I enjoy your post Joyful, different views is why this thread has lasted so long.See, another person (Aerobatty) who doesn't know me slandering/ridiculing me by suggesting that I don't have to worry about saying no to sex very often. I could do whatever I wanted and have sex whenever I wanted. I would welcome another child. However, I make the choice, each day, to not have sex and get pregnant because it is not advisable or wise at the moment and because I will not settle for less than me and my children deserve - total commitment.
You can NOT take what others say here personal, they have views Just as you or I.
When you throw something on the board the different opinions are gonna fly, it's expected.
Don't let it get to ya, and just respond or not.
Don't bit into their BS, unless you wanna be confronted about your belief..
Peace to ya!