Sexual ACTIONS can be controlled - not so with sexual attraction.<quoted text>
"your sexuality just is what it is"
actually, sexuality, like every other appetite and desire, needs to be disciplined and controlled or else it will control you.
so, gays are NOT special, they're just less disciplined and more sexually coveteous; they're sexually obese, if-you-will.
like i said, keeping it real is what i do!;)
You are attracted to who you are attracted to.
Or are you saying that a heterosexual, with enough practice, can become innately attracted to members of the same sex?