Everyone in my school thinks im a slut because of video recording

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Last Saturday, a friend of mine invited me to a party one of the guys in my school was having at his house and because i liked this guy alot I decided to go.
When we get there, hes paying attention to a lot of other girls and so i start flirting with his friends because i sort of decided he wasnt really worth it and then after a few drinks about two guys and myself were in one the rooms just talking about stuff and the guy that i liked walks in and after ten minutes of talking he says we should play truth or dare.

I got dared to kiss all three of them and I did and then things started getting really hot and me and two of the guys were fooling around and although i noticed the other one was filming on his video phone I didnt think anything of it, we ended up having sex in front of the camera and it was only when we were done that i realised it had been filmed and forced him to delete it and he said he did.

I walk into school this morning after being sick the whole week and everyone's calling me names because the video has been sent around and im worried that my parents and older brother and sister are going to find out because a couple of years ago a similar thing happened and my family found out but we sort of forgot about it but if they find out about this- i dont know what they will do.
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Sounds like Colleen during her school time, LOL
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Well... you made yourself out to look like a slut. What did you expect? Girl, you know better!

All you can do now is learn from this and make better choices in the future. Be careful when you're drinking. KNOW YOUR LIMIT. When you go over your limit too often times you end up with regrets.... as you did. Keep your head up girl. It could be worse. And act like whatever people are saying doesn't bother you... play it off, ya know? The more you act like it bothers you the longer they will be teasing you.

I don't know what to tell you about your parents finding out... unless you want to come out and tell them yourself... it would definitely go a LITTLE easier if they heard it from you instead of from like a co worker or another parent or something.
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oh no! a similar thing happened to my best friend, her parents threw her out for bringin shame to the family.
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OMG practically the same thing happened to me. its a very very long story. basically me, my girl mate, and 2 boymates decided to have an inocent sleepover...well were were all good friends.
any way turns out that that night was not so innocent after all.
next day me and my girl mate couldnt remember anything of what happened the night before and started trying to figure it out.... we were all like "i think there was music, I know there was alchohol". the boys assured us that nothing too explicit happened.
but then the next day in school, everyone seemed to know more than I did of what happened the night before. I mean, i thought that we all were just making out randomly and that was it.
you see one of the guys had a camcorder handy and started recording our drunken behaviour on camera. i was shocked when i watched the video myself.
the video started off innocent enought it was just me and my girl mate making out, but then things get very messy. next thing you know I'm topless, baring my chest to all, and so is my friend, but she doesnt go to my school you see...
and then....the guys get involved.
things develop pretty quickly and erm... we dont have sex on camera thank GOD and theres no footage of anything under my hips....
but more embarassingly, there was a load of footage of me and my mate drunkenly giving the boys b.j's

it was horrible. practically all the school had footage of my boobs and footage of me giving the guy a blow job. i was soo embarrassed, i couldnt even show my face in school for 4 days after that.

but my absense made things worse. guys started treating me like some whore on a street corner, and it was all just very stressful.

thats not the worst bit....

ONE OF THE TEACHERS SAW THE VIDEO AND SHOWED THE VIDEO TO MY MUM!!!!!!!! THAT IS A NIGHT I WILL NEVER FORGET. IT WAS THE ABSOLUTE WORST DAY OF MY LIVING DAYS!!!!!!....

I GOT BASICALLY DISOWNED BY MY MUM, I LOST ALL RESPECT FROM TEACHERS, AND WAS DESERTED BY MY FRIENDS ON SCHOOL.!!!!

things are a lot better in school, but i dont think things will ever be the same again.
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Gee LULU,still up to your same old tricks??? Honey get help. You are sick
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I was in the same position too, but I didnt mind it at all because it turned out okay in the end. My bf filmed three of his friends jacking off on me during a sleepover. it was hot and fun, but I freaked afterwards when i thought about people seeing the video. Lucky my bf left the cam inthe bathroom and I erased it all!!!! Saved!
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im going through that right now.... i send these guys some pics and they sent them to everyone and school is about to start and im so worried about being called a slut and a whore... i dont wanna lose my friends and my parents lost all respect for me it is tough and idk if i can make it through the year :'(
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It's your own fault...you should know better...don't hang out with guys like that.
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you are a role model for porno.
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Sorry bitch but the truth is, everyone at your school KNOWS your a slut. You can't act like a slut and expect to get treated like your as good as the average human being. If you act like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut, that's how the real world works. No ones going to respect you if you don't respect yourself.
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Dec 14, 2012
 
