Blame, verb:Rick in Kansas.------
You said "you, your family, friends, acquaintances and co-workers are to blame for your attitudes".------
The word "blame" is too strong a word. It is disliking. I, my family, friends, acquaintances & co-workers don't like African Americans (Descendants of black American slaves). We don't like African Americans from seeing their behavior, actions & attitudes.
assign responsibility for a fault or wrong.
"the inquiry blamed the engineer for the accident"
synonyms: hold responsible, hold accountable, condemn, accuse, find/consider guilty, assign fault/liability/guilt to, indict, point the finger at, finger, incriminate
You can call your unfortunate choices of anti-social ugly bigotries whatever it takes for you to live with them, I don't have to play along. I get to call your "dislikes" as I see them, a seriously offensive personal problem that you really should try to keep to yourself.
Hon, you still don't get it, you can rationalize your irrationality from now til the second coming, you're only succeeding in making it less offensive to yourself. You and only you are to blame for your uncivil beliefs and acts, no matter what the flock you say it is about "them" that you and only you, make you feel that way. Simply put pudding, you are not a bigot because of anything ever done by them, you're a bigot because YOU chose to be. The mess you are today is nobody's fault but your own.How African Americans...