Why the black man loves the white woman

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Joan

Hackensack, NJ

#1 Jan 27, 2012
I know that I can't speak for all black men, but I can tell you why my black men love me.

I am good to them and they in turn are good to me. They show me respect and I do the same. If I need help with anything, they are there for me and the same goes for me.

My black men do not DO NOT take advantage of me and I in turn do not take advantage of them.

I was in a really bad time in my life when one of my black men came into my life. He showed me friendship, compassion, understanding and love at the lowest part of my life. I was an abused white woman married to a white man who wouldn't think twice and just use me as a punching bag, a sounding board and would treat me like a I was his slave.

Never once did he ever help me with any housework, laundry, do the banking for me, the grocery showing, go to the post office or even take my car for gas if it was low. He expected me to work an 8-10 hour work day, come home and cook dinner for him and wait on him hand a foot. After preparing a home cooked meal 7 days a week, I was expected to clean the house and do the laundry while our meal was cooking. If I forgot to 1 little thing, he would go off the deep end. He would slap me across the face, push me down to the ground and step on my stomach and kick me. Then there were times when he got out the monkey wrench and hit my legs and my back and make all black and blue.

There was the time when he decided to punch me in the eye and I went to work and I had to lie that I fell down my basement stairs. I know that no one believed me, but they didn't say. I had to stay home from work when I got 2 black eyes for going to the bank and not getting enough 20 dollar bills and too many 10's and 5's.

My black men appreciate all that I do for them from making a nice lunch, and having lunch in the park. After lunch we would hold hands and walk around the lake and before returning to work we would take a little time to make out and maybe pleasure each other a bit if there was time. I get flowers and gifts from them as their way of saying "thank you" for any and all things that I do for them and I am not referring to sexual pleasures.

Sex has never been or will ever be the most important thing in any of my relationships. I had a friend - yes had - she made my life a living hell and treated my men with dis-respect and told them that one of the big reasons I went to black was for the size of their *ock. Thankfully neither one of them believed her. I told her off for saying such a lie to them and she told me that I was in denial.

I am dating 2 black men right now that are my entire life. I would do anything for them and they would do anything for me.

The white woman will not talk down to them or refer to them as lazy and non workers as the black woman would.

Both my guys have great guys and don't throw their money away. They also are not thoughtless or tight with their money as they spend it on me if I like it or not.

I don't need furs nor diamonds to make me happy. I am happy just spending time with them and they appreciate a good woman who will not use them as a "boy toy" or a trophy as people suspect black men using white women as trophies.

My black love me for any little thing that I do. Neither one of them have asked me for money - not one cent.

They use their car, spend their money and never expect me to pay for the dinner or for use of my car or credit cards. They have helped me out financially a few times when I was in the hospital all bruised and banged up.

The black man appreciates your hard work and efforts and will compliment you or give you a reality shot when you think they aren't noticing what is going on with them and that you don't waste their hard earned money.

I love them both and we have decided that we would not be getting married. Both men know of each other and have not issues with me seeing the other.

I have some friends that are not into black/white relationships and don't attack me for it.

BLACK
Jenny

AOL

#3 Feb 27, 2013
Black men are very flirtatious with me. I must admit, I like the attention. I'm very curious for a sexual encounter, but too shy to ask or suggest.

Hopefully my flirty smiles will get them to ask me out.

Some of my white girlfriends slept with black men and said it was an awesome experience. I am fascinated by a black man's cock----some of their pricks are just gorgeous.

Since: Aug 12

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#5 Feb 27, 2013
It's that Joan again, the one that wants a career writing porn! LMAO!

Since: Mar 13

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#6 Mar 2, 2013
Because all black men that white women have a big thing for them.
well

Prentiss, MS

#7 Mar 2, 2013
Because even a black man, stupid as he is, knows a quality product.
hygg

Thaleischweiler, Germany

#8 Mar 5, 2013
Def white girls. Them black tricks got issues n they ain't hot for shit. I feel u man, I wud never go w/them black gurrrrls. :-) :-) :-) :-) n don't forget the shitty attitude. Who needs that.

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