Are White men Scared to date Black wo...

Since: Jul 12

United States

#65 Jul 29, 2012
Rick wrote:
I am scared to date a black woman.
Why are you afraid to date them?
Beauty

Weehawken, NJ

#66 Jul 29, 2012
TV_TV wrote:
I'm a 28yo white/latino guy and I've always been physically attracted to black women. It's not that I fetishize them, I just find them attractive. I'm also attractive, creative and successful and I feel like many black women in my city aren't interested in me, or other friends.
To all black women: There are many nice, interesting white men out there who think you are beautiful.
We are in America, I am a mixed black woman but in America I'm just BLACK . Its your choice to take it or leave it . Every race has a stereotype it goes from the loud obnoxious black women with no class to the sleezy white trash . Most of you on here are ignorant . In responce to you , I give you a lot of props. I've never dated a white guy but I would love to
lizz

Lagos, Nigeria

#67 Aug 1, 2012
"Michael_Style wrote:
The black women in the USA are mixed with white blood or white ancestors so its a bit different. Am also from the UK and here you do not see a white man with a black woman, some could be racists yes but majority just mix with their own.
You may get some white dudes in the U.S with a mix race hottie but is he with them just because of a shag? does he respect them? do they have personality connection? you cannot settle down with someone just because they are good looking, you have to have some mental stimulation I agree, this usually means white men with white women.
I too do not believe in specifically choosing a race, I believe as long as someone is decent ad respectable and somewhat educated then it doesnt matter, but thats the point isnt it? whites tend to get on with whites and blacks with their own, or shall I say blacks tend to argue amongst themselves? here in the UK the only white dudes you see with black women are chavs/trash, uneducated weirdos and guys who white women wont give them the time or day.
I too get on with white women then black women and men, if your from a similar culture, similar background then you have similar connection I believe.
I do not find many black women mentally attractive hence why I never dated a black woman or do not see many white men with black women, but I do agree that black women shouldnt act like they assume white men will want them, this is weak mentality and self-hating. First think and ask yourself would this white man want you for life? does he prefer white women only? does he think black women are immoral and uncivil? when they do not think of this they only lower themselves down, and this can reflect their personality and their character, whereas white men and white women at least are open minded and somewhat more intelligent, thus do not get on with black women.
Whites are indeed superior in all aspects, history has proven that so does present, sure there are some ruthless and bad ones but thats the point, the more intelligent you are the more ruthless ones you can get too. Its easier for white men to mix with their own white women, so its ot always the case we are scared but who we want to share our life with and the fact we find our own women more sexier.
thanks for the insight black shld really stop mixing with whites
i really do wish during slavery in UK and US white men would have raped the black female slave coz they realy ruined the blacks bloodline.Whites jus wth black for easy shag,anyway,u r ryt "

This is why the world is not moving forward. This is why we are still seeing repetitions of basic problems. Why can't we all just be one? Why can't we blacks stand united and show the world how great we are; just like all other races. Look people. America is the no 1 country in the world. Your president. Is black. Deal. with. it. Gosh! As for you whites that believe you are superior because of the slave thing..no. You are not. Not at all. We are all common human beings, we belong to the same species we are born, we die. Life and love is not about race and looks. Some people here's mindsets are so elementary. You all need to change em'. Its cool if you don't want to date black women but don't insult them and label them. You wouldn't want to be labelled so why label others. Most of you on here are adults, just want you to know that this comment; is made by a 15 year old west african girl. Not descended from "slaves". my ancestors have lived on this soil for centuries; so to those people who consider africans as slave descendant you are wrong. most of you on here just talk about attractiveness and intelligence; which just make you look like you have none in real life. Get over this white men black women interracial thing. AND MAKE A WORLD A BETTER PLACE BY COMING TOGETHER REGARDLEsS of race !!!! WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS FOR CRYING OUT LOUD. There are more important problems we have to deal with like cancer, world hunger etc not what race to date.:)
Deborah

