Tired of being single....

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Since: Mar 10

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#1 Oct 21, 2010
I thought me bein single was all good,since the last relationship I was in the girl did me dirty by cheatin on me the whole time we were apart....Seriously wtf am I doin wrong, I work, etc...Im not your typical granite city asshole and I know how to treat a girl, but I just can't seem to find me one...
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#2 Oct 21, 2010
Quiet1 wrote:
I thought me bein single was all good,since the last relationship I was in the girl did me dirty by cheatin on me the whole time we were apart....Seriously wtf am I doin wrong, I work, etc...Im not your typical granite city asshole and I know how to treat a girl, but I just can't seem to find me one...
Treat 'em badly. Then they will stay.
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#3 Oct 21, 2010
That's what all of the guys that she slept with were doing.

Since: Mar 10

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#4 Oct 21, 2010
Pool Shark wrote:
That's what all of the guys that she slept with were doing.
..But the thing is that Im not like that, I was raised wit good morals...
The Mad Man

Pasadena, CA

#5 Oct 21, 2010
Quiet1 wrote:
<quoted text>..But the thing is that Im not like that, I was raised wit good morals...
But can't spell.

“NM Desert Rat”

Since: Mar 08

Elephant Butte, N.M.

#6 Oct 21, 2010
Quiet1 wrote:
<quoted text>..But the thing is that Im not like that, I was raised wit good morals...
Just be patient. When you least expect it the right person for you will come along.

“NSA”

Since: Jul 10

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#7 Oct 21, 2010
she must have wanted something you wasnt giving her.... if she loved you then she might would have done without it...but if she didnt then what ever it was she wanted meant more to her than your feeling.. what pool shark says does speak some truth..its an odd conception for people to want something like this....but human nature wants what you cant have or the feeling of what cant be tamed if thats makes any sence to you...bear with me and listen up.. if you have a job making 10 bucks an hour...your good for a while but you get use to that and start wanting something that pays 15 an hour because you wanting more..aight to solve ur problem...may be easy..but it may be a psychological one.. so u have to pay attention to details and pattern...what made her want you at first?..think about that..remember the stuff in the beginning that kept her close to you...but also..know her history..that is VERY important..why?..cause if all she has been in relationships with is abusive asshole and your neither...then you might have a problem!!..cause then it is psychological..and untill she gets help or you can show and convience her that is not a normal path she wants or need to take and her make her mind up on it then more than likely she will keep that lifestyle as part of her life..pay attention to the person she cheating on you with...sounds bad and sucks i knw how it sounds...BUT remember its the detail!!..is he like you?..is he totally different?..is he like most of her ex's?..this all mean stuff and is a big part of whats REALLY going on...in the future..if you see something strang or have a ill feeling to something pay attention to it...but dont make it noticable!!..if you catch a lil white lie or find something thats doesnt match up...dont let it be known..get all your facts.. leave traps...and only then do you come forth ...why? cause if it cant be proven and you have no facts then she will just be more carefull and you may never know then!!!..so never have anyone on there toes trying to be carefull cause they think you may suspect even if you do!!..BUT also..to have to do all that means you dont have a honest and trustfilled relationship..that will prolly fall apart anyhow!!..sorry man truth hurts like sht sometime...and here is somemore...if you catch her cheating on you...and you two work it out... you cant bring it up again...refuse to..even when mad dont do it!!..cause it will just push her away...and eat at you at the same time...and no one wins then do they?..if you let it go and you believe she trutly thinks she made a mistake and will NEVER do it again...then you must not treat her as if she has or will cause you will end up without her...AND also..on the womans part...once she has done it once...its not that big a deal again..there is no new door to open..if you understand that..ever heard someome say" i done did it once might as well do it again"?..same thing unless it is ALL different this time around..and truth is mabe its not all her..mabe its you look at both sides at a very detailed way.. good luck...hope everythings works out!!

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#8 Oct 22, 2010
b_rad_ wrote:
she must have wanted something you wasnt giving her.... if she loved you then she might would have done without it...but if she didnt then what ever it was she wanted meant more to her than your feeling.. what pool shark says does speak some truth..its an odd conception for people to want something like this....but human nature wants what you cant have or the feeling of what cant be tamed if thats makes any sence to you...bear with me and listen up.. if you have a job making 10 bucks an hour...your good for a while but you get use to that and start wanting something that pays 15 an hour because you wanting more..aight to solve ur problem...may be easy..but it may be a psychological one.. so u have to pay attention to details and pattern...what made her want you at first?..think about that..remember the stuff in the beginning that kept her close to you...but also..know her history..that is VERY important..why?..cause if all she has been in relationships with is abusive asshole and your neither...then you might have a problem!!..cause then it is psychological..and untill she gets help or you can show and convience her that is not a normal path she wants or need to take and her make her mind up on it then more than likely she will keep that lifestyle as part of her life..pay attention to the person she cheating on you with...sounds bad and sucks i knw how it sounds...BUT remember its the detail!!..is he like you?..is he totally different?..is he like most of her ex's?..this all mean stuff and is a big part of whats REALLY going on...in the future..if you see something strang or have a ill feeling to something pay attention to it...but dont make it noticable!!..if you catch a lil white lie or find something thats doesnt match up...dont let it be known..get all your facts.. leave traps...and only then do you come forth ...why? cause if it cant be proven and you have no facts then she will just be more carefull and you may never know then!!!..so never have anyone on there toes trying to be carefull cause they think you may suspect even if you do!!..BUT also..to have to do all that means you dont have a honest and trustfilled relationship..that will prolly fall apart anyhow!!..sorry man truth hurts like sht sometime...and here is somemore...if you catch her cheating on you...and you two work it out... you cant bring it up again...refuse to..even when mad dont do it!!..cause it will just push her away...and eat at you at the same time...and no one wins then do they?..if you let it go and you believe she trutly thinks she made a mistake and will NEVER do it again...then you must not treat her as if she has or will cause you will end up without her...AND also..on the womans part...once she has done it once...its not that big a deal again..there is no new door to open..if you understand that..ever heard someome say" i done did it once might as well do it again"?..same thing unless it is ALL different this time around..and truth is mabe its not all her..mabe its you look at both sides at a very detailed way.. good luck...hope everythings works out!!
Yeah that is true...I should have noticed something about her whenever she was datin my friend, we kissed while she was still wit em'and also she would always text me and tell me how much she wanted to be wit me and all that...and once we did get together it was all good I introduced her to all my people and everything and they all liked her and was happy for me, and she was tellin me that she loved me and wanted to move where I was at, and that the two of us could get a place together...But when she went back home a week later, I got a phone call tellin me that she had been with someone the whole time we were together...And then she herself wrote me on facebook tellin me she had to much on her plate to be in a relationship and etc, and she also said she was sorry and that she still loved me...

Since: Apr 14

Columbia, TN

#9 Apr 1, 2014
It's hard, but a good girl will come along :)
andet1987

Chicago, IL

#10 Apr 2, 2014
Quiet1 wrote:
I thought me bein single was all good,since the last relationship I was in the girl did me dirty by cheatin on me the whole time we were apart....Seriously wtf am I doin wrong, I work, etc...Im not your typical granite city asshole and I know how to treat a girl, but I just can't seem to find me one...
you are in good hands. your right hand is the best. use it. you don't need women. just use your right hand.

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