Are White men Scared to date Black wo...

Are White men Scared to date Black women? #blackgirlproblems#

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Since: Apr 12

El Cajon, CA

#1 Apr 21, 2012
Hey guys!
So I am a black women (and pretty one if i do say my self) but white men who I am mostly attracted to will not persue a realationship me. Now that doesnt mean that they wont hook up with me or show me off or take me out on a date but, I think that white men are intimidate, by black women! Now Im not sayin that they arent attracted to black women cause I know thats not true.

Every white guys fantasy is to have sex with a black women. I have had the most ignorant racist biggot white men ask for my number. They are Infatuated with our skin, and the ways our bodies !Beyonce, megan good, or stacy dash, lisa raye the list goes on and on. But put thoes women infront of any man at let me know who walks away?

So what is the reason why they wont bring us home to mother? Because they feel like they cant compete? Over the last 50 year or so, black women have taken over the role of , mother, father, breadwinner and homemaker in attemps to stay current in this socitey. How can one women do all of that with no help from any man? BECAUSE they feel they have too. They have stoped waiting on prince charming to come a sweep them off their feet. They have also stopped having kids with men that wont help provide for them. So lets play in the snow why dont we? NO. The white men will sleep with you, but chances are they will not marry you!

Studies show that currently black women are more educated that white and latino and middle eastern women. With Indian and asian women ranking nubmer one and two.

So is it that fact that Black women are more educated and finacally independent, and more domesticaly stable that white men feel that they can date us? Do we Emasculation them? Or do they feel that that soceity will?

I wish I wasnt attracted to a race that is typically embarassed or ashame to admit their attraction to me. I was raised around white people so I couldnt help it I guess!I'm sure not all white men are like this!!!

Please let me know what you guys think!

Since: Apr 12

El Cajon, CA

#2 Apr 21, 2012
bangladeshi saracen

Croydon, UK

#3 Jun 14, 2012
bangladeshi saracen

Croydon, UK

#7 Jun 14, 2012
if you want a man to go crazy over you learn yoga show some of your yoga positions to him/them and yes you will be covered by male genitals. but if some time us guys espeacially me im very shy so if you came up to me and said im attracted to you and i would like you to have some sex with you , well i would be flattered at first but i would say yes so if you want any man well hetrosexual man then you just tell them but of course you want a white male if thats so well it still will work just say to the white male i want to have relation ship with you and he will give you relation as much as you want and you dont need to learn yoga :)

Tacoma, WA

#9 Jun 14, 2012
the type of woman you're talking about isn't exactly the typical black female. if you look at the people you list as examples - beyonce, meagan good, etc - these women are all mixed race, and african is only one part of it. i suspect you also fall into this category.

many of these mixed race 'black' women are some of the most beautiful people in the world by many white guys standards. which can make them very intimidating, as any beautiful woman can be to most men. or they can come off as very high maintenance - which is fine for a short term relationship but not necessarily something a lot of men want in a long term relationship. hence why they may want to go to bed with them but not introduce them to mom. or they may think the woman is so beautiful that they don't stand a chance long term.

but when it comes to actual black women... meaning both parents are solely of African lineage... most of these women are not attractive to white men. that's going to sound racist to some people, but i'm just trying to give an honest answer. i don't have a racist bone in my body and have personally dated more non white women than white (i'm a white 28yo dude). but it is VERY rare that i see a 100% black woman and find her attractive. probably 1 in 500. and i know this is pretty common with white men.(don't shoot the messenger). i don't have an explanation for this, it's just the way it is.

so your question is kind of hard to answer... because the examples given are not typical black women.

i know some men that have sex with a black woman on their bucket list... some of the men you talk about may just want a little variety or may just be curious and wouldn't say no to having sex with a black woman but aren't necessarily looking for that in a long term relationship.

not sure if any of that helps, i just know a lot of men who would agree with it. but probably never admit it to you.

United States

#10 Jun 14, 2012
I think its because black women are labeled as drama queens and no1 likes drama.

Chicago, IL

#13 Jun 16, 2012
are black women going to do a RIOT if nobody dates them ??:)

Tacoma, WA

#14 Jun 17, 2012
I don't know if its a cultural thing or what... but many black women have personalities that white men find completely obnoxious. They often lack class.

Also most black women don't have a very feminine appearance. Their facial bone structure is much more similar to mens than you see in other races.

Since: Apr 12

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#15 Jun 17, 2012
well ... maybe it's not just about the looks of a black women ,it could have to do with families clashing and usually the truth is that a white family would like their son to take home a white women and of course vise versa.

Albuquerque, NM

#16 Jun 17, 2012
I agree mixed race are some of the beautiful women. I for one would NOT date an auntie esther piszed off looking hulking michele obama, but beyonce would be another thing.

London, UK

#18 Jun 17, 2012
Agassi baby wrote:
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by the wy am from Africa and we r not loud,or obnoxious so please
well ...your just prooving the point even more!, also it could help to learn how to spell.

Portland, OR

#22 Jun 20, 2012
I'm a 28yo white/latino guy and I've always been physically attracted to black women. It's not that I fetishize them, I just find them attractive. I'm also attractive, creative and successful and I feel like many black women in my city aren't interested in me, or other friends.
To all black women: There are many nice, interesting white men out there who think you are beautiful.

Charlotte, NC

#26 Jun 22, 2012
Too much over thinking .. I'm a beautiful 23yr old 100 percent African American women and my Husband is blonde hair blue eyes white ... He never was my type ... And I wasn't his. Ppl do often ask my race and I've always found that offensive... A black women can be beautiful and 100 percent black from both sides of her family (umm HELLO) lol ... And honestly from my personal experice I wasn't his type because I do look mixed ! He loves strong features and a strength of a black women ... Therefore maybe it was just the type of white guys you was going after ... His family adores me and mine loves him dearly ... Look for love no matter what race and you'll find it.. You should never categorize people my race .. It's 2012. We've came far but not far enough.

Carlsbad, CA

#27 Jun 24, 2012
Bw are attractive to me, african to creole some of the best looking around. ..... Just saying

Ashland, KY

#28 Jun 24, 2012
Brillo Pad..that is all....

Since: Jun 12


#30 Jun 24, 2012
no, whiye men just need some cash in their wallet at the end of the date, thats all they want.

Perth, Australia

#31 Jun 25, 2012
they dont wash thats why


Since: Jun 12

Poughquag, NY

#33 Jun 25, 2012
Yes very scared.
Since more than half of Black women have an STD

It is very scary to go with a Black woman.

If you sleep with Black women you are playing STD russian roulette

London, UK

#34 Jul 1, 2012
Brillo wrote:
Brillo Pad..that is all....
Dog hair,that's all

Versailles, KY

#35 Jul 1, 2012
sweety wrote:
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Dog hair,that's all
Wrong thread?



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