San Francisco, CA

#68 Aug 6, 2012
guy wrote:
the type of woman you're talking about isn't exactly the typical black female. if you look at the people you list as examples - beyonce, meagan good, etc - these women are all mixed race, and african is only one part of it. i suspect you also fall into this category.
many of these mixed race 'black' women are some of the most beautiful people in the world by many white guys standards. which can make them very intimidating, as any beautiful woman can be to most men. or they can come off as very high maintenance - which is fine for a short term relationship but not necessarily something a lot of men want in a long term relationship. hence why they may want to go to bed with them but not introduce them to mom. or they may think the woman is so beautiful that they don't stand a chance long term.
but when it comes to actual black women... meaning both parents are solely of African lineage... most of these women are not attractive to white men. that's going to sound racist to some people, but i'm just trying to give an honest answer. i don't have a racist bone in my body and have personally dated more non white women than white (i'm a white 28yo dude). but it is VERY rare that i see a 100% black woman and find her attractive. probably 1 in 500. and i know this is pretty common with white men.(don't shoot the messenger). i don't have an explanation for this, it's just the way it is.
so your question is kind of hard to answer... because the examples given are not typical black women.
i know some men that have sex with a black woman on their bucket list... some of the men you talk about may just want a little variety or may just be curious and wouldn't say no to having sex with a black woman but aren't necessarily looking for that in a long term relationship.
not sure if any of that helps, i just know a lot of men who would agree with it. but probably never admit it to you.
Oh my Gosh, am I the only one shocked by that post?
I'm a 21 year old black French girl, born and raised in Paris and from direct African descent from BOTH parents(my Mom was born in Africa) and I must disagree with your BS.
I live in California for my studies and here, I have been hit on by men from different racial background/nationalities; white american, white european, argentinan,(afro)brazilian, east indian, asian, black american etc. Even a white girl came to me in a club a few months ago and told me she loved my skin and yet, I consider myself to be the average brown-skinned West-African girl, I'm 100% black with no mix.
Not to mention the stares in the street (mostly white men and black men).
I usually don't talk about my life online but sometimes I'm just amazed by the ignorance of what I read.
You think you don't have a racist bone in you, which is really scary, because you are through your ignorant statements. But I don't know which is the most scary - your comment or some of the AA women that "approved" your comment knowing that all this mixing came from the rape of their ancestors.
Have you even come across an African girl once in your life?(I mean besides what they show you on TV).
Here is a picture of Miss Universe 2011, a gorgeous dark-skinned african woman:
http://le229.com/divertissement/miss-univers-...
Here are some pictures of West-African models:
http://www.jamati.fr/la-mode/tiguida-sissoko-...
http://africanambassador.blogspot.com/2011/05...
http://www.togoenvogue.com/article-695-miss-t...
http://beaute.ados.fr/Adama-Diallo/photos/pho...
lilian black girl

United States

#70 Aug 11, 2012
Rodney wrote:
<quoted text>
Its people like you who made colonialism and slavery possible. How can a b lack woman ever find a race which oppressed them, raped the,, enslaved them and think your backward ever find attractove ten your own men? how desperate can black woman get?
what if whiote men arent attracted to you?
sorryt but as a while Anglo=Saxon male I am never attracted to black men, yes am scared of them because tjhey are too unciovilized and too baclward. I dont find them pshcyally attractive././For me the ligher the girl more hot she is, not just pshycall but mentally.
How can a bglack woman ever be so naive, so gullible and so much of a undignifioed lady to say she is attractive to us? is it any wonder we whites, Asians and Caucasians look down on you? because u aint united enough, u hate ur own people so this makes other people walk over u and think ur weak minded.
Do white people ever hate themselves? dye their hair black/afro? no they dont,
its embarrassing to say ur attracted to someone who may despise u or not be attracted to you.
I can tell u as a British white man that 98% of White people in this nation would rather prefer their own and think of black women and men as inferior, granted. Not racist but realistic.
I for one do not believe your a female, no way can a female be this degrading, this weak ad this stupid.
I just want to say how can u try to speak so high minded like u are the most highly intelligent person on earth and at the same time mispell So many words while calling someone else stupid ? Who's really the stupid one ?.....
KEN

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#71 Aug 13, 2012
andet1987 wrote:
are black women going to do a RIOT if nobody dates them ??:)
finally a person that makes sense and oh...... everyone not ALL men especially white men are alike get over yourself
Caramel

