“I Am No One Else”

Since: Apr 12

Seattle

#604795 Feb 22, 2013
RiversideRedneck wrote:
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You'd like to think that, but my estate is plentiful.
I've done well for myself.
So then you force them to have to earn a living. Meh. You disowning someone is still akin to calling someone weird.

Since: Apr 09

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#604796 Feb 22, 2013
RiversideRedneck wrote:
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By being a trustworthy father.
By being confident.
By being clear & concise.
By being a father first, a friend second.
By never lying to them.
By showing humility - admitting I'm wrong when I am.
By showing them that I trust them.
By being respectful & courteous to them.
By giving them their space.
By encouraging their dreams.
By remembering what they tell me.
Nice. Its a lost art, being a father...

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604797 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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1. How did you gain their trust?
2. How can you be confident? You probably have only taught your kids to hide stuff to hide their shame and not be open.
3. Clear and concise? You haven't been concise with us, yeah right!
4. What does being a father first, and a friend second mean to you? That is the question RR, to me, that only implies you don't want to be too much of a friend to them so you don't lose your patriarchal fascist place in the home.
5. You lied to us, RR, I don't believe you!
6. You have already admitted that humility means a poor self esteem, you moron!
7. I'm sure you tell them you trust them, but then betray them!
8. What respect, RR? Flattery, and mimicry? Or God given respect and tact?
9. Their space? Go ask your kids if they feel that way!
10. Encourage what dreams? I'm sure you tell them what dreams they should have, and you don't give your kids space, as I'm sure you
are the type to discourage masturbation or anything of the sort.
11. Hmmm! Well... wait a second... I DON'T BELIEVE YOU ONE BIT!
12. I don't give a rat's ass if you believe me.

You asked me a question, I gave you an honest answer.

Give it time to sink in.
Largelanguage

Chester, UK

#604798 Feb 22, 2013
RiversideRedneck wrote:
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Who said anything about "wanting to" spank your kids???
You laughed about it, with capital "HAHAHA"'s. You even said you admired that they obeyed what you did, without questioning.

You always pick on your children RR, but when someone bigger comes along, you back off and flatter them, with your poor excuse for charm.

Since: Apr 09

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#604799 Feb 22, 2013
Honeysuckler_rose wrote:
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The issue of proving God is found in ONE fact.
Creation.
Science/the laws of physics say that matter can not come from nothingness.
Everything that exists was made by someone or by God.
thats only logical.
You can't have it both ways. If everything was created, then who created your god?

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604800 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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In what way are you speaking of, RR? Be clear.
Why bother?

When I'm clear with you, it does nothing to advance th conversation...

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604801 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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Yes, it is, RR. Stop hullicinating that your parents loved you, and go kill yourself!
*waits for MrSpellingBee to correct "hullicinating", then give youu a 3,500 word dissertation on why she's right.*

I have a feeling I'll be waiting a while....

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604802 Feb 22, 2013
KittenKoder wrote:
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I still don't get the purpose. I disowned my mother when I was young to prevent her, and any other member of my family, from gaining access to a few things. You should recall, social constructs such as "shame" are stupid, and I do not ascribe to them at all. To me they are nothing more than a display of human stupidity.
Are you still not communicating with your mom?

I disowned my dad when I was 19, it lasted almost 3 years. We eventually reconciled and we're the better for it.

“design is God's trademark”

Since: Jan 13

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#604803 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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In the hebrew, in proverbs, the word is staff, not rod, a whole different context. And I bet your parents thought the same about you.
get yourself a good Hebrew/Greek concordanace.

cross ref that word
staff or rod and you will find that the two words along with a few other examples mean one in the same.
rod, staff, stick, etc..........

and my parents did discipline me with a spanking when i needed it.
and as an adult i can look back and say i am glad they loved me enough to correct my behavior.
the bible says anyone who doesn't spank a disobedient child hates his or her child.

"He that spareth his rod HATETH his son; but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Prov 13:24

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604804 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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Seriously, you really need to go round the block... are you kidding me?
The child may say they hate their mom because they don't feel they are loved back, RR. Perhaps that is why your sons said it to you.
My sons have never said that to me.

See, this is what I mean about it being pointless to be clear with you & have a conversation.

You pull shit out of the air & transfer it to your keyboard...

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604805 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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Don't exaggerate RR, Narcissists are known by psychatrics for doing that sort of thing.
Is that what your psychiatrist told you?

I refuse to go over my estate with you.