look theres nothing wrong with exploring just make sure its not in a situation like most of these naive girls are. its ur own fault if u put urself in a position 2 b taken advantage of. dont wanna be a slut dont act like one but that doesnt mean u can explore just take ur time doing so
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Do you wonder what it would be like if a guy had this happen to him? He would be applauded by his friends if he was filmed having sex with three girls. That's quite the score for him. See, a slut isn't a real thing. A slut is a social illusion to make women feel uncomfortable about her sexuality. It's a way to control us. It's a way to make us feel inferior. We must hide our sexuality because it's unladylike and it doesn't fit into the constructed gender roles of our society. Many people, men and women, fall into this because it's so ingrained in our lives.
But you are not a slut. You're a person, flesh and blood and soul. You can't be categorized or objectified unless you allow yourself to be. Even if you feel like you've made a mistake, like you're full of regret, you're still not a slut. You're human. Even women who choose to do those things and have no shame are not sluts. They're sexually liberated. They're free of their societal bonds. What you choose to do with YOUR body is YOUR business.
As for the passing around if the video, it's unlawful. You may have given your consent for the sex, but you didn't give your consent for the distribution of your likeness and you could take that to court. The boys who distributed that footage are wrong and manipulative.
You will get judgement and ridicule, but don't accept it. Fight back. Tell them you had a good time and to fuck off. It's not their places to make you feel inferior.
As for the girls on here saying you're a slut, they can live in the unfairness of the their worlds. You can rise above it. As for the guys saying the same, they can eat shit because they will never feel what you do.
A note to all those who read this and conclude that it's nothing but feminist bull shit: fuck you and your objectifying, mysogynistic perspective. I don't need your shit and you're not worth my time.
Aliza

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t_swizzle wrote:
look theres nothing wrong with exploring just make sure its not in a situation like most of these naive girls are. its ur own fault if u put urself in a position 2 b taken advantage of. dont wanna be a slut dont act like one but that doesnt mean u can explore just take ur time doing so
it's not her fault if she's taken advantage of, it's the fault of those doing the harm.
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Courtney wrote:
Sorry bitch but the truth is, everyone at your school KNOWS your a slut. You can't act like a slut and expect to get treated like your as good as the average human being. If you act like a slut, you'll get treated like a slut, that's how the real world works. No ones going to respect you if you don't respect yourself.
Wrong. She deserves to be treated like a human being because she is one.
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Aliza wrote:
Do you wonder what it would be like if a guy had this happen to him? He would be applauded by his friends if he was filmed having sex with three girls. That's quite the score for him. See, a slut isn't a real thing. A slut is a social illusion to make women feel uncomfortable about her sexuality. It's a way to control us. It's a way to make us feel inferior. We must hide our sexuality because it's unladylike and it doesn't fit into the constructed gender roles of our society. Many people, men and women, fall into this because it's so ingrained in our lives.
But you are not a slut. You're a person, flesh and blood and soul. You can't be categorized or objectified unless you allow yourself to be. Even if you feel like you've made a mistake, like you're full of regret, you're still not a slut. You're human. Even women who choose to do those things and have no shame are not sluts. They're sexually liberated. They're free of their societal bonds. What you choose to do with YOUR body is YOUR business.
As for the passing around if the video, it's unlawful. You may have given your consent for the sex, but you didn't give your consent for the distribution of your likeness and you could take that to court. The boys who distributed that footage are wrong and manipulative.
You will get judgement and ridicule, but don't accept it. Fight back. Tell them you had a good time and to fuck off. It's not their places to make you feel inferior.
As for the girls on here saying you're a slut, they can live in the unfairness of the their worlds. You can rise above it. As for the guys saying the same, they can eat shit because they will never feel what you do.
A note to all those who read this and conclude that it's nothing but feminist bull shit: fuck you and your objectifying, mysogynistic perspective. I don't need your shit and you're not worth my time.
i absolutely love the way you think
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lovelace wrote:
Last Saturday, a friend of mine invited me to a party one of the guys in my school was having at his house and because i liked this guy alot I decided to go.
When we get there, hes paying attention to a lot of other girls and so i start flirting with his friends because i sort of decided he wasnt really worth it and then after a few drinks about two guys and myself were in one the rooms just talking about stuff and the guy that i liked walks in and after ten minutes of talking he says we should play truth or dare.
I got dared to kiss all three of them and I did and then things started getting really hot and me and two of the guys were fooling around and although i noticed the other one was filming on his video phone I didnt think anything of it, we ended up having sex in front of the camera and it was only when we were done that i realised it had been filmed and forced him to delete it and he said he did.
I walk into school this morning after being sick the whole week and everyone's calling me names because the video has been sent around and im worried that my parents and older brother and sister are going to find out because a couple of years ago a similar thing happened and my family found out but we sort of forgot about it but if they find out about this- i dont know what they will do.
Look on the bright side.
It was nothing more than heterosexual adventure. Albeit a little kinky.
After a bit the excitement will die down as other happenings take it's place.