Los Angeles, CA

#73 Aug 22, 2012
Rodney wrote:
<quoted text>
Its people like you who made colonialism and slavery possible. How can a b lack woman ever find a race which oppressed them, raped the,, enslaved them and think your backward ever find attractove ten your own men? how desperate can black woman get?
what if whiote men arent attracted to you?
sorryt but as a while Anglo=Saxon male I am never attracted to black men, yes am scared of them because tjhey are too unciovilized and too baclward. I dont find them pshcyally attractive././For me the ligher the girl more hot she is, not just pshycall but mentally.
How can a bglack woman ever be so naive, so gullible and so much of a undignifioed lady to say she is attractive to us? is it any wonder we whites, Asians and Caucasians look down on you? because u aint united enough, u hate ur own people so this makes other people walk over u and think ur weak minded.
Do white people ever hate themselves? dye their hair black/afro? no they dont,
its embarrassing to say ur attracted to someone who may despise u or not be attracted to you.
I can tell u as a British white man that 98% of White people in this nation would rather prefer their own and think of black women and men as inferior, granted. Not racist but realistic.
I for one do not believe your a female, no way can a female be this degrading, this weak ad this stupid.
. You are one stupid ass idiot! Do white people hate themselves? Of course they do fool! That's why you basters go and get sun tans trying to be darker and be something that you are not with your fake breast, butt and lip injections to create fuller lips that you don't naturally have like black women are born with and lets not talk about those nasty wrinkles you get a 15 years old that you try to erase medically - and who is insecure here? White men have always been sniffing up black women asses since the beginning of time and you know it! There are more white men that hit on me than black because from what they say they get sick of white women fake behind selves - just plastic all the way around from fake body parts to fake personality. Ask Robin Thicke, ha, a white boy who only dated black women and has a black wife and proud of it! I name a few hundred more of him but I will end it here.
free

Jamestown, IN

#74 Aug 24, 2012
you need to learn how to spell, how about that
free

Jamestown, IN

#75 Aug 24, 2012
black women are very exotic and beautiful, who gives a cares what society thinks.
A reader

Astor, FL

#76 Aug 25, 2012
I think some white men might fear rejection. If a white man doesn't know very many black women, he might view her through a stereotypical lens. Stereotypes of black women are not flattering, unfortunately. Often when I see them I wonder at that because none of my friends are like what is portrayed. I know many black women who don't give white men the time of day because they either think they aren't interested in black women so they miss the signs ... or they think that the guy is just interested in a one night stand. So the stereotypes go both ways. By the way, most of my black female friends are educated, Christian, hard working, attractive, work out, and interested in marriage, if they aren't already married.(Most are married.)

I do know black women who date white guys exclusively. In fact, a black female friend of mine is marrying a white man later this year. He is a great guy and they are a good match. If youve not already guessed it, I'm a black female. I've been approached by white men, not a lot, but I've had some interest. I've not dated much, but I've dated outside of my race and within my race. Basically, people are people. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. I believe in treating a man with dignity and respect and I receive the same. My boyfriend is black so race isn't an issue. But if he weren't we would still date because we genuinely like and love one another. Race isn't important to me when it comes to dating or marriage, but the man's character and his intentions towards me are.
John

Alpharetta, GA

#77 Aug 25, 2012
Some of you guys need to get out more. I've seen a lot of beautiful dark skin black women. The white women look more manly with their strong features and square bodies. Most of the black woman in the us are mixed. Every now and then you may see one that isn't. I'm not sure where some of you are from, but white men find the dark skin black women beautiful.
John

Alpharetta, GA

#78 Aug 25, 2012
Paul Ryan, the Republic VP pick, ex is a BLACK WOMAN. Pauls brother is married to a BLACK WOMAN. I can name so many others. So this silly notion that white men don't want black women or black women not being pretty, is silly. This lie is proven false every day. I am willing to bet that some of these negative answers are WHITE Women posing as men. Some white women are so insecure and hateful. All black women don't look manly, just like all white women are not pretty. I've see plenty of big nose white women, masculine face white women. Horrible body white women. Don't be fooled by the media, go outside and see the real white women in the mall or in the grocery stores. Most with fake dyed blonde hair. Why do all white women dye their hair blonde? I quess that is their standard of beauty. I prefer natural hair color without all of the clip in hair pieces. Hispanic, Black, Asians look more exotic, not your boring plane janes with fake boobs and butts.
Dont be silly

