classylady

Albany, GA

#37 Jul 4, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
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by the wy am from Africa and we r not loud,or obnoxious so please
CORRECT YOURSELF.


Thank you Baby for making that statement!!

Since: Jul 12

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#39 Jul 5, 2012
Sorry for the rant...but CLEARLY I felt some sort of way...and I always will feel very strongly about my one and only original love-jones...my beautiful black woman. Sent as angels down from heaven for those of us not too SCURRED to get into a meaningful relationship with them

Since: Jul 12

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#40 Jul 5, 2012
Well, it looks like my rant hasn't been posted...I'll try again, but maybe its being moderated at the moment...it was not a flaming post or troll response at all, it spoke very highly of black women...not sure why it hasn't shown up. Maybe because I pointed out some obvious racist characteristics about certain groups (white men in particular), but anyways...

looks like no one is following the thread anymore so it was clearly a waste of time LOL

Since: Jul 12

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#41 Jul 5, 2012
I think there are a ton of good points made in this thread (namely the non-incendiary points). But, as usual, its the people who generalize that derail open dialogue. I pray that black women don't let asinine comments from bigot men (likely white men) form an opinion about all white men. Not well thought out comments like, "black women are obnoxious" is so far from the truth. yes, there are plenty of black women I find obnoxious...there are plenty more white women I find equally obnoxious (remember, an obnoxious woman will always be obnoxious, regardless of race, creed, etc.).

First and foremost, OPs thread question was very leading...and led to generalizations about ALL white men being afraid of black woman. The easy answer to OPs question is: It depends on the person. As such, I'll tackle the question from my point of view (and my point of view only...in no way do I speak for ALL white men!).

I've always found black women more attractive than ANY other race, not just white women. It wasn't until college that some (not much, but some) of the clique-iness subsided and I started to see people date outside of their own race more. I dated my first black female in college and since then, I would say 66% of the women I have dated have been black. Again, just my personal preference. My current GF, who I hope to marry, is black and NOT obnoxious lol.

Something I've noticed personally (again, this is just me) was that I initially thought that black women were in fact more approachable and not as stuck up and snobbish as Asian women or white women. Not true, in fact the snobbishness was less related to race and more related to economic status. While my heart of hearts loves saying, "f*** that stuck-up white b****" I realized that money plays a huge role. In high school, the majority of African Americans were middle class, much like myself. In fact, the majority of my school was middle class. However, the more "well off" crowd consisted of mostly white folks...and the white woman of this faction were stuck-up, snobby and unapproachable for this middle-class guy.

Since: Jul 12

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#42 Jul 5, 2012
On the other hand, I found most of the black females I approached (who were likely from a middle class family) were cool and easy to relate to. I think this had a lot to do with my being able to approach black woman more readily. It wasn't until college when I discovered the infamous stuck-up, hacididy black chick...and let me tell you, they were just as bad as the bourgeoisie white broads.

Sorry for the ramble, I will end soon. I think both sides deserve blame for the poor, pitiful stereotypes that exist around interracial couples, especially around blacks dating whites. Even more specifically, black WOMEN dating white MEN. Its abundantly clear that there are a ton more black men dating white women. The reason? I have no idea.

I've heard plenty of trashy white girls say that its because "white boys can't handle me the way black men do." That's all well and good, and may even be true...(but watch what I do here) on AVERAGE! It certainly doesn't mean that EVERY white man has a smaller thing that ALL black men (trust me on this one, but then again, I'm speaking from a personal perspective). On the flip side, just choppin it up with a couple of my black friends that date white girls and they joke that, "they are way easier, much dumber and more likely to pay for everything." I'm just sayin, if someone is making it that easy, wouldn't you take it as well? Low and behold, these last two examples only speak to the people I know.

Regardless, no amount of openness about interracial dating will stop groups of b****-a$$, racist white men from staring at my GF and I...also, no amount of tolerance would prevent that trio of black men calling my girl a race traitor after she spurned their advances (which were done right in front of me, but in this case, this WHITE MAN was SCARED...not of black WOMEN, but the group of racist black MEN LMFAO!)
Loverboiallthat1 985

United States

#43 Jul 5, 2012
Black women are sexy, just to many with dominant attitudes . Not all but 95 percent.I'm 100 percent black here.

“suck”

Since: Apr 12

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#44 Jul 5, 2012
White woman rule!

