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Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#27 Jul 14, 2013
Lovelace – first of all honey, don't worry about what other people say, I know that's easy to say and difficulty here and even more difficult to let it roll off you like water off a duck, but remember the old saying "sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me" they can say whatever they want and that can't really hurt you, except emotionally IF YOU LET IT BOTHER YOU THAT MUCH which is also difficult to do, but you're going to have people saying stuff about you your whole life – we all do. Especially us girls who choose to live life the way we want it, I'm not like some kind of none or something. So what if they video that, big deal. Let them call you slut, let them call you whore or whatever else they want to. you can't control what they say, all you can ever control is how you react to it. It's OK if it makes you sad, or mad, or makes you cry, no one is telling you to not do that. Just try not to do it in front of them and give them the satisfaction! Hey I just finished graduating high school, I'm 18 down, and I can tell you that it only takes a few weeks 'on the outside' to realize how unimportant school really was, in the grand picture. It's really important to you now because it feels like it's your entire world, but that will change. Once you graduate you hardly won't even see those people any more, and you sure as hell won't worry what they thought back in school. You didn't do anything wrong back at that party, so try not to let them make you feel like you did! Hey, I've been (oh God I hate this saying)'sexually active' since I was 13, and yes it was my choice I decided it was time to get rid of my V and I went and found a man who would give me my first several times. Well once word of that got out of school, you can imagine the names they called me! I ended up just grinning at them and saying "jealous much?"
taylor

Sterling Heights, MI

#28 Sep 5, 2013
Yep this stuff happen to my girlfriend when she was in highschool, but she owned it like a pro never let anyone say a word. At first I was hurt that such a sweet girl like her could subject herself to such a "low" it was a few more guys like 8 they all didn't fuck her but bj's n facials no video though unfortunately I've definitely learned that she's still that sweet girl she just knows what she wants like a boss. but we got past it I am in no way a saint and saw it as if I was a girl. Shit I'd do the samething as her, and now we really play off it I actually get turned on when I think about it. she's beautiful those guys that had her, and you should feel privileged. You'd have to be pretty sexy for many guys to want to have you at the sametime. Thats like shearing a ice cream cone with your best friend if that she wasn't good you both wouldn't want it
Jedi Pookie

Victorville, CA

#29 Sep 28, 2013
Courtney wrote:
Sorry bitch but the truth is, everyone at your school KNOWS your a slut. You can't act like a slut and expect to get treated like your as good as the average human being. If you act like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut, that's how the real world works. No ones going to respect you if you don't respect yourself.
That's how the real world works? No, that's how kids make it. I'm always shocked that these creepy ass untrustworthy little boys are so insecure about sex that they manipulate and exploit these females. These boys use alcohol cause they have no charm, they don't record these events for anything more then to convince others they aren't dating each other. I truly feel sorry for any of you girls that this has happened to. I really feel sorry for any girl who would talk to any guy involved in doing this to someone. You are an idiot if you hook up with guys like this. Sad how if a girl gets raped she's called a slut by the real sluts. I've walked into a room and dumb bitches sat there and watched a drunk girl getting raped. Those guys are rapists and those bitches are trash. Odds are they'll be next since by standing there watching they pretty much told every rapist in the room they are week and spineless or they were already victims. Nothing wrong with making a video, what usually turns out wrong is the other person was a ass.
Nutty McNutjob

London, UK

#30 Dec 21, 2013
Whoah, same thing, and it was, like, such a freakout, like, duh, I mean, whatever, you know what I mean?

Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#31 Dec 21, 2013
Assuming your post is genuine, sincere – just remember that when it comes to high school, well... it is just so high school! So temporary, and once you graduate, pretty meaningless as it disappears into your memories. I've only been graduated about a year and already I never even think about the mean girls and people called me names, and things like that. Don't take HS to seriously!And beyond that, don't worry about what people think of you. Remember, you can never control what other people think or what they do.
Emma

UK

#32 Mar 7, 2014
This sort of thing always goes on, at the end of the day it's just sex and an experience, I had a video of me sucking 5 boys off in the history mobile and them cumming in my mouth and face for a couple of weeks I was the slag and slut mainly from girls or friends of the girls whose boyfriends I done it with, I was gonna get beat up and stuff, my name was written on walls in toilets with my mobile number offering sex, at the time I was 14 and it did upset me but I used to laugh it off and say it was fun ( which it was) most of them never knew I'd fucked the lads as well as that wasn't recorded lol. I was known as blow job queen and some people still call me snowy blowy as I'm blonde, don't let it get u down is my motto I loved the attention the boys gave me and I had lots of fun doing it, still do lol
Dude

Sudbury, MA

#33 May 12, 2014
Your name on this website is Lovelace the girl who like started deep through you are a ho just keep doing it the world needs sluts like you
Deloke

Woodland, CA

#34 Jun 27, 2014
I wanna meet all u girls. Im from california n this shit is hawt
Deloke

