Women hate disabled men and find them...

Women hate disabled men and find them disgusting

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Since: Apr 08

Tucson, AZ

#1 Sep 25, 2008
Most wouldn't even think of dating them. I'm saying this based on observation. It's not a hate post at all. My brother's retarded. They treat men with disabilities like utter crap. Who has seen the same thing as I have?
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Byfield, MA

#2 Sep 25, 2008
Superficiality is part of life. It's the law of the jungle. Possible compromise: Prostitution might be loveless, but at least it provides physical joys. If I had a handicapped brother, I would consider an occasional higher-quality prostitute so he at least gets to experience sex.

“KING OF KINGS & LORD OF LORDS”

Since: Apr 08

somewhere out there

#3 Sep 25, 2008
my two cents wrote:
Superficiality is part of life. It's the law of the jungle. Possible compromise: Prostitution might be loveless, but at least it provides physical joys. If I had a handicapped brother, I would consider an occasional higher-quality prostitute so he at least gets to experience sex.
I dont think getting a prostitute is the answer. Thats all they would need is to get Aids on top of thier disabilities. This world is sad and disabled people need companionship too. Alot of people are selfish and want to satisfy thier own needs. I dont see anything wrong in someone with a disability to date and have someone to love. My cousin Has down syndrome and she has feelings too and has so much love in her. Everyone in her town just loves her to death. I hope your brother can find someone in his lifetime.

“Winchester Model 1894”

Since: Apr 07

Roy, Washington

#4 Sep 25, 2008
Since you didn't define the degree of disabilaty, I'll have to assume that any man who doesn't look like Adonis would be to some degree "disabled", and therefore disgusting. So an amputee from the war would be disgusting? Steven Hawking is disgusting?

Anyone who feels this way is themselves "disgusting" and is a total waste of the air they breathe
James

Westminster, MD

#5 Sep 25, 2008
Anyone who would buy a prostitute and trick someone into thinking it was casual sex should be condemned to a life without human interaction. superficiality is a part of life but it does not mean it rules life. There is a match for everyone and stunts like the above mentioned only reduce the chances of a match being found. Sex is the act that leads to reproduction, and without it you would not exist; how about a little respect.

Since: Jan 08

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#6 Jul 1, 2009
its not just women, men are the same way about disabled women.
Ezekial Rage

Norwalk, CA

#7 Jul 20, 2009
Not really, Emelsu, have you even seen it? I see men go out with disabled women since men tend to be more visually oriented, if the girl is cute, they'll go out with her, regardless if she is on a wheelchair or not.
For women its the total opposite, since they care so much about other's opinion's they wouldn't get near a disabled guy with a 10 foot pole regardless if his personality is great.
I am speaking from experience, I need a cane to move around, so I tend not to walk to often as it is extremely painful but these are some of the things I have noticed when it comes to disability, women can get dates, but I have yet to see the opposite with my own eyes.
sheila

Sherman, TX

#8 Jul 20, 2009
it's a sorry world we live in,and the handicapped know it best.I know a young man who is so physically beatiful with a personality to match, but he shunned by the women in our community.Just because he's not a genious, so what? I don't know of anyone around here who is a genious! Albert Einstein did'nt make fun of people for not being at his level of aha!
Ajswicca

Maryville, MO

#9 Jul 20, 2009
I don't have a problem with disabled people at all, I do have a problem with men that moleste, and use their own perverted need to rape, hurt, and abuse children. We all know it is 99% male population that does this. Women need to be more concerned about the men around their children, and even in church, or so called safe havens, children are being sexually and mentally abused. That is my problem with men in general. They seem to be so weak when children are concerned............and criminal behavoir is running rampant against our children, our most prized asset, and future of our families., I really think other people should watch out for any children, at the store, on your block, as a teacher, we need to make sure they aren't left behind as this world get ridiculously fast and uncaring.

Since: Jan 08

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#10 Jul 20, 2009
Ezekial Rage wrote:
Not really, Emelsu, have you even seen it? I see men go out with disabled women since men tend to be more visually oriented, if the girl is cute, they'll go out with her, regardless if she is on a wheelchair or not.
For women its the total opposite, since they care so much about other's opinion's they wouldn't get near a disabled guy with a 10 foot pole regardless if his personality is great.
I am speaking from experience, I need a cane to move around, so I tend not to walk to often as it is extremely painful but these are some of the things I have noticed when it comes to disability, women can get dates, but I have yet to see the opposite with my own eyes.
well I have spina bifida and I walk diferrent because of it and I have never been on a date and every guy I have asked out have said no because they would be too embaressed to be seen dating a handicapped person, maybe its just around where I live but I have seen disabled men around here get dates but all the handicapped girls are all single and always have been except one I know that is mentally handicapped.
Ezekial Rage

Gardena, CA

#11 Jul 23, 2009
Emelsu wrote:
<quoted text>well I have spina bifida and I walk diferrent because of it and I have never been on a date and every guy I have asked out have said no because they would be too embaressed to be seen dating a handicapped person, maybe its just around where I live but I have seen disabled men around here get dates but all the handicapped girls are all single and always have been except one I know that is mentally handicapped.
Well I live in Southern California near Los Angeles, and women here are notoriously terrible. This opinion coming from other men who have dated here and notice the attitudes of the women here compared to their home state.

I don't really care anymore though, I just accepted the inevitable and moved on. Now I am just working on my career so I can work at home with no problems, and get a paycheck.

Well, least the men told you up front why they didn't want to date you, better than hiding it, hate that supposed kindness bullsh**.

Just tell me it's because I can barely walk and that is a lot better than straight up deceit.