Since: Jul 12

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#45 Jul 5, 2012
shivawia wrote:
White woman rule!
Must...not...feed...the troll

Good try though...

“Lovin it!”

Since: Jul 12

London

#47 Jul 6, 2012
Not me! I'm a white man dating a black woman and we hope to get married and raise a family one day. She's the most honest, open minded and responsible partner I ever had and I thank God every day for having her in my life.:)
sandrah

Pompano Beach, FL

#49 Jul 9, 2012
not true

“Lovin it!”

Since: Jul 12

London

#52 Jul 15, 2012
whitey mc white wrote:
Well let me see its a visual thing . Let's say your outside the maturnity room and your dad calls to ask who the baby looks like .your mom or grannie Mary but you married a pure blood west African girl. Any chance your offspring resemble your family . No for all practical purposes you end your race . Thousends of years of your blood your people gone forever. Will the baby look like you not achance.I'm not alone in this most black folks feel the same. People have the right to be with who they want and should I just prefer my own kind.that all id at least like a shot that my son would look like me or my race. I don't beleave that's unreasonable erational or racist.
I don't agree because the baby would have half your blood. I really don't get what you are saying. Example, I'm a white English guy, let's say my partner was a white english Celtic like me instead of the pure blood west African she is, then surely the baby would still be only half my blood line anyway, the only difference he/she would be white. And of course the baby would look like its Mum and Dad. All babies do.

“Your religion is NOT in charge”

Since: Nov 11

Columbus

#53 Jul 15, 2012
I've been married to a black woman for almost 15 years.

There are some who might argue about the erosion or dilution of races - to this I say, GOOD! Maybe if we all got over all this racial non-sense, we'd have one less reason to go around killing each other.
Sinclaire

Hackensack, NJ

#54 Jul 15, 2012
Some of these posts are very unintelligent and lack depth and do not really answer this young lady's question. They paint an ugly picture of black woman and we are beautiful in many ways. Also, I don't know where this loud, obnoxious, ghetto image is coming from because that is certainly NOT the majority of the black women of today; at least not in the New York Metro area. More black women are college-educated and entrepreneurs than ever before in history. That ghetto stereo-type and stigma is the worst kind of bullshit and an affront to black women. Yes, many white men are afraid to step out of the box and date us, although they may want to. I had success with online dating because on an interracial site you can find those that really want to pursue an interracial relationship. You just have to be very, very careful and use logic and common sense to weed out the kooks and those that only want a roll in the hay out of some kind of curious fetish. White men, from my experience, want a woman who is an equal on many levels and I don't blame them. We should all aspire to an equal or better and not settle. Our mate should reflect who were are and what we want out of life. I have had no problem dating white men and I am with one now in a serious relationship and he had no problem taking me home to his mama or anybody else. I am the first black women he's ever dated. He is a man that any woman would be proud of. He is well-educated and a business executive. He is proud of what we have and not because I am simply a black woman, but because I am damn good woman, who is well-educated and has it together and I know how to behave with class and dignity. And yes, I am a tall, thick, voluptuous, vibrant thing and he loves it! So sista, yes, white men will date black women, but any good man of any race wants a good woman.
NEW BOOK: Black Woman White Man: A Black Woman's Journey to Love and the Truth about Interracial Dating by Sinclaire Caviness. Itís on Amazon! http://goo.gl/8Hx99
Rick

Chico, CA

#55 Jul 15, 2012
I am scared to date a black woman.
Rodney

UK

#56 Jul 15, 2012
Destiny_frye64 wrote:
Hey guys!
So I am a black women (and pretty one if i do say my self) but white men who I am mostly attracted to will not persue a realationship me. Now that doesnt mean that they wont hook up with me or show me off or take me out on a date but, I think that white men are intimidate, by black women! Now Im not sayin that they arent attracted to black women cause I know thats not true.
Every white guys fantasy is to have sex with a black women. I have had the most ignorant racist biggot white men ask for my number. They are Infatuated with our skin, and the ways our bodies !Beyonce, megan good, or stacy dash, lisa raye the list goes on and on. But put thoes women infront of any man at let me know who walks away?
So what is the reason why they wont bring us home to mother?

