I'm sure you'd think them being kind and respectful is thanks to 'nature'....
That your sons are respectful and kind does not necessarily have to do with how you are raising them.
While it's often true that the apple does not fall far from the tree, in your son's case, they may have very well rolled out of harm's way all on their own.
And really- if they are respectful and kind they certainly weren't taught that by you since you are really neither.
Nice double negative.Again- that you are a parent does not mean that YOU are not ignorant about raising kids.
That's great. You had a thought!I think having a loaded gun in the bedroom of your teenage sons is incredibly ignorant as well as incredibly irresponsible and quite potentially dangerous and lethal.