Are White men Scared to date Black wo...

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

Since: Sep 12

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#173 Dec 4, 2012
White people don't feel as comfortable around Black people as they do with other races, for obvious reasons, I think. Black men often approach White females that they find attractive, so they are the ones reaching across the aisle to bring over White females. Black women don't try to really go after White guys, and I think most White guys know that, tbh. I only say this because I live around a lot of White people, and the guys are always looking at me and checking me out, but I never talk to them, and they sometimes talk to me. I don't know what I would say to a White guy, I just feel like I can be myself around a non White guy a lot easier fsr.

One day, my African students club had a picnic at my college and it was about 90% Black (abt 50+ of us) with some Asians and Hispanics in the mix. The Asians and Hispanics saw us, and just joined to be a part of the fun and we let them and all introduced ourselves. So then I noticed a group of White guys standing nearby watching us all dance and talk to each other, they looked very hesitant and were just staring. After a couple of minutes they turned and walked away. White people, ESPECIALLY White men, are not comfortable with Black people. I think it's because they assume (or know??) that a lot of Black people still dislike them, so they just stay more distant. A lot of white people now say that Black people are more racist than them, which is odd, but Blacks who dislike Whites don't try to fake it anymore. When it comes to dating, why would a guy who knows this approach the women in that race very often? That doesn't make sense together, plus, they know that Black men hate the idea of Black women/White men dating too, AND many of them see Black men as a threat, and as aggressive so that scares them. This just seems to be pretty obvious to me, idk. I still get a lot of stares and looks from White guys checking me out around my town though. I just figure they'd go get a Black hooker if they need to, lol, everyone knows that happens.:/

Since: Nov 12

Raymond, Canada

#174 Dec 4, 2012
RE: Black girls who like white guys.
Destiny_frye64 wrote:
Hey guys!
So what is the reason why they wont bring us home to mother?
I think a lot of white dates of white guys, or any combination you care to mention have voiced the same complaints. Surprising how often the challenges we have can get attributed to race or something else equally irrelevant.
I'm white and so is my mate, but from time to time I remember dating black women, perhaps hoping I'd find a difference that mattered to me. Soon I realized that the difference from one person to another, no matter what colour of skin, was vastly different from the average difference between the races, even including minor cultural differences, so it was good to get beyond the superficial. If she were black, purple or orange, I'd bring her home to the family, no matter what anyone thought. Doesn't matter what the entire rest of the world thinks, I love her.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#175 Dec 4, 2012
White and unapologetic wrote:
If you are black and female and you are reading this, than listen:
Don't listen to the hate, there are a lot of white guys who find black women attractive.
I myself find black women attractive.
One thing I cannot stand is racism. And there is a lot of it.
The fact remains, a lot of white guys are intimidated by black women. And in their anger, say hurtful and mean things, because they fear rejection.
Black women are beautiful.
I know that this is really true. I've seen it happen myself. I was frequenting a certain website for a while this summer and it seemed odd to me how some of the men seemed to change their ideas on Black women daily. One guy was White, and he said he preferred Black females, then one day he ranted about BW only liking "thugged out Black guys" and then suddenly the things he posted about Black women any time he could were that we're all fat and things like that. He said he liked WW and thinks everyone should stay with their own race when dating. It was weird, but he wasn't even alone in that! Other guys do the same thing, even on here in the AA forum. There is a White guy who used to always say that EVERY race of women are more attractive than BW and that BW are masculine looking, etc.. all of those silly stereotypes, BUT then strangely I posted a thread about dating a White guy I met and he emails me & is super nice. I asked him why some guys are so racist (avoided confronting him about it directly) and he told me it's because Black women are too arrogant and think we're too good for White men. He felt like ALL other races of women are nice and easy for White guys, but with Black women, we are on some high horse like we're better than them, when he felt like we aren't and we "can't even get men so we have no room to be so picky" seriously. PLUS, there is even another guy on this same website here that is dating a Black woman, but every time BW on a thread claim to not be into WM, he says that BW are masculine and that most White guys don't want us anyway - even though he obviously did - but I guess you have to bring people down when you aren't feeling too good about yourself. So yeah, no offense, but a LOT of White men out here in this country are... interesting people, to say the least.

The type of racism that Black women face is completely different than anyone else in society. Men like to try to bring us down by insulting us through gender/sex ideals. Things are never just so easy as what's on the surface though.

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#176 Dec 4, 2012
TOO MUCH negative generalizing on this forum! Seriously.

From experience, I have found WM to be very approachable people. They come off as very friendly and want to talk to random strangers. I have witnessed WM approach black women, asian women, white women, Latin women.....and it's not even always about attraction, they just want to get to know people.