Play your cards right and you will never be without a date.
Life goes on, now put your knees together and stay sober.

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lovelace wrote:
Last Saturday, a friend of mine invited me to a party one of the guys in my school was having at his house and because i liked this guy alot I decided to go.
When we get there, hes paying attention to a lot of other girls and so i start flirting with his friends because i sort of decided he wasnt really worth it and then after a few drinks about two guys and myself were in one the rooms just talking about stuff and the guy that i liked walks in and after ten minutes of talking he says we should play truth or dare.
I got dared to kiss all three of them and I did and then things started getting really hot and me and two of the guys were fooling around and although i noticed the other one was filming on his video phone I didnt think anything of it, we ended up having sex in front of the camera and it was only when we were done that i realised it had been filmed and forced him to delete it and he said he did.
I walk into school this morning after being sick the whole week and everyone's calling me names because the video has been sent around and im worried that my parents and older brother and sister are going to find out because a couple of years ago a similar thing happened and my family found out but we sort of forgot about it but if they find out about this- i dont know what they will do.
ur name is a bit iffy but yeah sure advise it happened to me and it just blows over after a while
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May 11, 2013
 
i'm really sorry for you,
but it wasn't like you didn't know what was being filmed
it really ironic, since females ARE EXPECTED to be PROMISCUOUS
these young men, have no respect for no one,
but, unfortunately YOU ALLOWED it
too, many have said the same,
now, if they gave you something and knocked you out, then you can press charges and SUE them
but, sweetie, you were conscience and aware that someone else was in the room
i don't think you were in the living room where everybody was watching and filming
any woman, no matter what is happening in private, in the heat of the moment, any little noise or movement, will always say
whats that
so, suck it up, learn to live with this mistake,
and learn from it, and stop SETTING YOURSELF UP
for a another fall
buck up, be strong, it's going to take awhile before it cools down
and those friends, drop them like a hot potato
because their not friends, and their girlfriends better beware
because these guys, will do the same to them,
good luck, and survive
Sarah

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lovelace wrote:
Last Saturday, a friend of mine invited me to a party one of the guys in my school was having at his house and because i liked this guy alot I decided to go.
When we get there, hes paying attention to a lot of other girls and so i start flirting with his friends because i sort of decided he wasnt really worth it and then after a few drinks about two guys and myself were in one the rooms just talking about stuff and the guy that i liked walks in and after ten minutes of talking he says we should play truth or dare.
I got dared to kiss all three of them and I did and then things started getting really hot and me and two of the guys were fooling around and although i noticed the other one was filming on his video phone I didnt think anything of it, we ended up having sex in front of the camera and it was only when we were done that i realised it had been filmed and forced him to delete it and he said he did.
I walk into school this morning after being sick the whole week and everyone's calling me names because the video has been sent around and im worried that my parents and older brother and sister are going to find out because a couple of years ago a similar thing happened and my family found out but we sort of forgot about it but if they find out about this- i dont know what they will do.
omg the same thing happened to me basically. Me and my three best friends were hanging out with this guy and we drank and ended up in his room all together. we stared talking about sex and pornos and in our drunkan state we decided it would be funny to try and make a porno so me and my 2 best friends all had sex with this one guy on camera. the next day he sent the video out to all his friends and it got around school. now the whole school is talking and im so embarassed and people are looking at me like im a complete slut...

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