As to tasks required of you, like separating whites and colors, you are on very unequal footing with Joyful.<quoted text>
Apart from tastes as for food and music, I have very few irrational biases. Occasionally, I find myself disliking somebody for no reason that I can identify. But my feelings about Joyful are well understood and well justified, not irrational. My terms with her are the same as they are with everybody else: use civil language and confine your criticisms to ideas about ideas, and anything you say will be fine. Just look at your relationship and mine. We rarely agree, but we keep it out of the gutter.
But if you decide that you want to attack me personally, and you do it deliberately and repeatedly, the relationship changes. I am happy to show such a person what it means to have your character publicly dissected with the wrinkle that I will limit my response to faults that I can demonstrate, beginning with the choice to dive into the gutter. The Joyful and lightbeamrider examples are typical.
You exploited the inequality for gratuitous satisfaction, when it had nothing to do with the subject matter, so far as I know.
Whether that reflects well or poorly, I'll leave to you.