Since: Oct 12

United States

#1 Oct 3, 2012
This is a serious post. I'm 27 years old, my MIL just turned 50. I've been attracted to her since the first time I met her when she was 41. She's a wonderful lady. She's always been good to me. She's easy to get along with. Always smiling. Easy to talk to. She's also very attractive. No, this isn't some sleezy panty sniffer post. I really do have feelings for her. Emotionally and sexually. How do I deal with it? Any GOOD advice will be appreciated.

Since: Oct 12

United States

#3 Oct 3, 2012
Like I said, I'm 27 yrs old. I don't think it's a maturity thing. I'm not sure what it is. I love her daughter. She's the mom of my son. Wife is a year younger than me. I don't know what it is about my MIL, though. I probably never will.

Since: Oct 12

United States

#5 Oct 3, 2012
My relationship with her daughter is great. We've been married for 5 of the almost 10 years years that we've been together. I love her to death. No big problems there.
As far as my maturity, I don't think any of this is a sign of my maturity (or lack of). She does know that I think her mom is attractive. I told her that right after meeting her mom.
I deal with it by just not spending much time around the mother in law. I'm not rude to her, I just usually have something going on when my wife
goes to visit her.
The mother in law doesn't know how I feel about her as far as I know, but women do have the ability to read us like a book.
Besides the rest of the world, no one knows. The only reason y'all know is because I needed to get it off my chest so it didn't eat me alive. I figured an anonymous discussion site would work. This is sooo not my style.
Are you some sort of shrink?
Wild Irish boy

United States

#7 Oct 7, 2012
Thank you very much. I really have no idea how deal with this

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