Women should tolerate husbands infide...

Women should tolerate husbands infidelity

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Giovani

Lakeland, FL

#1 Apr 28, 2009
Ok, I am not married, but if I do get married I will one day sleep with other women. I really do want a family, but I also want a little meaningless sex on the side from other women. I am a handsome looking guy, I go to the gym and I have a sexy job and women have bedroom eyes for me. Truth is there are so many beautiful women and I can't only have sex with just one woman only for the rest of my life, that's crazy and it is against a man's human nature. I just don't get why a cheating husband is such a big deal in today's culture. Wives of the old days accepted that boys will be boys and families were much happier in those days. I think Oprah, Hollywood and all of these women magazines have really screwed our wives and girlfriends up.

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“i love pits”

Since: Apr 09

wynne Arkansas

#2 Apr 28, 2009
wow i didnt know one person could hold so much stupidity inside their head. you go right on ahead and cheat, and when she finds out and takes you for all you are worth (which im guessing isnt much) then you will wish you hadnt. let me find out my husband is cheating on me, and he will be broke as a joke n never get to see his child!!! do u really want someone to do that to you?
Giovani

Lakeland, FL

#3 Apr 29, 2009
RHud wrote:
wow i didnt know one person could hold so much stupidity inside their head. you go right on ahead and cheat, and when she finds out and takes you for all you are worth (which im guessing isnt much) then you will wish you hadnt. let me find out my husband is cheating on me, and he will be broke as a joke n never get to see his child!!! do u really want someone to do that to you?
This is the kind of reaction I was expecting from a western woman. I just don't understand why the wives do not understand that men need a little sex on the side. It is not like that I don't love my wife or my kids, its just something we men need. It's in a womans nature to have one guy and its in a mans nature to have many women. Plus, I think it can help a marriage because a man can be free and the man will love his wife even more for her understanding.

“Nobody's Purrrfect”

Since: Oct 08

Glen Rock, PA

#4 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
<quoted text>This is the kind of reaction I was expecting from a western woman. I just don't understand why the wives do not understand that men need a little sex on the side. It is not like that I don't love my wife or my kids, its just something we men need. It's in a womans nature to have one guy and its in a mans nature to have many women. Plus, I think it can help a marriage because a man can be free and the man will love his wife even more for her understanding.
Why do you feel it is in a man's nature to get a little on the side, yet it is in a woman's nature to have one man?
If you are not being fulfilled by her in all ways, both mentally and physically, then chances are she isn't being fulfilled either and may seek to "get fulfilled" elsewhere...just like you. I say if you can cheat, so can she. Fair is fair.

“Neither savage nor wise.”

Since: Apr 09

Ripley, TN

#5 Apr 29, 2009
Tolerate it all the way to the bank, they will!

If you weren't such a pig I'd suggest polyamory, but I don't want to be the one to inflict you on that community.

“my paradise”

Since: May 08

Location hidden

#6 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
Ok, I am not married, but if I do get married I will one day sleep with other women. I really do want a family, but I also want a little meaningless sex on the side from other women. I am a handsome looking guy, I go to the gym and I have a sexy job and women have bedroom eyes for me. Truth is there are so many beautiful women and I can't only have sex with just one woman only for the rest of my life, that's crazy and it is against a man's human nature. I just don't get why a cheating husband is such a big deal in today's culture. Wives of the old days accepted that boys will be boys and families were much happier in those days. I think Oprah, Hollywood and all of these women magazines have really screwed our wives and girlfriends up.
If you feel that you can't be faithful to the woman you want to bear your children, then don't bother to get married. That is the purpose of the marriage vow, to forsake all others and become one with your mate. Otherwise, your word means nothing. Your best alternative would be to find a woman who doesn't mind getting a little on the side from a hot young stud and striking the faithful part out of your marriage vows.
Giovani