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#79 Aug 26, 2012
Caramel wrote:
<quoted text>. You are one stupid ass idiot! Do white people hate themselves? Of course they do fool! That's why you basters go and get sun tans trying to be darker and be something that you are not with your fake breast, butt and lip injections to create fuller lips that you don't naturally have like black women are born with and lets not talk about those nasty wrinkles you get a 15 years old that you try to erase medically - and who is insecure here? White men have always been sniffing up black women asses since the beginning of time and you know it! There are more white men that hit on me than black because from what they say they get sick of white women fake behind selves - just plastic all the way around from fake body parts to fake personality. Ask Robin Thicke, ha, a white boy who only dated black women and has a black wife and proud of it! I name a few hundred more of him but I will end it here.
Come on Caramel, Does it really make you feel better to pretend you don't wish you had long sun colored blond hair and sparkling sapphire-blue or emerald green eyes with a sweet lil nose just above a perfectly formed mouth that has intelligent and insightful things to say?
I'll not get into the fact that our "wrinkled" skin is full of luscious collagen that keeps our pretty breasts perky or that our jeans actually fit nicely over our bums...
What you described above we term "a third world look". Your misrepresentation of us sounds spurious and seems to fit the stereotype I keep reading above. ie: tumultuous and / or riotous. You only debase yourself in your zeal to degrade others to give yourself worth.
ANON505005506

Atlanta, GA

#80 Aug 31, 2012
I am a white man.

I love black women.

I think the term "black" in American society mean more than skin color. It's a cultural thing.

I feel like I am "blacker" than many people with black skin (I look, speak, talk, and act like a normal white guy, but all my friends are black and I feel very at home amongst black people).

I am also VERY attracted to black women. Idk why. It's very odd I will admit. outwardly i dress and act white. i do not speak in ebonics. i am just myself. i wear khakis and new balances, but for some reason i love black women and don't have many white male friends.

however, my grandparents are very "old school". they don't believe in interracial marriages. there are an equal amount of old black people that are against it too (you don't have to be white to be a huge racist) that may be the problem.

Bottom line do not give up on white men. there are many white men that adore "black" women.

you're beautiful. your skin color and body shape are SO appealing.

it might not be easy to find a white man, but the ones that do love black women will be well worth the search.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER IS THAT YOU ARE THE HOLEY GRAIL THAT THAT MAN IS LOOKING FOR!

You're beautiful. Go out and find the man for you.

TO ALL THE WONDERFUL BLACK WOMEN THAT ARE LOOKING FOR A WHITE MAN:

WE ARE OUT HERE AND WE WANT YOU!

DON'T GIVE UP!

PS : The combination makes beautiful babies!

“Pardon my nosiness ”

Since: May 07

London, England

#82 Sep 1, 2012
One of the most beautiful women I ever had the pleasure to meet was a petite twenty something Trinidadian as black as coal, she used to be a customer in my London restaurant with her very white/reddish Irish boyfriend,
I no longer own the restaurant, so I don't know if they ever married.
andet1987

Chicago, IL

#83 Sep 1, 2012
reza june wrote:
One of the most beautiful women I ever had the pleasure to meet was a petite twenty something Trinidadian as black as coal, she used to be a customer in my London restaurant with her very white/reddish Irish boyfriend,
I no longer own the restaurant, so I don't know if they ever married.
hi Reza :)

“Pardon my nosiness ”

Since: May 07

London, England

#84 Sep 2, 2012
andet1987 wrote:
<quoted text>
hi Reza :)
Hi my friend, long time no hear. What are you up to these days?

“Pardon my nosiness ”

Since: May 07

London, England

#85 Sep 2, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
People become racist by being taught.
True but not an excuse, if their own their own brain.
andet1987

Chicago, IL

#86 Sep 2, 2012
reza june wrote:
<quoted text>
Hi my friend, long time no hear. What are you up to these days?
hi Reza :) you lived in USA for a while, right ? you are a dual citizen ? USA and England ?

“Pardon my nosiness ”

Since: May 07

London, England

#87 Sep 2, 2012
andet1987 wrote:
<quoted text>
hi Reza :) you lived in USA for a while, right ? you are a dual citizen ? USA and England ?
Correct andet, but I'm still a citizen of the UK and the EU.
But I have homes in both countries - best of both world's.

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