Step Parents Bathing with There Step ...

Step Parents Bathing with There Step Kids..

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Since: Sep 12

Gilbert, WV

#1 Sep 2, 2012
So, i have a six year old daughter who goes to her dad's every other weekend. Him & his wife both think its okay for his wife to shower with my daughter! I for one gave birth to her and i dont even let her see me naked.. let alone shower with her.. I myself think this is just horrific! & let me remind you, my daughter whom is 6 does not like this either.. Anyone agree, with me.. that this is not RIGHT!??
Aaron

Chicago, IL

#4 Nov 23, 2012
day_by_day wrote:
So, i have a six year old daughter who goes to her dad's every other weekend. Him & his wife both think its okay for his wife to shower with my daughter! I for one gave birth to her and i dont even let her see me naked.. let alone shower with her.. I myself think this is just horrific! & let me remind you, my daughter whom is 6 does not like this either.. Anyone agree, with me.. that this is not RIGHT!??
Your ex and his new wife should respect your wishes. On the other hand, don't come on like a steam roller; sit down and discuss this but without your daughter being present. By the way she is showering with an adult female not a male. There is quite a difference.
Cherianne

Roodepoort, South Africa

#5 Nov 24, 2012
day_by_day wrote:
So, i have a six year old daughter who goes to her dad's every other weekend. Him & his wife both think its okay for his wife to shower with my daughter! I for one gave birth to her and i dont even let her see me naked.. let alone shower with her.. I myself think this is just horrific! & let me remind you, my daughter whom is 6 does not like this either.. Anyone agree, with me.. that this is not RIGHT!??
Hi,

I am with you on this one. My son used to visit his father on weekends and he used to shower or bath with his father, but the new wife (step mom) was not present. I was "almost happy" to hear that my son bathed with his father, because he (the father) could answer any questions that were raised.
I know how you feel about this but I really do not believe you should make a big deal of it. They are both female and some people are just different from us.

The fact that your daughter does not feel comfortable with this arrangement makes me think she needs to voice her opinion (together with you) to let the Step Mom and Dad know that she would prefer to bathe alone.

I wish you luck my friend. I have been down this road many years ago and I would not want to repeat it. Divorce causes so many strained relationships and it is really not nice.

Take care
Cherianne

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