A word of advice - read what you write BEFORE you hit "enter".<quoted text>
You are so ignorant to assume that a joke in itself can be immature. And it is the person himself who is being immature if the joke that was said would offend the person.
Don't try to elevate yourself, so hell to spelling, especially as you still have to address feeling guilty about missing those opportunities to treat your family with a holiday.
Because that lot was incomprehensible.