Light skin women with light skin men

Light skin women with light skin men

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#1 Aug 27, 2013
There are light skin tones and darker skin tones in the Black community. There are preferences in attraction to different skin tones. I am a light skin black man and some may think of me as mulatto, but I'm just black and both my black parents were just black and light skin too. I like all shades of black women however, and through out my life I got approached by mostly light skin black women or slightly darker black women with natural, long, straight or curly hair. Lighter skin black men and women - or - those with natural straight or curly hair - or - those who are really "Mulattos " (1 black parent and one of another race) are more rare compared to average looking blacks. I've been told through out my life, mostly by what is considered "beautiful black women" (women with straight/curly hair or lighter skin), that I am very attractive. The truth is a light skin woman and those women with straight or curly hair who may be a little darker or those who are really "Mulattos " will prefer to date lighter skin men or a Mulatto if he is one of the rare, attractive types in their eyes, when he stands out among other black light skin, dark skin or Mulatto men. Keep in mind, these types of light skin men or Mulatto men who stand out from others, don't come by everyday, but are very much in demand when on the scene by what is considered to be very beautiful women in the black community.....From my experience, most of these women who are "considered to be attractive women with the hair and/or light skin color or darker skin" start out looking for a very attractive light skin or Mulatto man. If they don't find him, they sometimes marry an average looking darker skin man, who chases these such women everyday. These average looking black men usually want their children to look a certain way (lighter skin or straight or curly hair). It is not easy for an attractive light skin or Mulatto woman to land an attractive light skin or Mulatto man in black neighborhoods of 85% darker skin people......The truth is when that light skin or Mulatto woman finds that special light skin or Mulatto man, they try hard to make it work.....My parents did and they stayed together peacefully and never divorced.....
Sybian Princess

Portland, OR

#2 Aug 27, 2013
Very interesting, and well put. What annoys me are the people who think that light or white skin is "better" as if it were a value judgment. I'm a child of the school that skin color doesn't matter, my parents had absolutely no problem with my teenage bf's speaking black, regardless of how black if you get my meaning. But there were other people, Mike white bread relatives, who had no end of nasty things to say about me and them and my parents because of it! Oh well, thinking like that is their curse, I figure. Whatever kind of skin or body type a person finds attractive, that's fine and I say go for it! Like you, I just say don't put others down because their personal tastes differ. Whether it's just dating or the marriage meet your lucky enough to find, it's all part of getting along, and living and let live.

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