“design is God's trademark”

Since: Jan 13

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#604806 Feb 22, 2013
Just Think wrote:
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So prove god exists.
It is proven.
the proof is not the problem, it is the acceptance of that proof you have a difficulity with.

CREATION.
thats your proof.

Science/the law of physics declair that 'matter' can NOT come from nothingness.
impossible.

everything that exists was made by someone or by God.
thats only logical.

every creation MUST have a creator.

MUST.

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604807 Feb 22, 2013
KittenKoder wrote:
So then you force them to have to earn a living.
WHAT?!?!

"force them to earn a living"??!!??!!??

That IS life, Koder.

Since: Jul 09

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#604808 Feb 22, 2013
MaleSexSymbol wrote:
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--Prove there is a God--
--Prove there is no God--
Nobody wins this one.
define "god"

and you shall have your proof

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604809 Feb 22, 2013
Just Think wrote:
Nice. Its a lost art, being a father...
Indeed.

Too many "fathers" are merely sperm donating assholes that don't really care about their kids.

Too many "moms" are merely egg donating bitches that don't really care about their kids.

Too many "parents" are too worried about being their kid's friend first, parent second.

Too many "parents" are too worried about hurting their kid's feeling by being truthful & honest with them.

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604810 Feb 22, 2013
Largelanguage wrote:
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You laughed about it, with capital "HAHAHA"'s. You even said you admired that they obeyed what you did, without questioning.
You always pick on your children RR, but when someone bigger comes along, you back off and flatter them, with your poor excuse for charm.
See?

More bullshit coming from the land of Largelanguage....

“Ditat Deus”

Since: Jul 12

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#604811 Feb 22, 2013
Honeysuckler_rose wrote:
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get yourself a good Hebrew/Greek concordanace.
cross ref that word
staff or rod and you will find that the two words along with a few other examples mean one in the same.
rod, staff, stick, etc..........
and my parents did discipline me with a spanking when i needed it.
and as an adult i can look back and say i am glad they loved me enough to correct my behavior.
the bible says anyone who doesn't spank a disobedient child hates his or her child.
"He that spareth his rod HATETH his son; but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Prov 13:24
Nice.

But these atheist liberal loons will now start calling you a child abuser...

*sigh*

“design is God's trademark”

Since: Jan 13

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#604812 Feb 22, 2013
RiversideRedneck wrote:
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WHAT?!?!
"force them to earn a living"??!!??!!??
That IS life, Koder.
are these people seriously for real?

“I Am No One Else”

Since: Apr 12

Seattle

#604813 Feb 22, 2013
RiversideRedneck wrote:
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Are you still not communicating with your mom?
I disowned my dad when I was 19, it lasted almost 3 years. We eventually reconciled and we're the better for it.
The lawyers of her estate have been trying to contact me to let me know where she is buried ... I have not read one of their letters once I knew why they were being sent.

OCB

“What a GLORIOUS day!!!”

Since: Apr 12

Orlando but NYC born & raised

#604814 Feb 22, 2013
Honeysuckler_rose wrote:
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get yourself a good Hebrew/Greek concordanace.
cross ref that word
staff or rod and you will find that the two words along with a few other examples mean one in the same.
rod, staff, stick, etc..........
and my parents did discipline me with a spanking when i needed it.
and as an adult i can look back and say i am glad they loved me enough to correct my behavior.
the bible says anyone who doesn't spank a disobedient child hates his or her child.
"He that spareth his rod HATETH his son; but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Prov 13:24
So now you give your own definition for the word "chasteneth" or "chasten" and you equate it with meting out physical violence upon children.

The word "chasteneth"/"c hasten" has NOTHING to do with HITTING/SPANKING.

Definition of CHASTEN
1
: to correct by punishment or suffering : discipline; also : purify
2
a : to prune (as a work or style of art) of excess, pretense, or falsity : refine
b : to cause to be more humble or restrained : subdue

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cha...

Way to go- twisting the meaning of the actual word in order to attempt to justify that you are in favor of physically abusing children.

Too bad your parents didn't love you enough to correct your behavior through reasoning with you and using words, but instead "loved" you just enough to HIT you.

I am all in favor of children being disciplined; however, spanking and/or hitting children only instills fear in them and doesn't explain to them why their actions or words were wrong in addition to sending the message that it's acceptable to settle arguments, disputes or wrongdoings by use of physical force.

You so-called Christians sure do like to resort to physical violence.

IF your Jesus existed as the son of your god, you cause both your god and your Jesus to shed copious tears.

You're an embarrassment to your religion or to at least the true meaning and the actual tenets of Christianity.

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