Woodland, CA

#35 Jun 27, 2014
lovelace wrote:
Last Saturday, a friend of mine invited me to a party one of the guys in my school was having at his house and because i liked this guy alot I decided to go.
Emaill me this video hawt stuff?
When we get there, hes paying attention to a lot of other girls and so i start flirting with his friends because i sort of decided he wasnt really worth it and then after a few drinks about two guys and myself were in one the rooms just talking about stuff and the guy that i liked walks in and after ten minutes of talking he says we should play truth or dare.
I got dared to kiss all three of them and I did and then things started getting really hot and me and two of the guys were fooling around and although i noticed the other one was filming on his video phone I didnt think anything of it, we ended up having sex in front of the camera and it was only when we were done that i realised it had been filmed and forced him to delete it and he said he did.
I walk into school this morning after being sick the whole week and everyone's calling me names because the video has been sent around and im worried that my parents and older brother and sister are going to find out because a couple of years ago a similar thing happened and my family found out but we sort of forgot about it but if they find out about this- i dont know what they will do.
I wanna this this vid. Email it to me?
andet1987

Chicago, IL

#36 Jun 27, 2014
i asked my coworker before, "I act like a wh***ore?"

he replied, "You don't act like a wh****ore, you are a wh****ore."

Since: Jul 15

Chicago, IL

#39 Apr 9, 2016
Young ladies...my advice as an older woman.

Have all the fun you want, with whomever and however many you want. Just think ahead. You need to be safe. It can start out fun and quickly slip from your control. Men getting freely given sex can turn into a gang and behave in very gruesome ways.

Also, dear girls, don't let people film or photograph you. You are young yet and do not need physical evidence of your freedom. Many will judge unfairly and you may not want this stuff out there in a public forum. Any image taken may last a lot longer than you want or be used unethically without your consent to hurt you or make your life more difficult.

With those loving warnings in mind, rock on young ladies. Enjoy your sexuality and don't let others define or limit it for you. If you like something and no one is being hurt then take the sexual liberation you have the good fortune to employ!

Since: Sep 13

Hengoed, UK

#40 May 30, 2016
Aliza wrote:
Do you wonder what it would be like if a guy had this happen to him? He would be applauded by his friends if he was filmed having sex with three girls. That's quite the score for him. See, a slut isn't a real thing. A slut is a social illusion to make women feel uncomfortable about her sexuality. It's a way to control us. It's a way to make us feel inferior. We must hide our sexuality because it's unladylike and it doesn't fit into the constructed gender roles of our society. Many people, men and women, fall into this because it's so ingrained in our lives.
But you are not a slut. You're a person, flesh and blood and soul. You can't be categorized or objectified unless you allow yourself to be. Even if you feel like you've made a mistake, like you're full of regret, you're still not a slut. You're human. Even women who choose to do those things and have no shame are not sluts. They're sexually liberated. They're free of their societal bonds. What you choose to do with YOUR body is YOUR business.
As for the passing around if the video, it's unlawful. You may have given your consent for the sex, but you didn't give your consent for the distribution of your likeness and you could take that to court. The boys who distributed that footage are wrong and manipulative.
You will get judgement and ridicule, but don't accept it. Fight back. Tell them you had a good time and to fuck off. It's not their places to make you feel inferior.
As for the girls on here saying you're a slut, they can live in the unfairness of the their worlds. You can rise above it. As for the guys saying the same, they can eat shit because they will never feel what you do.
A note to all those who read this and conclude that it's nothing but feminist bull shit: fuck you and your objectifying, mysogynistic perspective. I don't need your shit and you're not worth my time.
I thought everything you said was very accurate in actual fact. Nice one x

Since: Sep 13

Hengoed, UK

#41 May 30, 2016
Emma wrote:
This sort of thing always goes on, at the end of the day it's just sex and an experience, I had a video of me sucking 5 boys off in the history mobile and them cumming in my mouth and face for a couple of weeks I was the slag and slut mainly from girls or friends of the girls whose boyfriends I done it with, I was gonna get beat up and stuff, my name was written on walls in toilets with my mobile number offering sex, at the time I was 14 and it did upset me but I used to laugh it off and say it was fun ( which it was) most of them never knew I'd fucked the lads as well as that wasn't recorded lol. I was known as blow job queen and some people still call me snowy blowy as I'm blonde, don't let it get u down is my motto I loved the attention the boys gave me and I had lots of fun doing it, still do lol
Emma like the sound of you girl x would love some naughty fun sometime if your not shy x send me a message
Shady Traveler Cheesecake

Rugby, UK

#42 Aug 31, 2016
Courtney wrote:
Sorry bitch but the truth is, everyone at your school KNOWS your a slut. You can't act like a slut and expect to get treated like your as good as the average human being. If you act like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut, that's how the real world works. No ones going to respect you if you don't respect yourself.
You really don't understand the effects of alcohol do you...

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