If a white man finds you attractive, he will ask you out or talk to you for pits sake! It's almost 2013 and people date whatever race they find attractive! If he is staring at your and not approaching you, he is either a sociopath so run or he has a lazy eye or some medical problem,

It is not that that hard.

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#177 Dec 4, 2012
PinkPearl wrote:
<quoted text>
I know that this is really true. I've seen it happen myself. I was frequenting a certain website for a while this summer and it seemed odd to me how some of the men seemed to change their ideas on Black women daily. One guy was White, and he said he preferred Black females, then one day he ranted about BW only liking "thugged out Black guys" and then suddenly the things he posted about Black women any time he could were that we're all fat and things like that. He said he liked WW and thinks everyone should stay with their own race when dating. It was weird, but he wasn't even alone in that! Other guys do the same thing, even on here in the AA forum. There is a White guy who used to always say that EVERY race of women are more attractive than BW and that BW are masculine looking, etc.. all of those silly stereotypes, BUT then strangely I posted a thread about dating a White guy I met and he emails me & is super nice. I asked him why some guys are so racist (avoided confronting him about it directly) and he told me it's because Black women are too arrogant and think we're too good for White men. He felt like ALL other races of women are nice and easy for White guys, but with Black women, we are on some high horse like we're better than them, when he felt like we aren't and we "can't even get men so we have no room to be so picky" seriously. PLUS, there is even another guy on this same website here that is dating a Black woman, but every time BW on a thread claim to not be into WM, he says that BW are masculine and that most White guys don't want us anyway - even though he obviously did - but I guess you have to bring people down when you aren't feeling too good about yourself. So yeah, no offense, but a LOT of White men out here in this country are... interesting people, to say the least.
The type of racism that Black women face is completely different than anyone else in society. Men like to try to bring us down by insulting us through gender/sex ideals. Things are never just so easy as what's on the surface though.
Those supposed WM don't speak for everyone, they are probably deranged or something.
Health Concerns

Fort Knox, KY

#178 Dec 5, 2012
Reigna wrote:
All u guys are so wrong black women are very beautiful and no one should be judged by skin color no matter what love doesn't have a color and most of u racist who say it deep down want black women for theirselves and the rate if AIDS us just as high I'n other communities so if u sleep with a black person you don't automatically get AIDS GET THAT STRAIGHT
Black women can be very lovely.. but the HIV rate is not just as high in other communities...(unless your talking about gay communities)... facts are facts... black women are 15 times more likely to have HIV than white women... 1 in 32 black women in the US will be diagnosed with HIV. For white women the rate is over 1 in 400 ... and Asian women have even less rates of HIV... Black American men have an HIV rate of 1-16! That's crazy high... I really wish this wasn't true... but it is.. google CDC black American HIV rates..
Anonymous

United States

#179 Dec 5, 2012
PinkPearl wrote:
White people don't feel as comfortable around Black people as they do with other races, for obvious reasons, I think. Black men often approach White females that they find attractive, so they are the ones reaching across the aisle to bring over White females.......... but I never talk to them, and they sometimes talk to me. I don't know what I would say to a White guy, I just feel like I can be myself around a non White guy a lot easier fsr.
One day, my African students club had a picnic at my college and it was about 90% Black (abt 50+ of us) with some Asians and Hispanics in the mix.......... So then I noticed a group of White guys standing nearby watching us all dance and talk to each other, they looked very hesitant and were just staring. After a couple of minutes they turned and walked away. White people, ESPECIALLY White men, are not comfortable with Black people..........I still get a lot of stares and looks from White guys checking me out around my town though. I just figure they'd go get a Black hooker if they need to, lol, everyone knows that happens.:/
white men are sissies if u havent noticed
Anonymous

United States

#181 Dec 5, 2012
AustinHook wrote:
RE: Black girls who like white guys.
<quoted text>
I think a lot of white dates of white guys, or any combination you care to mention have voiced the same complaints. Surprising how often the challenges we have can get attributed to race or something else equally irrelevant.
I'm white and so is my mate, but from time to time I remember dating black women, perhaps hoping I'd find a difference that mattered to me. Soon I realized that the difference from one person to another, no matter what colour of skin, was vastly different from the average difference between the races, even including minor cultural differences, so it was good to get beyond the superficial. If she were black, purple or orange, I'd bring her home to the family, no matter what anyone thought. Doesn't matter what the entire rest of the world thinks, I love her.
but white men use higher standard to judge black women,if they are to be considered as dating options.
Loud