Because they feel like they cant compete? Over the last 50 year

or so, black women have taken over the role of , mother, father,

breadwinner and homemaker in attemps to stay current in this socitey. How can one women do all of that with no help from any man? BECAUSE they feel they have too. They have stoped waiting on prince charming to come a sweep them off their feet. They have also stopped having kids with men that wont help provide for them. So lets play in the snow why dont we? NO. The white men will sleep with you, but chances are they will not marry you!
Studies show that currently black women are more educated that white and latino and middle eastern women. With Indian and asian women ranking nubmer one and two.
So is it that fact that Black women are more educated and finacally independent, and more domesticaly stable that white men feel that they can date us? Do we Emasculation them? Or do they feel that that society will?
I wish I wasnt attracted to a race that is typically embarrassed or ashamed to admit their attraction to me. I was raised around white people so I couldn't help it I guess!I'm sure not all white men are like this!!!
Please let me know what you guys think!
Its people like you who made colonialism and slavery possible. How can a b lack woman ever find a race which oppressed them, raped the,, enslaved them and think your backward ever find attractove ten your own men? how desperate can black woman get?

what if whiote men arent attracted to you?

sorryt but as a while Anglo=Saxon male I am never attracted to black men, yes am scared of them because tjhey are too unciovilized and too baclward. I dont find them pshcyally attractive././For me the ligher the girl more hot she is, not just pshycall but mentally.

How can a bglack woman ever be so naive, so gullible and so much of a undignifioed lady to say she is attractive to us? is it any wonder we whites, Asians and Caucasians look down on you? because u aint united enough, u hate ur own people so this makes other people walk over u and think ur weak minded.

Do white people ever hate themselves? dye their hair black/afro? no they dont,

its embarrassing to say ur attracted to someone who may despise u or not be attracted to you.

I can tell u as a British white man that 98% of White people in this nation would rather prefer their own and think of black women and men as inferior, granted. Not racist but realistic.

I for one do not believe your a female, no way can a female be this degrading, this weak ad this stupid.
Rodney

UK

#57 Jul 15, 2012
Sinclaire wrote:
Some of these posts are very unintelligent and lack depth and do not really answer this young lady's question. They paint an ugly picture of black woman and we are beautiful in many ways. Also, I don't know where this loud, obnoxious, ghetto image is coming from because that is certainly NOT the majority of the black women of today; at least not in the New York Metro area. More black women are college-educated and entrepreneurs than ever before in history. That ghetto stereo-type and stigma is the worst kind of bullshit and an affront to black women. Yes, many white men are afraid to step out of the box and date us, although they may want to. I had success with online dating because on an interracial site you can find those that really want to pursue an interracial relationship. You just have to be very, very careful and use logic and common sense to weed out the kooks and those that only want a roll in the hay out of some kind of curious fetish. White men, from my experience, want a woman who is an equal on many levels and I don't blame them. We should all aspire to an equal or better and not settle. Our mate should reflect who were are and what we want out of life. I have had no problem dating white men and I am with one now in a serious relationship and he had no problem taking me home to his mama or anybody else. I am the first black women he's ever dated. He is a man that any woman would be proud of. He is well-educated and a business executive. He is proud of what we have and not because I am simply a black woman, but because I am damn good woman, who is well-educated and has it together and I know how to behave with class and dignity. And yes, I am a tall, thick, voluptuous, vibrant thing and he loves it! So sista, yes, white men will date black women, but any good man of any race wants a good woman.
NEW BOOK: Black Woman White Man: A Black Woman's Journey to Love and the Truth about Interracial Dating by Sinclaire Caviness. Itís on Amazon! http://goo.gl/8Hx99
Noway on Earth would u ever find a attractive sliom whiote intelligent male with a black woman. Its a rearity./

Its noit your business to make us white boys to date b lack women, whats wrog with ur own men? why are u so desperate for another race? thats why in the past white people walked over u and destroyed u, its people like u who make people walkj over ua nd think negative of u, u have no self-respect, no shame and no morals, its like saying I want to shag my master, my rapist, shag a man who looks down o you.

When will u blacks ever become civilized, intelligent, unified and dignified. As a white man I still feel embarrassed about this...Once a black woman asked me out but I said no, not because of her skin color but I just prefer my own women, slim tall white/caucausian and pretty, I have more mentally stimulation with white women, we are more intelligent and more educated, we dont suck up to other races and reject our own like some black women

Why dont some of u black women leave us alone and stop embarrassing yourselves. U really that desperate? I promise u majority of white sexy men never ever will end up with a black woman, not because off racism but because we stick up for our own, its easier thay way, more similar, more mental connection and we get on more, if the white man is thick, desperate, unattractive, large and cant get a fit white woman then he may settle for a black woman lol but thats for the wrong reasons.