Lakeland, FL

#7 Apr 29, 2009
Look, I am pro family kind of guy. I am an Italian American, my mother and grandmother are great, I love them, they are great cooks and they treat my dad and grandfather like kings. Basically, I would want a wife that is like them old fashioned and know how to treat a man. Look, I sm not going to be bringing these other women home and parade them in front of everyone. I will have respect and love for the mother of my children, but she should understand that I might be spending longer days at the office so to speak.
Also, its different when a wife or girlfriend sleeps around, than when a guy does it, its not the same thing at all.
Giovani

Lakeland, FL

#8 Apr 29, 2009
Stockholm wrote:
Tolerate it all the way to the bank, they will!
If you weren't such a pig I'd suggest polyamory, but I don't want to be the one to inflict you on that community.
Why am I am pig? I am just being honest. I don't want to have to lie and go behind my girlfriend's or wifes back. I rather she just had an understanding about my sexual needs, thats all. I will not be throwing it in her face. I am not going to be bringing any of these young beauties home. I have more respect for the mother of my children than that.

“Neither savage nor wise.”

Since: Apr 09

Ripley, TN

#9 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
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Why am I am pig? I am just being honest. I don't want to have to lie and go behind my girlfriend's or wifes back. I rather she just had an understanding about my sexual needs, thats all. I will not be throwing it in her face. I am not going to be bringing any of these young beauties home. I have more respect for the mother of my children than that.
This is why I called you a pig:
Giovani wrote:
I am a handsome looking guy, I go to the gym and I have a sexy job and women have bedroom eyes for me. Truth is there are so many beautiful women and I can't only have sex with just one woman only for the rest of my life, that's crazy and it is against a man's human nature.
Your arrogance. Although if you really do want to be respectful, do some research into polyamory and allow your wife/girlfriend another lover as well.
raerae

Redmond, WA

#10 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
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Why am I am pig? I am just being honest. I don't want to have to lie and go behind my girlfriend's or wifes back. I rather she just had an understanding about my sexual needs, thats all. I will not be throwing it in her face. I am not going to be bringing any of these young beauties home. I have more respect for the mother of my children than that.
Respect them more than... what? It sounds as if you have no respect for women at all. But I guess as long as you are honest with the woman about it, then to each their own, I guess. But I don't see how that could be healthy, physically or mentally. You are basically telling your (future) wife that she's not and will never be good enough. You look at her as if she's a possesion to own and not a partner in life. Why would you want to do that to the woman you love? And then you expect it to be okay for you and not for her to cheat? You may be cheating because she's getting older or whatever, but she will probably start cheating on you as well... yes, we cheat for different reasons. She'll be cheating on you because you're cheating on her, which will most certainly hurt her feelings, she'll reach out to another guy for moral support, because you're cheating on her, and that guy'll probably start sleeping with her.

Your mom and grandma probably had other lovers too, if you get your mentality from your family.... you might as well face it. Women have needs to. The world doesn't revolve around you. You admitted that it's in a woman's nature to be with one man... so why would you intentinally hurt the one you love like that?

Perhaps because you've never actually been in love. Maybe this will all change when you find the one.

I have my finger crossed for you.

Since: Oct 07

Location hidden

#11 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
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Why am I am pig? I am just being honest. I don't want to have to lie and go behind my girlfriend's or wifes back. I rather she just had an understanding about my sexual needs, thats all. I will not be throwing it in her face. I am not going to be bringing any of these young beauties home. I have more respect for the mother of my children than that.
You respect the mother of your children enough to bring home STD's? That's just one side of the coin, Giovanni.

How are your children going to have any respect for you, knowing that you have so little respect for your marriage that you'd ... get a little on the side?