Fort Knox, KY

#182 Dec 6, 2012
Not all but many black women are way too LOUD and actually have nothing to say.... Also WTF is up with talking in movie theaters... The people on the screen actually cant hear you.. and people around you dont want to hear that shit... embarrising
Chantell

United States

#183 Dec 11, 2012
jason wrote:
I don't know if its a cultural thing or what... but many black women have personalities that white men find completely obnoxious. They often lack class.
Also most black women don't have a very feminine appearance. Their facial bone structure is much more similar to mens than you see in other races.


wow did you really just say that?? You sound ridiculous!! All I can do is laugh at such a ridiculous comment

Since: Aug 09

Location hidden

#184 Dec 11, 2012
Chantell wrote:
<quoted text>
wow did you really just say that?? You sound ridiculous!! All I can do is laugh at such a ridiculous comment
I disagree with him about the bone structure thing but he is right about the lack of class and personality thing. It's a more common feeling amongst white men than you realize
Richard

Austin, MN

#185 Dec 12, 2012
I dated black women before whenever I went out with one I always made sure I brought some condoms with me some black women are real clean have no diseases like HIV some of these that are coming from Africa have got the disease I'm very careful but I like black women and the blacker the better it's kinda funny I've been with a lot of my race white women I don't know why black women turn me on so much
Anonymous

United States

#186 Dec 12, 2012
Europeans have plundered and stolen by force so much of africans resource,oil,diamond,lumber... ......
They have caused war,rape,death,hiv and slavery to africans
i hear so many forums about blacks dating whites
Why the hell would i want to open my legs for a white man??????they are all racists!!!!!!!
White men just want to practice slave sex on black women.
As for HIV black people didnt invent it,white people did.so as to eradicate blacks.
White are racist and hateful of blacks.
They are selfish to the core.
They have made africa an aid dependent economy by denying us fair trade.
I hope whites go to hell one day-but wait......oh hell doesnt exist,infact God doesnt exist they created him,to scare darker people,
i mean if i should pray to jesus,why the hell doesnt he looke like me.i mean he is blonde and has blue eyes,and am supped to worship him he can kiss my black arse.
Richard

Austin, MN

#187 Dec 12, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
Europeans have plundered and stolen by force so much of africans resource,oil,diamond,lumber... ......
They have caused war,rape,death,hiv and slavery to africans
i hear so many forums about blacks dating whites
Why the hell would i want to open my legs for a white man??????they are all racists!!!!!!!
White men just want to practice slave sex on black women.
As for HIV black people didnt invent it,white people did.so as to eradicate blacks.
White are racist and hateful of blacks.
They are selfish to the core.
They have made africa an aid dependent economy by denying us fair trade.
I hope whites go to hell one day-but wait......oh hell doesnt exist,infact God doesnt exist they created him,to scare darker people,
i mean if i should pray to jesus,why the hell doesnt he looke like me.i mean he is blonde and has blue eyes,and am supped to worship him he can kiss my black arse.
this person sounds really racist talks about how whites are racist her whole statement in this topic she sounds so racist a one to have sex with their she really turns me on Ike if I can get on top of this girl she really turns me on I love her so much please put your e-mail address on so I can contact you I like you a lot
wow

Fort Knox, KY

#188 Dec 12, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
Europeans have plundered and stolen by force so much of africans resource,oil,diamond,lumber... ......
They have caused war,rape,death,hiv and slavery to africans
i hear so many forums about blacks dating whites
Why the hell would i want to open my legs for a white man??????they are all racists!!!!!!!
White men just want to practice slave sex on black women.
As for HIV black people didnt invent it,white people did.so as to eradicate blacks.
White are racist and hateful of blacks.
They are selfish to the core.
They have made africa an aid dependent economy by denying us fair trade.
I hope whites go to hell one day-but wait......oh hell doesnt exist,infact God doesnt exist they created him,to scare darker people,
i mean if i should pray to jesus,why the hell doesnt he looke like me.i mean he is blonde and has blue eyes,and am supped to worship him he can kiss my black arse.
You are pretty messed up and full of displaced hatred... Whites did not invent HIV.. that is just... well.. stupid.. blacks get hiv more often because of stupid choices...like not using a condom.. and having sex with people they don't know that well... I'm white and I have turned down sex with several black women... because I did not know them very well and I'm not into one night stands..
Africa is in trouble because whites deny free trade? This is truly funny.. free trade is the least of Africa's problems... I've been to South Africa.. Zim.. the congo.... and other countries for work and trust me... problems range from insane rape and violent crime rates to horrible education systems. To poor healthcare... to populations looking for govt hand outs... Whites built the cities of Africa that are now total shitholes under black corrupt rule...
No God? I feel sorry for you...all pissed off and no faith... I'll pray for you.. I really will.
Anonymous