Why would a fit sexy intelligent white make ever reject his own white sexy slim blue eyed intelligent educated woman for a black woman? exactly it doesnt make sense, I never i my life see a fit sexy white man wit ha black woman ever.

“Lovin it!”

Since: Jul 12

London

#58 Jul 15, 2012
That last post is crap, I don't believe this is a white guy from the UK. Grammar is all wrong.
dj snazzysniff

Fort Sill, OK

#59 Jul 15, 2012
Rodney wrote:
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Noway on Earth would u ever find a attractive sliom whiote intelligent male with a black woman. Its a rearity./
Its noit your business to make us white boys to date b lack women, whats wrog with ur own men? why are u so desperate for another race? thats why in the past white people walked over u and destroyed u, its people like u who make people walkj over ua nd think negative of u, u have no self-respect, no shame and no morals, its like saying I want to shag my master, my rapist, shag a man who looks down o you.
When will u blacks ever become civilized, intelligent, unified and dignified. As a white man I still feel embarrassed about this...Once a black woman asked me out but I said no, not because of her skin color but I just prefer my own women, slim tall white/caucausian and pretty, I have more mentally stimulation with white women, we are more intelligent and more educated, we dont suck up to other races and reject our own like some black women
Why dont some of u black women leave us alone and stop embarrassing yourselves. U really that desperate? I promise u majority of white sexy men never ever will end up with a black woman, not because off racism but because we stick up for our own, its easier thay way, more similar, more mental connection and we get on more, if the white man is thick, desperate, unattractive, large and cant get a fit white woman then he may settle for a black woman lol but thats for the wrong reasons.
Why would a fit sexy intelligent white make ever reject his own white sexy slim blue eyed intelligent educated woman for a black woman? exactly it doesnt make sense, I never i my life see a fit sexy white man wit ha black woman ever.
Rodney u should speak 4 urself. Culture in the US and UK is different. "black" girls in the US are much, much better lookin and come in better variety. Tho its rear sometimes in texas mall in dallas ull see a clean cut whiteboy with a mixed blackgirl hottie, with their exotic lookin baby girl. But ive only seen that a couple times tho...

However 4 for tha most part u r rite, "hit the nail on tha head"
Anonymous

UK

#60 Jul 15, 2012
The black women in the USA are mixed with white blood or white ancestors so its a bit different. Am also from the UK and here you do not see a white man with a black woman, some could be racists yes but majority just mix with their own.

You may get some white dudes in the U.S with a mix race hottie but is he with them just because of a shag? does he respect them? do they have personality connection? you cannot settle down with someone just because they are good looking, you have to have some mental stimulation I agree, this usually means white men with white women.

I too do not believe in specifically choosing a race, I believe as long as someone is decent ad respectable and somewhat educated then it doesnt matter, but thats the point isnt it? whites tend to get on with whites and blacks with their own, or shall I say blacks tend to argue amongst themselves? here in the UK the only white dudes you see with black women are chavs/trash, uneducated weirdos and guys who white women wont give them the time or day.

I too get on with white women then black women and men, if your from a similar culture, similar background then you have similar connection I believe.

I do not find many black women mentally attractive hence why I never dated a black woman or do not see many white men with black women, but I do agree that black women shouldnt act like they assume white men will want them, this is weak mentality and self-hating. First think and ask yourself would this white man want you for life? does he prefer white women only? does he think black women are immoral and uncivil? when they do not think of this they only lower themselves down, and this can reflect their personality and their character, whereas white men and white women at least are open minded and somewhat more intelligent, thus do not get on with black women.

Whites are indeed superior in all aspects, history has proven that so does present, sure there are some ruthless and bad ones but thats the point, the more intelligent you are the more ruthless ones you can get too. Its easier for white men to mix with their own white women, so its ot always the case we are scared but who we want to share our life with and the fact we find our own women more sexier.
dj snazzysniff

Fort Sill, OK

#61 Jul 15, 2012
i probably wasnt clear in my last post.. but i saw white guy b4.(clean cut), with black girl pushing a stroller with a exotic looking mulatoo baby girl in a dallas mall a couple times

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