I, for one, would not tolerate an 'open' marriage, much less one that boasts only one 'open' door, not two.
Anon

United States

#12 Apr 29, 2009
Marriage represents trust. Infidelity, is the ultimate breaking of that rust. Therefore, OP, you should not get married. You enjoy the bachelor lifestyle, that's understandable.
lol

Columbia, SC

#13 Apr 29, 2009
this is a halirous convo

for starters you're going to get bashed by well pretty much everyone

i wonder how you will turn out when your body starts going wrinkled
anyway not saying you aren't a family guy
but you have your hopes way to much for the perfect woman
a perfect woman (like your mom or grandmother) is probably like that because their husbands treat them like that (with respect)
and not like she's an expendable
lol

Columbia, SC

#14 Apr 29, 2009
btw
i think your being a little selfish
(im a guy)
yes i wouldn't mind having sex with everyone i think is hot
but i would rather enjoy my life married and complete with her instead

get over yourself
lol

Columbia, SC

#15 Apr 29, 2009
NatureLover wrote:
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If you feel that you can't be faithful to the woman you want to bear your children, then don't bother to get married. That is the purpose of the marriage vow, to forsake all others and become one with your mate. Otherwise, your word means nothing. Your best alternative would be to find a woman who doesn't mind getting a little on the side from a hot young stud and striking the faithful part out of your marriage vows.
agreed
though i don't like the alternative but if you could care less

“Hidee ho peoples”

Since: Jul 07

right here

#16 Apr 29, 2009
Here's some advice;
Don't keep loaded firearms in the house.
Keep sharp knives and other sharp objects locked up.
Sleep with one hand in your crotch at all times.

Good luck with this!

“my paradise”

Since: May 08

Location hidden

#17 Apr 29, 2009
lol wrote:
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agreed
though i don't like the alternative but if you could care less
I was only being slightly sarcastic. I just don't understand why a husband would think it's his natural right to seek out other women but doesn't give his wife the same right. We as humans are supposed to be more evolved than basic primal instincts in the 21st Century.

“Nobody's Purrrfect”

Since: Oct 08

Glen Rock, PA

#18 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
Look, I am pro family kind of guy. I am an Italian American, my mother and grandmother are great, I love them, they are great cooks and they treat my dad and grandfather like kings. Basically, I would want a wife that is like them old fashioned and know how to treat a man. Look, I sm not going to be bringing these other women home and parade them in front of everyone. I will have respect and love for the mother of my children, but she should understand that I might be spending longer days at the office so to speak.
Also, its different when a wife or girlfriend sleeps around, than when a guy does it, its not the same thing at all.
It IS possible to find a woman who has all of those qualities AND knows how to spice up the action in the bedroom. It is possible to find the type of woman who will put a feast on the table in the morning before you head to work, will have your supper waiting when you get home, will bring you your evening newspaper, put your slippers on your feet as she massages them, will also massage your ego, will bring your children into the world and raise them right, bake you a freshly made pie a few times a week, keep your house clean, run the children back and forth to soccer practice, etc, but will also turn into a total freak when the lights go out. Perhaps if you found a woman like that you would feel differently about saying one woman would never be enough.
I still stick behind my original post...if you cheat on her b/c your needs aren't being met, then chances are hers probably aren't being met either. After all, by sleeping around and getting some on the side, you wouldn't be giving your wife 100%. Without 100% she may very well start to notice all of those good looking sexy men that she sees when she drops off the kids at soccer practice.
Mabb is back

Clearwater, FL

#19 Apr 29, 2009
Gio, what planet were you born on? First of all you don't know what "respect" or "love" is.

Your values are all messed up. If you don't have a spiritual religion, at least follow the Ten Commandments.

You have an overblown opinion of yourself, and you wish to rewrite marriage laws of every state in WORLD.
KillAllRednecks

New Castle, PA

#20 Apr 29, 2009
Giovani wrote:
Ok, I am not married, but if I do get married I will one day sleep with other women. I really do want a family, but I also want a little meaningless sex on the side from other women. I am a handsome looking guy, I go to the gym and I have a sexy job and women have bedroom eyes for me. Truth is there are so many beautiful women and I can't only have sex with just one woman only for the rest of my life, that's crazy and it is against a man's human nature. I just don't get why a cheating husband is such a big deal in today's culture. Wives of the old days accepted that boys will be boys and families were much happier in those days. I think Oprah, Hollywood and all of these women magazines have really screwed our wives and girlfriends up.
Your mom must have caught syphilis from your dad and if effected your brain.

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