United States

#189 Dec 13, 2012
wow wrote:
<quoted text>
You are pretty messed up and full of displaced hatred... Whites did not invent HIV.. that is just... well.. stupid.. blacks get hiv more often because of stupid choices...like not using a condom.. and having sex with people they don't know that well... I'm white and I have turned down sex with several black women... because I did not know them very well and I'm not into one night stands..
Africa is in trouble because whites deny free trade? This is truly funny.. free trade is the least of Africa's problems... I've been to South Africa.. Zim.. the congo.... and other countries for work and trust me... problems range from insane rape and violent crime rates to horrible education systems. To poor healthcare... to populations looking for govt hand outs... Whites built the cities of Africa that are now total shitholes under black corrupt rule...
No God? I feel sorry for you...all pissed off and no faith... I'll pray for you.. I really will.
listen
fact1: the first person to get hiv was a white person.
Fact2: the white man/colonizer did not build roads,bridges and buidings to benefit the african,he did it to make his life comfortable while in africa,thats why.
You think the white master built the golf course,the schools and the recreational facilities for the 'savages'?????i mean where would the master's kids go,certainly not mixing with these 'savages' kids in school.
Wow you really,seriously never went to school did you??????
Anonymous

United States

#190 Dec 13, 2012
Richard wrote:
<quoted text> this person sounds really racist talks about how whites are racist her whole statement in this topic she sounds so racist a one to have sex with their she really turns me on Ike if I can get on top of this girl she really turns me on I love her so much please put your e-mail address on so I can contact you I like you a lot
you should be ashamed of yourself.
you are a sick man.i hope no bw has been tainted by your impure thoughts.
You belong in prison.you should be allowed near bw.
You are a racist pig.
Please get psychological help.
Wow

Fort Knox, KY

#191 Dec 13, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
<quoted text>
listen
fact1: the first person to get hiv was a white person.
Fact2: the white man/colonizer did not build roads,bridges and buidings to benefit the african,he did it to make his life comfortable while in africa,thats why.
You think the white master built the golf course,the schools and the recreational facilities for the 'savages'?????i mean where would the master's kids go,certainly not mixing with these 'savages' kids in school.
Wow you really,seriously never went to school did you??????


Actually I did go to school! Honest and for a long time...

You said:

Fact 1: first to get hiv was a white man... I'm not sure how this makes your point that whites created hiv to infect blacks... it was first seen in white gays like you said.... I believe male bisexuals spread it to females (I hate male bisexuals for that very reason). My point is that black women have a 15x higher hiv rate then WW due to poor choices.. the black hiv rate is currently the only groups rate that is still rising.... also people who believe that hiv is man made are at greater risk because they may not take proper precautions.. also many Zulu and other tribes in Africa believe you can cure aids by sleeping with a virgin... so here are many...many cases of African hiv poz men raping babies... horrible..

2: you are right that whites built cities for themselves....However as the evil colonizers were building cities and creating jobs...millions of Black Africans moved to those countries like Rhodesia and South Africa for a better life.. and many found one.. my point is that as whites are being forced out of many African countries... those once world class cites are turning into slums... ee Haree in Zim or Jburg in SA.... hell look at Detroit in the us.. I'm no racist... I am simply stating facts that I wish were not true... and yes the white race did some shitty things.... however many many whites are in Africa with doctors without boarders ... the red cross... and other organization's dedicating their lives to helping blacks in Africa.... I believe Africa can be helped... but only when the majority take responsibility for their nation's... I love the dark continent and want the best for her... and her people....
Donnie

Austin, MN

#192 Dec 13, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
<quoted text>
you should be ashamed of yourself.
you are a sick man.i hope no bw has been tainted by your impure thoughts.
You belong in prison.you should be allowed near bw.
You are a racist pig.
Please get psychological help.
you still turn me on I really like this race is bitch she makes my Dick hard she really turns me on I like her I don't care she black or together we would look like salt and pepper or a rainbow she really turns me on I really like her I'd love to make love to her and make her pregnant and have my children with me and grow old with me
Anonymous

United States

#193 Dec 15, 2012
Donnie wrote:
<quoted text> you still turn me on I really like this race is bitch she makes my Dick hard she really turns me on I like her I don't care she black or together we would look like salt and pepper or a rainbow she really turns me on I really like her I'd love to make love to her and make her pregnant and have my children with me and grow old with me
if i got impregnated by i white man i'd abort the child with a hanger.
This S&M session you seem to think we are having is over.

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