while thier wifes allowing thier men to fuck as much women they can get
sick of them

Brooklyn, NY

#284 Jul 8, 2012
Im married to one & sick of all the BS that has entered my life from him and his idiot looser friends. I am a Professional & ashamed I ever married him. I will say they ALL have 2 faces.
culturalfeedback

Vancouver, Canada

#285 Jul 12, 2012
There are 2 main reasons:

1. Because most Turkish men mistake their wife's for their mothers.
Most Turkish boys are very much spoiled by their mothers growing up, in terms of being taken care of hand and foot, often when they get married, their wives do the same things.

2. Not to say turkish men don't love their wives, to the contrary they love their wives more than anything in the world, much like they love their mothers, but because they love them so much, they are not able to have the kind of sex they could have with women they don't love so purely or at all.

this is not some Freud analysis per se, but in cultures where sex and love are separated: love is pure and sex is dirty; it only makes sense for men to want to cheat on their wives.

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#286 Jul 13, 2012
Maybe it's their nature or a part of their culture. I guess theirs an explanation why they behave that way. Honestly, I really don't know.
Jessie

Istanbul, Turkey

#287 Jul 18, 2012
culturalfeedback wrote:
There are 2 main reasons:
1. Because most Turkish men mistake their wife's for their mothers.
Most Turkish boys are very much spoiled by their mothers growing up, in terms of being taken care of hand and foot, often when they get married, their wives do the same things.
2. Not to say turkish men don't love their wives, to the contrary they love their wives more than anything in the world, much like they love their mothers, but because they love them so much, they are not able to have the kind of sex they could have with women they don't love so purely or at all.
this is not some Freud analysis per se, but in cultures where sex and love are separated: love is pure and sex is dirty; it only makes sense for men to want to cheat on their wives.
Wow that explains alot. Thankfully I divorced my Turkish husband and will be raising my son in a more appropriate manner.

However, one thing you didn't touch upon is why do Turkish men cheat but refuse to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases/infections. If they "love their wives so purely" then why risk giving them and their unborn child a disease?

Bottom line is Turkish men are selfish, spoiled pigs.
Nubian queen

London, UK

#288 Jul 19, 2012
I dated a Turkish guy for 8 months. He said he never married and has no intension too either, yet he has a 3yr old son, out of wedlock. He lives in England for the sole purpose of his son. He is dedicated to long hours and we never went out. This bothered us. We metregularly at night only. I am west Indian and felt to satisfy my man, and fell in love. But now, we are no longer together due to his so called work and child commitments 4hrs away. He lied about our future together.
whatever

Istanbul, Turkey

#289 Jul 23, 2012
i am a male and i never understand how u desperate women went for a turk coz they are mostly ignorant they dont speak any foreign languages they are mostly short hairy and sleazy i mean they are ugly!! about their personality they can not be considered big hearted or generous all they do is making unreal compliments (eg.saying a fat girl that she is thin and fit etc.) coz most of them try to hide their uglyness and ignorance with this way(like most mediternean men do italians spanishs arabs...) Are u that ugly not to be able find a man to marry from ur country? are u so desperate to accept their macho side? do you think they are hot lol? i think u fatass ugly girls deserve the worst go romance with ugly turks and be impregnated carry their child and see how ugly ur babies gonna be u are really self haters turkish woman claims their turkish men are ugly but u are dating them u dont have any self-respect and u know the most sad thing about u desperate ladies those who u date or marry or have sex can not even find any girls in their homeland turkey coz u are meeting the most ignorant and ugly ones in beachs or resorts but ok go with them lol brainless
Azx

Cairo, Egypt

#291 Jul 26, 2012
To all the naive girls who fall in love easily from few good words! just Don't accept any man feeling easily and before you fall in love Do your own tests to make sure about his feeling...men Kind is so shit 70% of men's brain working for sexual desires! so if you want to have e personal man never let him free And never make yourself easy for him. if you are a good girl and want good safe secure life act wisely & judge with your mind not heart, But if u total bitch! i'm sure my words will be hard to be understood because you are worse than cheater if you are cheap ;)

About the cheat part?!?! it has nothing to do with country's or culture or w/e I believe true men Never have sex with girls...they will wait for only 1 girl which she will be wife ( do you think it's normal when you meet a man who fucked up 10girls in his past life But you will pretend everything is ok because since i entered his life he loves me? he want to be only with me? pff No way he also loved all those girls he did sex with >< & remember fast love = easy gone,(note men only want from girls what Any male want from female, it's idiotic logic if u think something else, u will never find a man caring for u or loving u for no reason) so this shit mixed up retards who is believing they can be with someone have had sex before easily without respecting themselves or caring about there future is the main problem in this life leading the world to more complected situations!