No I am not some bitter guy who hates all women or anything like that, I am though pointing out my observations and would like it if the women were more upfront on why they don't want to get near me, I much prefer brutal honestly than a straight up lie.
Sexist

Maryville, MO

#12 Jul 25, 2009
James wrote:
Anyone who would buy a prostitute and trick someone into thinking it was casual sex should be condemned to a life without human interaction. superficiality is a part of life but it does not mean it rules life. There is a match for everyone and stunts like the above mentioned only reduce the chances of a match being found. Sex is the act that leads to reproduction, and without it you would not exist; how about a little respect.
Sex is soooooooooo over rated!!! People need to talk and get to know each other more.......I am not a prude, been married happily for 20 years, but why is the concern for sex so prevalent in our society, it is just sex, nothing more, nothing less.
RJS

Carmichael, CA

#13 Aug 21, 2011
I have cerebral palsy, and i can say for a fact, that yes, women DO have a problem dating men with a disability. I have been on several dates over the years, all of them having been fixed up for me by either family or friends, and not once has there ever been a second date. When asked why not, I was told the lady in question would say something like "uh, well, uh...". And the women I have aksed out on my own....ugh. I was one told TO MY FACE that I was not worthy of being alive because I was crippled, and on another occassion, the lady I asked out said "Do you really think I'd go out with a retarded crippled freak like you?" I'm not retarded. No, women are just superficial, that's all there is to it. I'm supposed to "respect their feelings" and "leave them alone", but they don't have to give a damn about mine.
rohan

India

#14 Sep 30, 2011
i am a handicap person.dont be depressed bas lage raho bhale hi na mile.
Kelly

Chicago, IL

#15 Sep 30, 2011
RJS wrote:
I have cerebral palsy, and i can say for a fact, that yes, women DO have a problem dating men with a disability. I have been on several dates over the years, all of them having been fixed up for me by either family or friends, and not once has there ever been a second date. When asked why not, I was told the lady in question would say something like "uh, well, uh...". And the women I have aksed out on my own....ugh. I was one told TO MY FACE that I was not worthy of being alive because I was crippled, and on another occassion, the lady I asked out said "Do you really think I'd go out with a retarded crippled freak like you?" I'm not retarded. No, women are just superficial, that's all there is to it. I'm supposed to "respect their feelings" and "leave them alone", but they don't have to give a damn about mine.
Wow hun, I'm so sorry that low life people treated you in this manner. You're worth alot more than scum like them. Hang in there hun and let God lead you. You'll meet a sweet, loving woman who will genuinely care for you one day.
GWest3791

Vancouver, WA

#16 Jun 26, 2012
I don't know exactly how everyone here feels, but I have a rare eye condition that will eventually cause my eyes to rot out of my head when i'm in my late 30's or early 40's, but it does seem that women can be very condisending toward men with disabilities. At my college, I have asked 3 girls out and every single one was giving me crap for answer, "uh...well, see I just um...I have feelings for somebody else" then not a week later she is talking about some guy she doesn't even know and that she is going to ask him out. That is utter crap man!!! Every answer I get from women, even if they aren't the most super attractive, i'm not super picky, they just give me that kind of look or gesture that says, "hell no, date a blind guy, eewww" I'm only 21 dammit, but why shouldn't I be allowed to find someone I love early on in life that I want to love and be loved back (I appriciate everyone in my life, but it doesn't help when they say "oh, well at least you have us" it's like they don't even understand!!!! THEY have someone, that is the only reason they are saying that!! If they didn't, they would be upset like us!...Fudgey whales > n <)
steve

Crown Point, IN

#17 Oct 9, 2012
i've had a disability since childhood.i've tried to find a woman for years and have become somewhat numb to the whole dating thing.you can only be disappointed for so long.
RJS

Carmichael, CA

#18 Oct 19, 2012
steve wrote:
i've had a disability since childhood.i've tried to find a woman for years and have become somewhat numb to the whole dating thing.you can only be disappointed for so long.
I know exactly how you feel man. I've recently come to the conclusion it's never gonna happen for me. In a way, that's good, because now I can focus on something constructive in my life rather than waste time on something that just will not happen no matter what I do. Or try. I've already wasted decades looking for a relationship only to be rejected over and over again because of my CP (for more info, see my post above, the one from last year).

I'm not "giving up". Maybe some day some woman will come along and accept me for me (yeah, right). But I will no longer put forth any effort on this losing battle.

It will either happen, or it won't. I'm done.
DRG

United States

#21 Dec 6, 2012
I agree with steve and rjs I have bad left arm and I faced cruel punishments growing up and truthly even I felt adults would treat me like I was not worthy and I was second to everybody.girls I have heard every excuss why they couldnt go out with me and I believe in treating women with respect and love them for who they are .im 45 and have son nobodies their to help me but a guy with no handicaps get the oh he needs help I love him .i try to move on and would meet someone else just to be shot down with some lame excuss.im tired of hearing also by people around me say(oh forget that girl you deserve better)or some poor excuss to make feel better after being turned down for the millionth time .i also see girls come running to me with their problems or need something I listen to them and do alot for them none want date me.i do feel ive been so freaking different but what can you do I guess what matters if you can find one friend your lucky for the rest of people take them at face value.
DondaClan

South Africa

#22 Dec 26, 2012
Am from south africa Durban..living with a disability is like hell on earth...people tend to hate u..pretend that they like u if don't hate u...women, oh they r shit in a toilet bowl...not me, them..they look down on u like u chose to have a disability....now..here's my story...I was born a charming type, if u knw wat I mean..but because of the disability, this is compromised...I play my game at the end will lose because of this disability...I grew in terms of handling my game...now listen attentively, I play it safe. I pursue a woman, with my very high charming capabilities, I play with their minds and they play along, while they not thinking straight I make sure I use that opportunity to get laid. Before they open their eyes I'm gone, unles I came across some not bothered by the disability then in that case I stay...

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