that's why Religions was created, it's path of life, to make everyone happy! imagine if you are a girl and you only marry a 1man u loved and you will know he never looked at any other girls! same to the man he will be more than happy knowing that you only belong to him! This is the true Muslims in Islam country's The religion is perfect system, But sadly we'r 2012 now >< humans just want to be like animals acting like shit and want to do what they want without caring about anything else. But still there is very good people existed in this world so few! who really believe & want to be good for themselves, those people will care about who they love, & they will put The respect style before anything, In same time they will never cheat by all mean in there whole life.

But if you are that kind of person who want physical/sexual relationship over anything else....i think you must not mind if you will be cheated on ;) but an advice! have faith, take care & be good...and pray to allah to send you your other half! which will be good person if u r good urself ;)

P.s don't judge turkey as they are Muslims ;) they are not..Islam only is something typed on there ID nothing else :D same with arabs in mid east! maybe they are so rich but it's social suicide if you decided to marry 1 of them.
guest

Çanakkale, Turkey

#292 Jul 27, 2012
well..well..well I am a Turkish guy who studies in the USA. I've read your comments for an hour. First of all, I don't understand how you generalize all Turkish men as cheaters because cheating doesn't depend on the nationality. Only women who were cheated by Turkish men post under this topic. What about the rest of the world? Everyday, I see people from different nationalities cheating on their spouses. So, there is nothing to do if you are stupid and came across a bad Turkish guy.
Azx

Cairo, Egypt

#293 Jul 27, 2012
hmm...there is something called (percent of the total)

ofc human cheats..but we are bound to alot of rules...conditions/culture, many things depend so!

in usa you may find the cheat percent is less than 60% in some Europe country's you can find cheating percent is less than 35%, in arab Country's you will find cheating percent is less than 15%

in turkey you will find the cheating percent is equal to 95% ;) OFC there is some very good people out there! but...who will care to take the risk? to search or find?

Turkish people are just (Muslims By the name, not the mean) proving to the whole world what exactly trash word means xD
Matt

Auburn, Australia

#294 Aug 4, 2012
Roxanne wrote:
Most Turkish men are total scumbags they will fuck your friends if they have the chance. My Ex-husband is Turkish and he fucked so many UGLY girls behind my back, but I'm glad that I found out because if I didn't he would have still done more shit behind my back. Ladies, stay away from these shiteaters. They are nice at first and then they hate you, they scam people, lie and they suck in bed...they are soooo boring in bed and they are not into any kink at all ZZZzzzZZZzzzz they just want to knock you up and leave your ass and go back to Turkey. They HATE American culture but then they go and wear the trendiest crap, like Hollister and Amerbercrombie.
Oh and they will beat the shit out of you too, they are known to be wife-beaters and they make excuses as to why it's okay to beat women. If you can't cook them nasty Turkish food, take it in the ass and make all the $$$, they will treat you like dog-shit.
You are so funny but I think you are being emotional since you went through all these shits with your ex, Turks are not wife beaters and if your husband cheats on you maybe that's time to look at yourself and ask why?
poovaloop

Tyngsboro, MA

#295 Aug 4, 2012
Jessie wrote:
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Wow that explains alot. Thankfully I divorced my Turkish husband and will be raising my son in a more appropriate manner.
However, one thing you didn't touch upon is why do Turkish men cheat but refuse to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases/infections. If they "love their wives so purely" then why risk giving them and their unborn child a disease?
Bottom line is Turkish men are selfish, spoiled pigs.
I'm glad you divorced him, but why did you ever marry him in the first place?
Jessie

Istanbul, Turkey

#296 Aug 5, 2012
poovaloop wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm glad you divorced him, but why did you ever marry him in the first place?
Sadly I'm still wondering about that question. We never rushed the marriage and took our time. Still he ended up cheating. I swear it frustrated me because he expected me to just accept his cheating ways. Like he was living in his own little world where he was King and could do no wrong. He wasn't like that when we first met. Sweet words sour actions I guess.
allybaba

Kirkby In Ashfield, UK

#297 Aug 10, 2012
i am married to a turkish man. have been for the past 4yrs. he has a nasty temper. is very selfish and only ever interested in money. he lies all of the time, and is very controlling. thank god i am a strong minded independent woman. he has promised to make my life hell and refuses to leave. leave muslin and turkish men well alone.

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